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After a rigorous brief review of your profile it seems that we both enjoy running marathons daily and swimming with baby seals, looking forward to our trip to Paris in a hot air balloon.

her: name the date
me: Howzabout tomorrow muffinbottom.
her: well since you called me muffinbottom...i'm gonna have to say yes.
me: Alright muffinbake I'm good to go around 9ish tomorrow. Be ready to drive tho we might be robbing a bank on the way to our destination


She deleted her account and was gone for like 2 weeks. Last night she sends me:


her: i hope you didn't go ahead with this endeavor without me. but if you did...success?

Justt lookin for a suggestion here it would be really cool to get my first okc/pof date here !!
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@Alex123:
Ha!

I had one of my students send a similar text to your muffinbottom one. Girl said "well since you said it like that.. I'm going to have to say yes." She came over that same night and fucked him. So bizarre these patterns

Do your standard pof number close and start texting her.

K well this Okc stuff is way too nerdy for me shoot me your num or text me ### ### #### I promise I'll only stalk you on Tuesdays ;b
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@Manwhore:

thanks bro you're magic.

She just sent me

her: xxx.xxx.xxxx. Tuesdays aren't good for me..thursdays instead? ;)

that's perfect 'cuz tuesdays are my night off.

lol dont wana fuck this up right now so I'm gona put up the MW signal again for this one
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@Alex123:

btw she lives 30 miles away and i dont have a car :/
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@Alex123:

Not that it matters AT ALL- but when she said, "Tuesday's don't work for me... how about thursdays instead"... she was playin around with your joke... not really setting up a meet..

But it's not a big deal. She's def. down... just letting you know that you still gotta do that part.
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@Alex123:
Minimalist game over text. You need to really play up mysterious factor to get the compliance.
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@Manwhore:

Started texting her today-

Me: GIRL! This bank's got enough cash for our balloon to make it to Paris AND Spain. We'll be the meanest duo on the beach..
Me: Plus I bet you look sexy in a bikini ;)
Her: I'm in one right now! No joke
Her: A bikini not balloon btw.
Me: What color. I'm chilling like a villain in the car, a/c full blast, listening to savage garden. I'm too gangster.
Her: I'm chillin in my hotel room now just finished hot tubbin. My bikini is FANCY.
Me: Good ill be able to spot you easily if you get lost at the waterpark. Glad you're thinking ahead
Her: That's exactly the reason I bought it

MW I get what you're saying about the minimalist- I feel like y texts are too long but I'm not really sure how to condense them...

If anyone could critique how I am doing so far that would be awesome! I'm open to all comments/ suggestions and won't take offense.

Thanks guys
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me: Smart girl. We'll go on the slide & I'll supervise you make sure you don't get bullied by the other children
Her: Thanks. It's a dog eat dog world out there


.........she's not giving me much back. Maybe some of my texts aren't helping? I think i need to cool it on the roleplay shit and bring it back to real life but like.. how do I make her intrigued? how do i be mysterious??

Some pointers right now would be awesome.
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@Alex123:

Lmao can I please get a suggestion here? Anyone.....?
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@Alex123:

What do you guys think about these as convo reopeners:

"What's your favorite place u used to play as a kid"

"What's your favorite place a guy has ever taken you"

"What's your favorite planet"

"What's your favorite dinosaur"

My friend recommended those last 2 and the others I just made up
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So the first texts were last Friday? Then the next group on sat and then nothing else till now??

Manwhore said minimalist text game, which your not doing. Shouldve gone for the meetup. Now that's its been a few days I probably wouldnt go for it straight away. Send her something that has to do what you were joking about and seeds the meetup

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Alex123;858.6613;99 wrote:
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What do you guys think about these as convo reopeners:

"What's your favorite place u used to play as a kid"

"What's your favorite place a guy has ever taken you"

"What's your favorite planet"

"What's your favorite dinosaur"

My friend recommended those last 2 and the others I just made up



Nooooooo!! If you ask a random question like that it'll sound needy and out of place. Look at my last post. It may not be the best idea but it's better than these. You had decent texts but she got bored you weren't over there plowing her.
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@icewahine:

Yeah icewahine your right those aren't good. I sent one and she didnt respond.

I should have sent "No need to be scared of the water babe. I brought extra floaties" or something but sometimes for the life of me I cant think of what to say.

Gona try to save it
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ok so I asked her where she used to play as a kid,

thinking bout now sending:

"We have this waterpark by my house its the shiz. Its really sunny but its fun getting wet"

or something lmao. I cant think of anything I feel like this at least hints that I have a weiner/ more in the direction of meeting up
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Naw dude you actually need to arrange a meetup. None of this beating around the bush anymore.
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Alex123;858.6623;99 wrote:
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ok so I asked her where she used to play as a kid,

thinking bout now sending:

"We have this waterpark by my house its the shiz. Its really sunny but its fun getting wet"

or something lmao. I cant think of anything I feel like this at least hints that I have a weiner/ more in the direction of meeting up



------------

Dude did she reply to that lame question? If not don't send something else.. Especially some gay again. Send her a meetup seed if abything
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@icewahine:

Me: ok girl since the weather sucks I'm just going to beat ur ass at pool.
Me: how does Thursday sound
Her: you can attempt to beat my ass at pool but rest assured you will do no such thing.
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We will have to settle this, with pool.. and ice cream
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@Manwhore:

Sent these before I saw yours

Me: A match of the century eh? Well we'll have to do either thurs or Saturday those are the only times I have off work
Her: Thursday I work 8 to 8 and saturday I work and then have plans after but idk how long they'll take. What city do you live in again?
Me: Xxx- in xxx. We could do after your work thurs if you're up for it. If u have plans Saturday I doubt you'd want to cut them short
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Dude.. *facehammer*

That's exact opposite of the vibe you want to project.

We could do after your work thurs if you're up for it. If u have plans Saturday I doubt you'd want to cut them short


^ What in the gawdamn hell is that. How is a girl going to feel inspired to drive an hr to hang with a dude who obviously thinks he's shit
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@Manwhore:

yeah, that's pretty weak.

Before this though- you spent like 5-6 texts, getting nowhere. Do you see that?

Like, it's totally just a step in the process of learning text game that we all take.

It's like, when you go out sober at night and you just feel REALLY REALLY in state for the first time... it's like, "cool... you KINDA get it"... but all that state is pointless if it's not brought back down to earth, controlled and used properly...

Text game is similar... You have all these awesome texts (really... some of them are pretty funny) but they aren't taking you anywhere... you're spinning wheels and getting nowhere..

Read my text convo entitled, "This girl didn't give me THE TIME OF DAY..." - it's not a super great text convo yet... I'll post up everything once I get the meetup... but it DOES show you, how QUICKLY I'm getting to the point of meeting up with her..

A lot of the work was already done, cause our interaction at the venue was beyond solid- like we chilled the ENTIRE night (prob. 3 hours) so obviously she really likes me. But all that means, is that I can go for the meetup sooner, than another girl who I still have to work via text.

The point of that convo though, is that there were multiple points where she tried to throw off the convo, or avoid my comments- but each time, I playfully brought it back around to the point of why I was texting... even my last text- I left it at a place where, when I'm ready, I can go back in, pretty much at any point, and just IMMEDIATELY bring up the topic of going to her place. At no point, did I allow the conversation to be steered off of the topic I was discussing.... BUT.. I still did it in a playful, kinda funny way (talking about meeting the dog instead of her)

This had the added bonus of actually COMPLETELY shifting the frame of the conversation... Like going from a place where she was like, "no, im busy" and I am chasing her... to me playfully leaving her out of this "make believe hangout sesh with her dog" where she now is the one chasing me and asking if SHE can hang out with ME... at her own place lol

It's a cool convo actually... a lot of little things to take away from it.
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^ VERY good post. Hawt
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@buddhagames:

Left her a solid VM talking about my day & telling her that she'll probly be drinking if she has plans Saturday- which would make her unable to drive to come hang w me.

Her: (1 of 3) SO. I'm in a blackhole right now n don't have enuff service to even receive a fone call. But after some exhausting efforts I was able to get through to
(2 of 3) my voicemail long enough to thoroughlyy enjoy ur messsge. Anyhoo. Are you referring to thursday that begins in an hour and 46 minutes or the thursday
(3 of 3) that begins in a week and an hour and 46 minutes
Me: Ha I'm referring to tomorrow poobear
Her: That's what I was afraid of honey bunches of oats
Me: And why is that
Her: I work 8 to 8 n have plans at 830
Me: Babe cancel them.
I'm worth it.
Her: Ha I'll see what I can do how long does it take to get there
Me: I think ur like 30 miles away
Me: The address is xxxxxxxxxc
Me: Maybe it'll say on your gps how far that is
Her: I'll let you kno in the morning

Well see what happens.. Not really sure what to do if she doesn't text me though. Or says she can't do it
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@Alex123:

Damn. I would meet up with you. Except maybe the last few texts, everything was smooth
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@icewahine:

Shit how would u have handled the last few texts?

I figured I'd need to give her the address at some point anyway and thatd be a good way for her to find out how far it is

Anyway I should text her within the next couple hours to remind her of my awesomeness.

Any ideas?
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@Alex123:

Her just now: Heyy so I have to work at 530 in the morning now they changed my schedule :/
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@Alex123:

Be relentlessly flexible and accommodating. Make it impossible for her to say no.

Block all the exits.

But still be leading the interacting. Always leading towards what you want.
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Yeeeea.

Getcho RAPE GAME on maaang!

I think what he was referring to was you sent 3 texts at the end trying to explain away how far you were. Don't worry about that let her deal with it. By keeping yourself out of that mental process, you put the pressure on her to ignore it and meet up with a cool dude who doesn't worry about shit like that because he KNOWS a girl wants to "hang out". And THAT, is minimalist game. Creating black holes, social vacuums, tension.. through a lack of communication, not trying to overly explain stuff.
Alex123;858.6687;99 wrote:

Left her a solid VM talking about my day & telling her that she'll probly be drinking if she has plans Saturday- which would make her unable to drive to come hang w me.
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Her: (1 of 3) SO. I'm in a blackhole right now n don't have enuff service to even receive a fone call. But after some exhausting efforts I was able to get through to
(2 of 3) my voicemail long enough to thoroughlyy enjoy ur messsge. Anyhoo. Are you referring to thursday that begins in an hour and 46 minutes or the thursday
(3 of 3) that begins in a week and an hour and 46 minutes
Me: Ha I'm referring to tomorrow poobear
Her: That's what I was afraid of honey bunches of oats
Me: And why is that
Her: I work 8 to 8 n have plans at 830
Me: Babe cancel them.
I'm worth it.
Her: Ha I'll see what I can do how long does it take to get there
Me: I think ur like 30 miles away
Me: The address is xxxxxxxxxc
Me: Maybe it'll say on your gps how far that is
Her: I'll let you kno in the morning
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Her just now: Heyy so I have to work at 530 in the morning now they changed my schedule :/

Why is this my problem. You know I'm cool with you not getting any sleep
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@Manwhore:

Fuck I already replied the exact opposite of that:

Me: No problemo girl. You'll still get a good night's sleep


She hasnt responded yet is there anything I can follow that up with that will make her NEED to come see my sexy ass??
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@Alex123:
I'm kidding. Why is this my problem. You know I'm cool with you not getting any sleep
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Prioritize your dick. It is the second cumming of Jesus
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@Manwhore:

Yeah Im trying to give him priority here, sadly she did not reply to the 'im kidding' text
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@Alex123:

She just sent

Her: Psh thanks ha

I want to FUCK this girl
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@Alex123:

Sweet! I just confirmed the meetup for this sunday evening with the gal from my other thread. We're gonna have sex.
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Wells fargo's moving a lot of "weight" this thursday. Are you down to drive. Wear something sexy if you are. We have to match
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@Manwhore:

Me: Wells fargo's moving a lot of "weight" this thursday. Are you down to drive. Wear something sexy if you are. We have to match
Her: ...is that code for something
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Code for a good ass time! If you cant make it thats cool Ill just assume youre gay
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@Manwhore:

Damn this is a sweet-ass thread. Or sweet ass-thread.

So many good reframes and boss perceptions of her texts.

Manwhore that description of minimalist text game was really interesting. But how the hell did you know to act like that after only the first few texts? Where's the signal that you should do minimalist on her. Like maybe cause she was replying and down so you create some tension and space to let it breath and pull on the elastic a bit? I think that sounds right... But how the flip did you get that from those first few texts.
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@Manwhore:

Me: Code for a good ass time! If you cant make it thats cool Ill just assume you're gay
Her: Well we can't have that
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me: Girl what size batsuit you wear. I got to get you suited up for this thursday. You still down?
her: Batsuit? As in batman? I was down until that point
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Look. I just like taking themed trips to the ice cream shop. Don't be a hater it gives you wrinkles
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@

Me: Look. I just like taking themed trips to the ice cream shop. Don't be a hater it gives you wrinkles
Her: I'm fully stocked on antiaging serum but I appreciate the concern
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See that was your last chance to stop being a fucker and come to terms with the fact you love me. Don't fight me on every damn little thing. If I want to make sure yer not getting wrinkles DONT TRY TO STOP ME.
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@Manwhore:

Me: See that was your last chance to stop being a fucker and come to terms with the fact you love me. Don't fight me on every damn little thing. If I want to make sure yer not getting wrinkles DONT TRY TO STOP ME.
Her: Oh my. Cranky. Someone needs to put you to bed
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@Alex123:

little back and forths like this can amp attraction but It'll get old eventually. So you'd either need to get real or get on the same team.. Or maybe I'm lying, just a thought
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@icewahine:

I know what you're saying.

K guys I'm going to send this pretty soon unless someone has a better idea-
(she knows I'm a camp counselor)

Me: It's cool I gave my kids naptime earlier. Anyways bootymuffin shall I expect to see you tomorrow
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Solid.

Understand this girl is acting slightly poopish so if she acts like a turd just be ready to cut her off for a few days.
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@Manwhore:

Yeah I'm not holding my breath. It's been cool going thru this process though I REALLY appreciate your guidance on this. I know if I keep trying ONE day I'll start getting dates.....and then EVENTUALLY... ill be able to fuck these girls!! Haha

So Im happy regardless.

Me: It's cool I gave my kids naptime earlier. Anyways bootymuffin shall I expect to see you tomorrow
Her: Idk what are we doin
Me: Spanking yer butt in pool & getting delicious ice cream. Maybe a brewski if u behave

She hasn't responded yet
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Aww fark.
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@Manwhore:

Looks like she's not replying so Ill let this breath for a few days then... I'm only out here one more week and next weekend were going to be cleaning/packing/ leaving, sooo chances of meeting up are slim to none.

Goshh well I tried