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Had a first date with this super nerdy chick...cute but nerdy. She was awkward as fuck. We kissed but it was awkward as fuck too... her lips were all dry and cracked and my mouth was kinda dry and I wasn't that into it. She abruptly ended the date after. I texted her the day after asking if she got home safe, normally she texts back right away but she took hours to respond.

Should I bother re-engaging or did the bad kiss ruin it?

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You could probably call her

You could probably call her out on it. Make her cry.. "You were a terrible first kiss lol" 

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Should I just send that or

Should I just send that or send a funny re-engagement text first?

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If it really was awkward I

If it really was awkward I would call her out. She could open up a little. It sounds like this might not even be worth salvaging so you could at least start understanding why it was so awkward from her POV. What was awkward about the date to you?

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Well for starters when I

Well for starters when I first met her I was going to give her a hug but she quickly stuck out her hand for a handshake. She also seemed nervous and uptight but slowly started loosening up. We bounced to a second bar and were going to bounce to a third but after I kissed her she said let's call it a night.

She comes from an acedemic background so I don't think she goes out much...

I think her awkwardness rubbed off on me which probably made the kiss shitty too...

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Yeah it just sounds like a



Yeah it just sounds like a case of no chemistry. Do you really want to salvage this? Doesn't sound worth it...

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Yeah I would send it. Either

Yeah I would send it. Either it will force her to open up because youv'e rightfully stripped her of feminine validation (in cases like this it's ok), or she will just find somewhere to curl up into a ball and die. Either one would be fine 

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Manwhore you are hilarious

Manwhore you are hilarious bro, I will try it and report back. Thanks!

Thanks G-money for the feedback as well. Either way it goes I consider this a learning experience.

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Okay maybe I was a little too

Okay maybe I was a little too harsh? I tried to soften it at the end there but she did not respond back:

Me: You were a terrible first kiss lol 10:06 AM

Her: Blame the wine ;) 12:01 PM

Me: what was that wine brand anyway? 12:10 PM

Her: Haha are you making a note of that for future reference? 12:13 PM

Me: Yes I will petition the manufacturer to update the warning label 12:20 PM

Her: Wow this must have been a REALLY bad kiss 12:28 PM

Me: In all fairness my timing was off too ;-) 12:30 PM

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What did I just read 

What did I just read 

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nickogilvie wrote: Me: In

nickogilvie wrote:

Me: In all fairness my timing was off too ;-) 12:30 PM

see what you did there nick? You created tension but instead of owning it and allowing her to snap to it you chickened out and deflated it causing her to think you're a pussy and also pissing off G-Money lol 

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Thanks Jack. See I thought I

Thanks Jack. See I thought I was being too harsh, but I guess I was wrong...

Oh well. Any thoughts on salvaging this one or should I just let it go?

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Blame the wine ;)" was like a

Blame the wine ;)" was like a fork in the road. You could have gone one way and had fun but instead you went the other and went logical.

You were the furthest thing from too harsh

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You took the ENTIRE point of

You took the ENTIRE point of what we were trying to do.. and made it suck another dude's dick. 

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