Girl I graduated Highschool with on FB
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8:37pm Infinity: I had a dream the other night that you were in... you were teaching me kung fu.
...had to tell you before I forgot
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9:13pm Infinity: Jeezis. It's been that long ago? I remember talking to you about it before you went
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9:15pm yea already 2 years… time has definitely flown by. I'm planning another trip after I graduate
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9:21pm I LOVED Vicenza! That's where we stayed. My friend lived in the countryside too. I think we talked about that
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9:27pm Infinity: heheh
Are you married? for some reason I thought you got married a while back there. Or maybe I'm thinking of Amber -
9:31pm No i definitely am not married and never have been! Elyse is my middle name, is that where you got it from? Michael and Seth thought the same because of my middle name (thinking it was my new last name)? I know Amber got married, I was there. But I'm not sure if she still is
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9:32pm Infinity: Good lil girl like you from Joe city not married yet...
It's a travesty (She comes from this tiny little mormon town where the girls get married as soon as they turn 18, if not earlier) -
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9:38pm Infinity: Good girl! I get a lil annoyed when I see people I know gettin married and stuff. It's like REALLY?! That's all you're gonna do with your life?
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9:45pm Infinity: Yeah, get back to work.
I have to be up early so I'm going to bed. Text me tho, so I have ur number [my phone #]
I was really just testing the waters with this chick and seeing whats up with her. She's VERY sexy. I haven't seen her in years. She's a really cool girl too.
What I was trying to project was a lot of authority. My problem is getting around the familiarity thing tho. We've got this "old high school pals" thing going on and you can probably see some of the undertones in the convo. I want to DESTROY that and change it to sexworthy. Anyone have any help?
Pff. Fartknocker
She totally thinks you're a faggot
She totally gave you a second chance and you insisted on being gay lol
Yeah this is textbook friend to friend stuff. Why not go for broke and at least throw something out there?
There's no need to go for broke.
Hahaha! That WAS pretty gay lol. I was wearing rainbow colored boxer briefs at the time too. Gawdammit.
I'm way cooler than she is though. and I give a pretty kickass strip dance too. I'm just trying to figure out how to communicate that over text. I'm texting other girls too, but this was the one I need a lil help on.
There's a much more deep seated issue here. Why are you being such a klutz with this chick? The fact you're not displaying an edge with this chick at ALL is like.. gay. You've got an entire page of messaging with this chick that rooted in her mind that you're a fag and now you want help.
This isn't an issue of telling you what to text next, it's an inner game/mentality problem. When your baseline is so fundamentally off-course, it's not the kind of situation where I can feed you texts. Understand?
Yeah, I appreciate that. I thrive on tough love lol.
I was friends with this chick back in highschool and we worked together as lifeguards for three years. Unfortunately back then I didn't realize I have a dick. So yeah, friend-zone CITY going into it. I'm really disappointed that I slipped back into that chodey frame so easily. I wasn't even aware of it happening during the convo.
Yeah, I appreciate that. I thrive on tough love lol.I was friends with this chick back in highschool and we worked together as lifeguards for three years. Unfortunately back then I didn't realize I have a dick. So yeah, friend-zone CITY going into it. I'm really disappointed that I slipped back into that chodey frame so easily. I wasn't even aware of it happening during the convo.
I feel you homie. it's the old limiting beliefs gettin in the way, i've been experiencing it lately and it fuckin sucks.
There is just something difficult about expressing a new persona/mindset to those that already have judgements placed on you. It is mainly ego based and not particulary real, but I think people are out there judging when they drastic change...fuck, I even find myself doin it to others (which is FUCKED UP)