2 days to seal the deal
Thu, 08/09/2012 - 09:01
1st of all i'd like to say that i really need to use the resources available on this website so i know how to handle situations better and avoid asking generic questions. Accessing a comp is kind of a pain in the ass right now and im being flooded with work at Abercrombie & Fitch, I come back home tired AF. i need to fix that
Back to the situation. I opened this Italian hottie tonight (can't stray from Foreign exchange girls :P) on the bus back from work, mainly because i had recognized her. Last week, I went into the wrong apartment room looking for this French girl i was supposed hang with. HOT DAAANNNNGGG.... Instead i saw this Italian in the kitchen and for a sec i felt like ditching the French girl LOL, the way she was talking to me was just so inviting and i think she knew that. I bounced.
Anyways she ended up recognizing me. We fluff talked for the most part till we were in front of her apartment compound. Somewhere in the middle of the interaction she realized she lost her phone on the bus and so I stopped another bus to track the bus we got off. They found nothing. What I liked about her and i let her know, this is the fact that she did not go nuts and overly freak out over a phone, ive met too many girls like that and i hate that shit. It was easy for me to keep her in a positive headspace because of that. Otherwise as far as i am concerned i would have been done for the night.
We talked some more and she started talking about how different of a Cameroonian i am, and qualifying herself. She was also saying she can cook better African food than I can. I lolled but its probably true. she asked me what i was doing tonight, i told her I needed to go home cuz its cold AF and i was super hungry, She asks to exchange FB contact.
She scrambled through her backpack and shit was falling out. I picked up this small funny looking wrap which was like cardboard thick. I asked her what it was and she snatched it, shoved it in her backpack as i tried to get it back lol. She wouldn't tell me what it was . Anyways she finally pulled out a pen out of her backpack but didn't know where to write her name, i have to the feeling she was about to write it on me... uhm no. She went back into her backpack and pulled out the same wrap, she said it's a gift and wrote on her name on it. At one point after that i said something along the lines of "ill make sure to put it to good use" with a straight face. She cracked up, I knew it was a condom and she called me out on it. Kinky shit.
I left her with a hug. Got home then she called me saying she found her phone (long story), she was all happy and shit, she asked me again what i was doing lol WTF yo. I know this is some invitation to go out but i was honestly tired as hell and the logistics were just all wrong. Told her we would hang out after i work tomorrow though, she's leaving Saturday, i got to move fast yo! :P
I stay with my cousin and her bf. Pulling won't be impossible but they got to be asleep so i can sneak her through the back or something. Meanwhile i don't know what we're going to do. im also freaking out in my head thinking about how i should hard or subtle i should be about escalation gawd damn it.
Back to the situation. I opened this Italian hottie tonight (can't stray from Foreign exchange girls :P) on the bus back from work, mainly because i had recognized her. Last week, I went into the wrong apartment room looking for this French girl i was supposed hang with. HOT DAAANNNNGGG.... Instead i saw this Italian in the kitchen and for a sec i felt like ditching the French girl LOL, the way she was talking to me was just so inviting and i think she knew that. I bounced.
Anyways she ended up recognizing me. We fluff talked for the most part till we were in front of her apartment compound. Somewhere in the middle of the interaction she realized she lost her phone on the bus and so I stopped another bus to track the bus we got off. They found nothing. What I liked about her and i let her know, this is the fact that she did not go nuts and overly freak out over a phone, ive met too many girls like that and i hate that shit. It was easy for me to keep her in a positive headspace because of that. Otherwise as far as i am concerned i would have been done for the night.
We talked some more and she started talking about how different of a Cameroonian i am, and qualifying herself. She was also saying she can cook better African food than I can. I lolled but its probably true. she asked me what i was doing tonight, i told her I needed to go home cuz its cold AF and i was super hungry, She asks to exchange FB contact.
She scrambled through her backpack and shit was falling out. I picked up this small funny looking wrap which was like cardboard thick. I asked her what it was and she snatched it, shoved it in her backpack as i tried to get it back lol. She wouldn't tell me what it was . Anyways she finally pulled out a pen out of her backpack but didn't know where to write her name, i have to the feeling she was about to write it on me... uhm no. She went back into her backpack and pulled out the same wrap, she said it's a gift and wrote on her name on it. At one point after that i said something along the lines of "ill make sure to put it to good use" with a straight face. She cracked up, I knew it was a condom and she called me out on it. Kinky shit.
I left her with a hug. Got home then she called me saying she found her phone (long story), she was all happy and shit, she asked me again what i was doing lol WTF yo. I know this is some invitation to go out but i was honestly tired as hell and the logistics were just all wrong. Told her we would hang out after i work tomorrow though, she's leaving Saturday, i got to move fast yo! :P
I stay with my cousin and her bf. Pulling won't be impossible but they got to be asleep so i can sneak her through the back or something. Meanwhile i don't know what we're going to do. im also freaking out in my head thinking about how i should hard or subtle i should be about escalation gawd damn it.
Thu, 08/09/2012 - 11:11
#1
Re: 2 days to seal the deal
Yo. Wtf.
She was trying to fuck her and you refused. I can't help you if you're gay
She was trying to fuck her and you refused. I can't help you if you're gay
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Thu, 08/09/2012 - 13:28
#2
Re: 2 days to seal the deal
@Ghettoguru:
agreed with manwhore. how are you too tired to fuck a hottie, as soon as you she gave you a boner you would have had the energy. I recommend reading awaken the giant within. helped me a lot with state management and being more solid. Combined with tolle, those two books alone will improve your game A LOT.
agreed with manwhore. how are you too tired to fuck a hottie, as soon as you she gave you a boner you would have had the energy. I recommend reading awaken the giant within. helped me a lot with state management and being more solid. Combined with tolle, those two books alone will improve your game A LOT.
Fri, 08/10/2012 - 03:04
#3
Re: 2 days to seal the deal
Ya I was making a joke but my underlying point remains the same.. she gave you more than one opportunity to push things forward with her and you didn't. Why is that.
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Fri, 08/10/2012 - 08:35
#4
Re: 2 days to seal the deal
I knew it was a condom and she called me out on it -> She asked you for your dick.
she was all happy and shit, she asked me again what i was doing lol WTF yo -> No but seriously she wanted your dick that very goddamn moment.
This is why girls say that guys are dumb.
she was all happy and shit, she asked me again what i was doing lol WTF yo -> No but seriously she wanted your dick that very goddamn moment.
This is why girls say that guys are dumb.
Fri, 08/10/2012 - 21:12
#5
Re: 2 days to seal the deal
Yeah it's not like i was scared or didn't know what she wanted. My stubborn ass just didn't want to do it that night lol :P
Yesterday i texted her, did a HORRIBLE job. Also ive been taking too long to reply to her texts but here it is:
Me: Heading to work right now, should be awesome! what mischief are you causing today Nelly?
Her: Nothing why?
Me: Seeing your availability. Going to call when im off work <-- (can't believe i sent that)
*called her and left a message. Tried to get her out*
30 mins later
Her: I'm fuckin high and tired (wtf -.-)
Me: Ya im very tired too, heading to freebirds (food) to re-energize, you're welcome to tag along :)
*Phone dies...FUCK.*
Her: I am introducing my rommates to sm friends hm
Me: (2AM) To some friends home?
Today:
Her: Yeah sry was sleeping already. How r u
Me: Just woke up, my best friend is coming this afternoon, im psyched. How are you feeling?
Her: I feel still good but i'm going to take pills now lol. When is he coming
Me: Glad you're feeling positive i like that :) he's going to be here at 6:30. what sucks is that i am working until 8 ;P
Her: Ok fuuuuck (what?)
I feel like im going to blow it again if i keep this up on the phone. Im going to her apartment compound tonight to meet up with some german dudes, should i knock at her door and improvize from there?
@ Kris Ya dude, when i come back from work so late im like braindead. Went to a party last night and didn't have energy for it, sometimes i zone out when talking to people. This started around the time i started working again
Yesterday i texted her, did a HORRIBLE job. Also ive been taking too long to reply to her texts but here it is:
Me: Heading to work right now, should be awesome! what mischief are you causing today Nelly?
Her: Nothing why?
Me: Seeing your availability. Going to call when im off work <-- (can't believe i sent that)
*called her and left a message. Tried to get her out*
30 mins later
Her: I'm fuckin high and tired (wtf -.-)
Me: Ya im very tired too, heading to freebirds (food) to re-energize, you're welcome to tag along :)
*Phone dies...FUCK.*
Her: I am introducing my rommates to sm friends hm
Me: (2AM) To some friends home?
Today:
Her: Yeah sry was sleeping already. How r u
Me: Just woke up, my best friend is coming this afternoon, im psyched. How are you feeling?
Her: I feel still good but i'm going to take pills now lol. When is he coming
Me: Glad you're feeling positive i like that :) he's going to be here at 6:30. what sucks is that i am working until 8 ;P
Her: Ok fuuuuck (what?)
I feel like im going to blow it again if i keep this up on the phone. Im going to her apartment compound tonight to meet up with some german dudes, should i knock at her door and improvize from there?
@ Kris Ya dude, when i come back from work so late im like braindead. Went to a party last night and didn't have energy for it, sometimes i zone out when talking to people. This started around the time i started working again
Tue, 08/14/2012 - 05:21
#6
Re: 2 days to seal the deal
So Friday i hit Nelly up and left a brief message
*1 hour later*
Her: Hey wassup
Me: Dealing with clothes at Abercrombie for 4 hours. Then we go on an adventure tonight, it's your last day ;)
Her: Have been at Abercrombie with a friend, didn't see u
Me: I'm at the back lol. Ask for me
Her: it's ok :)
Me: All good. So you're just walking around?
Her: Searching for jordans
Me: There is a place by the Verizon store that might have them
Her: Crossover? Already checked. They don't have my size
Me: Someone must have cute little feet. What size do you wear?
Her: Haha no i have 9.5. I'm bigfoot
*1 hour later*
Her: I just heard ur voicemails
Her: what's going on at Tropicana tonite hm
Called Nelly when i got off work, went over to her place with my buddy. She was in the middle of packing her belongings, as her 3 roomies were engaging me and my buddy. She eventually took a break, i joined her in the kitchen, we sat on a stool and drank tea she made. Did kino here and there, i forgot what we talked about but she sort of a teaser :P Meanwhile my buddy was doing a great job keeping the Swedish girls' attention in the living room, he's a great conversationalist and got game. One of the Swedish roomies was trying to call Nelly out on "having American penis everyday", Nelly was really trying to convince me otherwise, this may have had a negative effect later that night. But i was very light-hearted about it and saying "Oh what a baller!"
We eventually join the gang in the living room, one spot on the couch and she sits. Told her to get up, and as i was about to sneak into her spot and pull her onto my lap, but i think i made it too obvious. she walked away and sat on a seat across the room, we laughed.
Fast forward nelly slowly started falling asleep on that seat after talking to some dude and one of the roomies. I did not bother going over because it would have made me look needy, at least that's how i felt that moment. Her roomie tried to draw a penis on her face, she got pissed off. She scurried to the bathroom to remove it and when she came back she sat next to me. Mistake i did was giving her minimal attention at that time, only playing with her thigh and massaging it. I was engaging the whole room for the most part, she started falling asleep again and this time on my shoulder.
I started stressing about what i should do, i prob should have lifted her to her bedroom but i had a brainblock. Making excuses in my head as to why i should not do it, i.e: her friends are watching, they prob don't trust me, Nelly would react badly. I just cared too much, it's rough without alcohol -.-
Fast forward she walked to her bedroom, i eventually joined her. I found her fixing up her bed, i then dove on her bed and she said something along the lines of "you're not sleeping on my bed" i completely ignored it. She came out of the bathroom wearing PJs and layed right next to me with the sleeping mask on and got under the sheets laying on her back.
I got into my head again and prob did something stupid, i told her to turn her head to face me, then i gave her a peck on the lip. She lolled, turned her head to face the ceiling again, this time pulling the sheet up on her mouth. We talked some more, i said something to which she replied "I don't trust you", tried to flip the script but didn't have much to follow up with it.
She eventually fell asleep and i joined the rest of them in the living room. My buddy got all the girls to discuss sex, penis size, BJ's, how they viewed sex and how they valued it. It was REALLY fun even for the girls, This reminded me of Manwhore's Podcast on being sexual, he said "be open about your sexuality", definitely noted something here. After the girls found out i had not been laid that much, they tried to encourage me to get back at Nelly even though she was asleep, i didn't bother.
Anyways i went home with my dick in my hand. Texted her Saturday morning and wished her a safe flight, she said thanks.
Midnight hits the clock, im at a party and she texts me out of the blue, i though i was DONE.
Her: wyd (what you doing)
*9 hours later*
Me: Just had my beauty sleep, nights in IV are always long :P Did you get to Germany alright?
Her: I'm in Chicago still
Me: Yeah i forgot they would have you wait for ages. Where's your next flight leading you to?
Her: Frankfurt at 2:33, Cali time 12:33
Me: I've been thinking of Visiting Europe next summer for a while now. France because of family and Frankfurt because it's the place to be at apparently
Her: Haha :) u should visit Italiy!! It's so much better than Germany
Me: Italy is great too :) The romantic gondolas, Tasty pasta dishes and the leaning tower
Her: yes
*like 3 hours later*
Her: Bb im on the plane u can text me on FB
So yeah i got some resistance at the end there and i think some of it had to do with her roommate accusing her of being a slut.
*1 hour later*
Her: Hey wassup
Me: Dealing with clothes at Abercrombie for 4 hours. Then we go on an adventure tonight, it's your last day ;)
Her: Have been at Abercrombie with a friend, didn't see u
Me: I'm at the back lol. Ask for me
Her: it's ok :)
Me: All good. So you're just walking around?
Her: Searching for jordans
Me: There is a place by the Verizon store that might have them
Her: Crossover? Already checked. They don't have my size
Me: Someone must have cute little feet. What size do you wear?
Her: Haha no i have 9.5. I'm bigfoot
*1 hour later*
Her: I just heard ur voicemails
Her: what's going on at Tropicana tonite hm
Called Nelly when i got off work, went over to her place with my buddy. She was in the middle of packing her belongings, as her 3 roomies were engaging me and my buddy. She eventually took a break, i joined her in the kitchen, we sat on a stool and drank tea she made. Did kino here and there, i forgot what we talked about but she sort of a teaser :P Meanwhile my buddy was doing a great job keeping the Swedish girls' attention in the living room, he's a great conversationalist and got game. One of the Swedish roomies was trying to call Nelly out on "having American penis everyday", Nelly was really trying to convince me otherwise, this may have had a negative effect later that night. But i was very light-hearted about it and saying "Oh what a baller!"
We eventually join the gang in the living room, one spot on the couch and she sits. Told her to get up, and as i was about to sneak into her spot and pull her onto my lap, but i think i made it too obvious. she walked away and sat on a seat across the room, we laughed.
Fast forward nelly slowly started falling asleep on that seat after talking to some dude and one of the roomies. I did not bother going over because it would have made me look needy, at least that's how i felt that moment. Her roomie tried to draw a penis on her face, she got pissed off. She scurried to the bathroom to remove it and when she came back she sat next to me. Mistake i did was giving her minimal attention at that time, only playing with her thigh and massaging it. I was engaging the whole room for the most part, she started falling asleep again and this time on my shoulder.
I started stressing about what i should do, i prob should have lifted her to her bedroom but i had a brainblock. Making excuses in my head as to why i should not do it, i.e: her friends are watching, they prob don't trust me, Nelly would react badly. I just cared too much, it's rough without alcohol -.-
Fast forward she walked to her bedroom, i eventually joined her. I found her fixing up her bed, i then dove on her bed and she said something along the lines of "you're not sleeping on my bed" i completely ignored it. She came out of the bathroom wearing PJs and layed right next to me with the sleeping mask on and got under the sheets laying on her back.
I got into my head again and prob did something stupid, i told her to turn her head to face me, then i gave her a peck on the lip. She lolled, turned her head to face the ceiling again, this time pulling the sheet up on her mouth. We talked some more, i said something to which she replied "I don't trust you", tried to flip the script but didn't have much to follow up with it.
She eventually fell asleep and i joined the rest of them in the living room. My buddy got all the girls to discuss sex, penis size, BJ's, how they viewed sex and how they valued it. It was REALLY fun even for the girls, This reminded me of Manwhore's Podcast on being sexual, he said "be open about your sexuality", definitely noted something here. After the girls found out i had not been laid that much, they tried to encourage me to get back at Nelly even though she was asleep, i didn't bother.
Anyways i went home with my dick in my hand. Texted her Saturday morning and wished her a safe flight, she said thanks.
Midnight hits the clock, im at a party and she texts me out of the blue, i though i was DONE.
Her: wyd (what you doing)
*9 hours later*
Me: Just had my beauty sleep, nights in IV are always long :P Did you get to Germany alright?
Her: I'm in Chicago still
Me: Yeah i forgot they would have you wait for ages. Where's your next flight leading you to?
Her: Frankfurt at 2:33, Cali time 12:33
Me: I've been thinking of Visiting Europe next summer for a while now. France because of family and Frankfurt because it's the place to be at apparently
Her: Haha :) u should visit Italiy!! It's so much better than Germany
Me: Italy is great too :) The romantic gondolas, Tasty pasta dishes and the leaning tower
Her: yes
*like 3 hours later*
Her: Bb im on the plane u can text me on FB
So yeah i got some resistance at the end there and i think some of it had to do with her roommate accusing her of being a slut.
Tue, 08/14/2012 - 06:17
#7
Re: 2 days to seal the deal
@Ghettoguru:
I think you should have tried harder to bang her.
If I'm wrong someone correct me.
I think you should have tried harder to bang her.
If I'm wrong someone correct me.
Tue, 08/14/2012 - 08:47
#8
Re: 2 days to seal the deal
Oh gawd..
Well 80% of the guys on THIS forum would have fucked her. Congratz on making the top 20%!
Well 80% of the guys on THIS forum would have fucked her. Congratz on making the top 20%!
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Tue, 08/14/2012 - 10:12
#9
Re: 2 days to seal the deal
Wait manwhore, is that a good thing or are you being sarcastic?
Tue, 08/14/2012 - 10:47
#10
Re: 2 days to seal the deal
I'm being sarcastic bro. Not trying to be mean, but if next time something like this happens you imagine a big bad angry Manwhore in the sky looking down on you disapproving.. you might work a bit harder, push a little more, and actually fuck a bish.
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Wed, 08/15/2012 - 07:42
#11
Re: 2 days to seal the deal
Yeah it is really frustrating for me how i come so close, then trip several steps backwards because i'm not willing to escalate further.
At this point, my buddy says she prob now sees me as BF material which is why she still hit me up after i fcked up. Dunno where the "bb" came from, she never called me that btw.
At this point, my buddy says she prob now sees me as BF material which is why she still hit me up after i fcked up. Dunno where the "bb" came from, she never called me that btw.
Mon, 08/20/2012 - 21:17
#12
Re: 2 days to seal the deal
OMFG
Just shot myself on the foot. freaking A. Tried to experiment with sexting *sigh*
Hit her up on FB last Thursday:
Me: So I presume you made it back in one piece
Must have been rough with the long flight, the shrieking babies, the flight attendant who won't give you the attention you need
Her: hahaha there were 2 babies!! (???)
Today:
Me: Hmmm ya babies usually don't like flying so they cry a lot lol.
Welcome back to germany, bet that flag looks good on your wall.
Her: yeah really good
its too hot here!
100 degrees
and i got school always about to black out
Me: better rub on that sunscreen, kinky way preferred.
You just came back from school though, when are you going back?
Her: no its 9pm
Me: 100 degrees at 9pm?
Her: not anymore
it was like that today and yesterday
now its like 85
Me: that's a hot evening temperature. I can't sleep with that
ill prob be bothering you all night
Her: hahaha yes
Me: to make it worse, even in that kind of weather i till have to have the bedsheet cover half my body
balance the heat and cold lol
Her: i need a sheet too
always
Me: have you even woken up with half your body off the bed?
Her: haha i woke up on the floor
u?
Me: lol i woke up as soon as i fell on the floor
you move when you sleep
Her: smtimes i do
Me: yeah and you probably kick people off the bed
Her: haha how do u know
Me: I do it myself, im greedy about the bedspace when i sleep
Me: (3 mins later) and when it comes to you and me, we'll be fighting with our legs, ill probably win. ;D
Her: no u wont! :D
Me: >:D watch out im sliding down, taking your sexy lil legs and pinning
Her: aaaah rapeeee
Me: Then i put your thighs over my shoulders
slowly lean over to that sugarface
sensually rubbing noses
Me: (5 mins later, i knew i fcked up) and leave the rest to your imagination.
WHat mischief are you causing?
Her: im eating
stop that nasty stuff
u dont have to tell me whats happening on the porn u watchin
Me: ya i hate nasty stuff when im eating. What is that tasty meal you're having?
Her: rice
Me: with?
fck this im going to do day game later :P
Just shot myself on the foot. freaking A. Tried to experiment with sexting *sigh*
Hit her up on FB last Thursday:
Me: So I presume you made it back in one piece
Must have been rough with the long flight, the shrieking babies, the flight attendant who won't give you the attention you need
Her: hahaha there were 2 babies!! (???)
Today:
Me: Hmmm ya babies usually don't like flying so they cry a lot lol.
Welcome back to germany, bet that flag looks good on your wall.
Her: yeah really good
its too hot here!
100 degrees
and i got school always about to black out
Me: better rub on that sunscreen, kinky way preferred.
You just came back from school though, when are you going back?
Her: no its 9pm
Me: 100 degrees at 9pm?
Her: not anymore
it was like that today and yesterday
now its like 85
Me: that's a hot evening temperature. I can't sleep with that
ill prob be bothering you all night
Her: hahaha yes
Me: to make it worse, even in that kind of weather i till have to have the bedsheet cover half my body
balance the heat and cold lol
Her: i need a sheet too
always
Me: have you even woken up with half your body off the bed?
Her: haha i woke up on the floor
u?
Me: lol i woke up as soon as i fell on the floor
you move when you sleep
Her: smtimes i do
Me: yeah and you probably kick people off the bed
Her: haha how do u know
Me: I do it myself, im greedy about the bedspace when i sleep
Me: (3 mins later) and when it comes to you and me, we'll be fighting with our legs, ill probably win. ;D
Her: no u wont! :D
Me: >:D watch out im sliding down, taking your sexy lil legs and pinning
Her: aaaah rapeeee
Me: Then i put your thighs over my shoulders
slowly lean over to that sugarface
sensually rubbing noses
Me: (5 mins later, i knew i fcked up) and leave the rest to your imagination.
WHat mischief are you causing?
Her: im eating
stop that nasty stuff
u dont have to tell me whats happening on the porn u watchin
Me: ya i hate nasty stuff when im eating. What is that tasty meal you're having?
Her: rice
Me: with?
fck this im going to do day game later :P