How long do you stay in set?
Last night i made out with some real hotties, and got a blowjob from one but didn't fuck, she said she has to go find her friends when she was done and left, lol.
Anyways, there was one set in which i set the right frame from the start, everything was going well but at some point both girls said they have a boyfriend, to which i think i replied "oh no" with a sarcastic voice or something. I then after a while took them out to smoke, and then to some other venue and danced and touched them both up and shit. But everytime i went for a makeout or tried to pull they would just say "no i have a boyfriend". They also called me out for being a player, and i'm like "nah i've never kissed a white girl before" LOL. After a while i was like fuck this shit, and approached some other girls.
So why the fuck they wanna hang arround with me and venue change if they have a boyfriend knowing that i wanna fuck them both?
I met one of the girls later with her boyfriend, so at least one of them wasn't lying about it.
I personally would rather go out and have fun (even though they were really hot) than stay in the set hoping to get laid, but i'm thinking i should learn to be persisent or something. So... how long do you guy stay in set and when do you say goodbye?
I think it's the wrong question mang. If you can't get compliance from a girl or girls, then you just leave and talk to other girls. This weird stubborn style of "plowing" is just lame, it's a pua ego thing. The real question would be how to deal with the whole boyfriend thing better.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
^^Perfectly stated.
In my experience, if a girl says she has a boyfriend, either she's not lying or you really creeped her out. Here's the thing tho, GIRLS WILL CHEAT ON THEIR BOYFRIENDS. Why do you think these girls are out in a bar? You have to have the mentality that they are actively looking for someone to fuck them and cheat on their boyfriends with. That shit is exciting for girls. You should literally be looking for the bf statement and know how to handle it.
Just to get yourself used to the idea, try thinking of a few ways you can A)communicate that BF's don't phase you in the slightest and B)Ways for her to justify cheating on the BF with you. (IE if she ever got caught she could say... "X,Y, Z")
^^Perfectly stated.In my experience, if a girl says she has a boyfriend, either she's not lying or you really creeped her out. Here's the thing tho, GIRLS WILL CHEAT ON THEIR BOYFRIENDS. Why do you think these girls are out in a bar? You have to have the mentality that they are actively looking for someone to fuck them and cheat on their boyfriends with. That shit is exciting for girls. You should literally be looking for the bf statement and know how to handle it.
Just to get yourself used to the idea, try thinking of a few ways you can A)communicate that BF's don't phase you in the slightest and B)Ways for her to justify cheating on the BF with you. (IE if she ever got caught she could say... "X,Y, Z")
Well it was like a special day here for all high school graduates, so obviously alotta people were going out in big groups, single or not single. But i thought i handled it well but since they still weren't complying i went to talk to some other girls. But i find it kinda strange that they don't wanna escalate but still follow me arround when i made it really clear i wanna fuck them. Idk, they said various times how there is something about my intense eyes that all girls like, and say i'm a ladies man etc lol. I'm not even that good with girls,but whatever.
When i met one of the girls later the same night, i had like a 10 on my side with her arms wrapped arround me, and she was like "SEE I TOLD YOU YOU WERE A LADIES MAN", lol.
Ok so it happen again, some girl approaches me, i keep a strong frame, vibe, escalate, but then she says she has a boyfriend. I laugh, back off and say some funny shit and try again but she objected again.
I'm trynna figure out why this is happening so often... or does it happen to everybody. I don't think i give off a too friendly vibe or something. She was 26 though, i'm 18.
Ok so it's a masculine polarity/"seasoning" thing. You're coming off too young and "inexperienced". I put that in quotes because there are plenty of virgins that don't come off that way. They have "gravity", e.g. unreactiveness. Basically this girl walked up to you, started talking to you, then changed her mind. Lol
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Ok so it's a masculine polarity/"seasoning" thing. You're coming off too young and "inexperienced". I put that in quotes because there are plenty of virgins that don't come off that way. They have "gravity", e.g. unreactiveness. Basically this girl walked up to you, started talking to you, then changed her mind. Lol
Ok so how do i change that...
, but what the hell happened with the 10 who had her arms around you? I hope she was a relative.
, but what the hell happened with the 10 who had her arms around you? I hope she was a relative.
I made out with her and hung out to like 8am in the morning or something lol. Didnt fuck but had some great laughs. I called her after the club yesterday and tell her to meet me outside some mcdonalds and she came, but my friend needed a place to crash so i let him come over to me. I guess she changed her mind then cuz she paid the taxi and went home to her own place lol. I text some random shit sometimes and she always replies. Ive never seen any girl with a hotter face than her lol, but she can be a real annoying bitch sometimes. She cockblocked me intentionally once and one of my friends twice.
Lol @all girls changing their minds
Read some lay reports. Start actually escalating
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Read some lay reports. Start actually escalating
Well that particular girl said she recognized me from somewhere when she approached so maybe she wasnt even attracted lol? She approached me again later though. I think my escalation game has improved alot though, especially since you told me to actually pick girls up. It made me realize you can do almost anything when youre congruent with it, although i'm not trynna rely on physical escalation. Some weeks ago i fingered a girl on the dancefloor, lifted her up and took her to the bathroom and got a blowjob almost without saying one single word.
But maybe im just a very approachable guy or something idk. Yesterday i knew like all the girls in the club and i was having such a good time, no reactive shit at all. I get approached kinda often especially on the dancefloor. These 2 other girls (both 20 or something)kept approaching me all the time, but one of them is sooooo needy that it gets annoying. They said they would have a threesome with me but the last thing i want is some chick who comes in the way all the time when i game some other girls (lol she does it everytime we're in the same club). But however i find it strange that some girls still wanna hang arround after refusing to escalate.