On being alone with a woman

So I met this girl about six months ago in a bar when I was going out in the city. We had a little bit of sexual conversation over text and kept in touch every once in awhile since. Now that I have moved into the city I was done with work today at about 330pm and I called her up to hang out. She wanted it to be like a day date where we walk around the city, I said, "just come to my house and we'll figure out where to go from there". She agrees. She comes over and is very distant on the couch, has her legs crossed and not really looking at me. During conversation she even mentions how she is not "the type of person who does quickies. She doesnt do one night stands" and the old patterns start to flood my head.

"Shit! Sex is not gonna go down", I said to myself. Then I went through a process I have for myself. Its very simple. I just relaaaaxxx. I just sit back on the couch and enjoy her female company. I get on facebook in front of her so she knows "I'm just going about my day...and not focused on sex", which I really wasnt at this point. If sex didnt go down I would be fine with that. Then the time was right, conversation was getting worn out and I scooped her up and placed her body on top of mine on the couch. We both layed in each others arms and talked for a few minutes. I just changed the dynamic a little bit. I didnt go in for sex right when she was on top of me. I just enjoyed conversation with her and she actually is pretty fuckin funny, lol. When that got old I pulled her head towards me and we were kissing. Very light kissing. She needed to be warmed up to me. She needed to relax with me. Then we took a break and started talking again. Also notice how I pushed the limits with her. I'm leading the entire interaction even the conversation. Good stuff.

When the time was right again I bring her into me and we kiss again a little more passionately this time, then I start to get nervous again. My arms around her are lightly shaking which is causing my lips to gently vibrate. Girls can sense this and they know you are nervous. So again, I just reeelllaaaaxxxxeedd and enjoyed kissing this little tootsie pop on my couch, well my friends couch. In turn, she then relaxed and I was able to put my hand in between her legs. Anyway, when the time was right I scooped her up and introduced her to my bedroom. She gave me one of the best blow jobs of my life then I banged the hell out of her. Then we hung out naked and just chatted away again. Then she blew me again.

Dont let a girl throw you off with, "I dont do this or that...quickies!" Just relax and she can relax her vagina, and open the door to bliss. In fact, be so relaxed you can even think about what your gonna do that night or the next day or how you need to clean the cats litter box or whatever. I was actually thinking about how many girls Im going to ask to be in a threesome tonight while Im laying next to her. Just enjoy the female form in your presence. Honestly, I remember when I used to not be able to relax when I finally had a girl in my house alone. "What if I fuck up and she tells everyone??" It turns out nobody gives a shit anyway so just chill out and get laid.