Approaching couples game
So had a situation earlier today where this CUTE chick kept looking over at me while I was sitting at the pub with my boys.
She was with what appeared to be her boyfriend, and this threw me slightly off approaching.
What frame/mindset do you guys go in with when faced with situations like this?
Assume it's her brother, cousin, coworker, etc.
actually turns out it's NOT the bf most of the time. Once most guys get a steady gf, the last place they wanna take her is a bar. Again, this is MOST guys. I fucking love bars lol.
I had a similar situation when I was home for christmas. I was out at a dive bar with a friend from highschool who's on leave from the army. There was this dude and a chick there, who were obviously from out of town, playing pool on the table next to us and she was CUTE. She kept looking at me too so I was like "OH it's onnnnn." I went over and just asked them where they were from.
Apperantly the guy had a suspended license from an unpaid ticket out of state, got pulled over for speeding by highway patrol. They impounded his car and they were staying in a shitty motel. So yeah, I knew there was no way, logistically speaking, to take that anywhere, but I did have this subtle, under the radar vibe going on between me and this chick, which was really amusing.
Honestly tho guy, you would not believe how easy it is to fuck girls who are in relationships! When I first figured this out I was like HOLY FUCK. Most guys (wrongly) think that relationships are this "holy inviolate bastion of monogamy." That's not the case AT ALL. Girls are wired to cheat as long as
1)She won't get caught (logistics are huge)
2)It's more excitement than she gets from her relationship
3)You claim responsibility and allow her to rationalize it away so she doesn't have a guilt trip back to her relationship.
It also helps your mentalities a shitton for dealing with the "I have a boyfriend" excuse when you're actually looking for that.
Sweet, I think i get it.
Imma try this next time it happens.
Shot dudes.
What were the logistics of the situation? Where was she sitting/standing
She was umm, lemme think back...
She was sitting inside the bar at a table with this other dude. Could not see the dude from where i was sitting which was outside at my own table and he couldnt see me. We were giving looks a few times back and forward. Then later on they moved outside to another table, which is when i saw the other dude.