Girl I posted about previously
The girl I posted about from the library is definitely into me. Just a recap, she has a boyfriend and told me how boring but sweet this guy is. *barf* She was texting me till 1 in the morning last night but I was out pimpin. Then she is texting me again this morning. When I turn the conversation sexual she either stops texting or keeps the conversation logical.
Example:
her: 10:08am: Is it bad to get Dunkin Donuts before a CrossFit workout? Lol
me, 20 minutes later: Yeah, honey buns are better.
her, 1hr 40 min later: haha uhhhh no donuts are wayyy better
her, 20 min later: yeah I really need to start working out again. My arms are too sore to even drive home.
me, 35 min later: Wait, women are allowed to drive now? That’s just ridiculous
her, 4 min later: ha ha ha that’s so funny
me, 3 min later: (picture of egg nog) post workout shake!
her, 1 min later: where did you work out at?
me, 1 min later: boxing gym
me, 1 min later: I got hit in the jaw pretty hard. Any suggestions on how to make it feel better ms. Nurse?
Her, 1 min later: uhhh yeah, suck it up!
her: jk probably ice! Is it swollen?
me: 2 min later: No. I’m still lookin pretty hot
No response. There are a couple other examples of this. I would say I did not make too sexual but that’s bc she backs off whenever I flirt a little. I’m thinking either she doesn’t have much game, which is possible. Although she is cute, she is very soft spoken and kind of shy or she’s looking for an orbital chode to linger around for her personal validity.
What do you guys think?
I didn't take the opportunity at the pop quiz, lurking for more advanced opinions to learn from, so here is my take this time. Actually, I'll likely learn more from this topic than you in the end ;)
Btw my first thought was to bring her to a hidden part of the library for a private bible study :)
Anyways, I think you need to snap her out of this pleasant phase of flirting with a cool high-value guy hitting her up here and there over the phone. Filling parts of her relationship she doesn't receive from her bf without doing anything socially 'unacceptable'.
Although the boyfriend thing may not be a big issue for her, I think it's important to be aware of it. Especially, assuming you did a kick-ass job so far. Imo it means you just need more emotional momentum.
Why didn't you ask her out? Do you want to sext before just to make sure she is ready to cheat on the bf? It's unlikely, but probably she is afraid of sexting because bf can check the messages or she would feel bad about it while he is around.
So I would just try to get her on the phone if you filter. It seems like via texting you can't really turn her emotions around enough.
If you are not concerned about the 'readiness' then just get her out, even just like a study sess close to good logistics, and do your magic in person.
Yeah it’s gonna have to come to that. I’m definitely not going to be donating my time to a girl who is wishy washy.
i don’t sext unless I’ve actually banged a girl 99% of the time.
i have asked her to hang out and she had to babysit or some shit. I’ll try a few more times. I just put this up there to see if there is anything I’m missing. If she is still being a nerd about this boyfriend thing I’ll just start acting very cold towards her.
How do you know this girl? If she's actually "serious" about the boyfriend thing yea she might be upset about the fact you're simply too cocky to be her next boyfriend. Serial monogamy isn't a bad strategy for women, but probably doesn't agree with your plans. I've banged plenty of women with boyfriends, some are really shy about putting your penis in their mouth, some are not. Some are married to Jesus, and some want the devil dick on the side.
Give me more context with this chick. But yeah the idea would be to strongly compel a response back and see what you get.
You could send her something like, "It's still swollen. They say to call the doctor if it stays swollen longer than four hours so I'm talking to you, doc. Oh and I gave you a promotion. Fix me, bitch"
Maybe that's being a little bit overdramatic but you catch my drift.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Yeah, not bad.
I told her she should come with me to a party in Tampa and she said her boyfriend would not like that...wtf! I texted her a couple times last night...no response.
Ok so this is interesting. She texted this the morning after she ignored my attempts at having her come to a party bc her bf would not like that.
her: 11:51am: hahaha woooooooo! So did you have fun last night?
her: 7:00pm: where did you go? The Castle?
Her: 7:50pm: sends me a picture of her in a bikini with her tits hanging out. Like total close up.
Then she says, “Hot Tub time!!”
I think I’m going to continue to ignore her. Sort of like a “time out” phase. For about 24 hrs. Unless she starts blowing up my phone I might give her a little something.
You don't want to ignore a closeup bikini pic she'd probably resent you for that one lol
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Yeah I was weary about that. Alright I’ll throw her some validation.
Throw her "The One". About niplles
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
The nipples?? Which one is that one
me, 35 min later: Wait, women are allowed to drive now? That’s just ridiculous
ha, that's pure gold. made me crack up and i might steal that in the future :b
I'm just curious, what if they get offended by that? or are girls usually okay with saying that?
Bateh's what happened with this. Did ya take it to the hole
No, she moved in with her boyfriend even though she doesn’t even like him. She’s pretty meek and didn’t deserve much more of my attention. She still texts me from time to time so I could pursue but I’ve got girls who’re more fun in the pipeline.
Thanks for checking though. What do you think?