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you are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with

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Ok boys, Teleconference is tomorrow evening. I'm doing a fresh thread because I want this front and centre. This is a gathering of the alphas, for those who are seeking to better themselves and who are taking real action to do so.

"you are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with"  -Jim Rohn

This quote is basically a testament to how influential our surroundings are to our own development. For this reason its important to choose carefully who and what we surround ourselves with. These webinars a have been super motivational to me because it inspires me to talk and share ideas with guys who not only talk the talk but actually put boots on the ground and take action towards what they want in life. The act of showing up is proof enough of being such a man in that moment and I'm grateful to those who do

http://personalexcellence.co/blog/you-are-the-average-of-the-5-people-yo...

Surrender, relax, get loose. There's always going to be problems: girls, work, school, family issues, shit tests, some bullshit to worry and stress about. Its all just bullshit to deal with. How we handle that stress is everything. If we're letting it infect our interactions and bringing it with us into our communication with others it spreads like a cancer. MW has recently had to remind me of this. This is a lesson I've had to re-learn time and time again over the course of my life and I now find myself dealing with it again. I feel like through the successes and failures I've had with it lately, the highs and lows, the epiphanies and toxic reactions I am closer than ever to really understanding what's going on and what needs to be done about it. This is what I'd like to discuss on the call. This is our weekly meeting, I look forward to seeing you all there

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Well fuckheads what would

Well fuckheads what would y'all like to talk about tomorrow...

Some topics I had in mind were:

- winging

- dancing with girls

- learning to not take YOURSELF so seriously

I really like this video from Tyler and it would be great to discuss:


I just posted this in the teleconference thread,  but thats not getting much traffic. Like Jack.Ruby said, we are gettin shit done in these conferences...come ready to speak we want everyone involved.

If MW can't make it I will be starting the call from my account, add me: meowzz2

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Here's a quick story of some

Here's a quick story of some bullshit I went through this weekend.  Last week I broke up with my main girl who I've been with for like 4 years. She's been seeing other people these past few weeks, its a small town so I've had to witness first hand seeing her out with other guys. I've even had to see her making out with other guys who are probably also fucking her. Needless to say this has done a bit of a number on me at times. Friday night I was out at the club and she walks in with her date. She's dressed to the nines and is without a doubt one of the hottest girls in the club. Her date is another cute brunette with big tits. They are holding hands, making out, turning heads and getting a lot of attention. I overheard a lot of people talking about them that night. For a minute I let myself get shoved inside my head before I decided "fuck this". So I move around and start getting social, talking to people and opening girls including the girls who are younger and probably hotter that my girl is. There was a super cute blonde girl with amazing blue eyes that I've kind of started seeing that I was hanging out with mainly. Another was a super hot, young, solid nine blonde that I've also been hanging out with. She looked amazing in her little dress. Just by taking action, fucking around, opening and self amusing I was able to get myself in a headspace where I don't give a fuck what that girl is doing and felt empowered having taken matters into my own hands. At one point I walked right past my girl on the dancefloor to where the super hot young blonde was dancing right next to her, I grabbed her, pulled her in, grabbed her by the back of her neck and started saying some dominant shit in her ear right in front of my girl. She loves it and melts into my arms as I spin her around. I felt like I had a real victory that night because instead of reacting and allowing negativity and scarcity to infect me I took action, changed my mood and had a good night.

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Jack.Ruby wrote:Here's a

Jack.Ruby wrote:
Here's a quick story of some bullshit I went through this weekend.  Last week I broke up with my main girl who I've been with for like 4 years. She's been seeing other people these past few weeks, its a small town so I've had to witness first hand seeing her out with other guys. I've even had to see her making out with other guys who are probably also fucking her. Needless to say this has done a bit of a number on me at times. Friday night I was out at the club and she walks in with her date. She's dressed to the nines and is without a doubt one of the hottest girls in the club. Her date is another cute brunette with big tits. They are holding hands, making out, turning heads and getting a lot of attention. I overheard a lot of people talking about them that night. For a minute I let myself get shoved inside my head before I decided "fuck this". So I move around and start getting social, talking to people and opening girls including the girls who are younger and probably hotter that my girl is. There was a super cute blonde girl with amazing blue eyes that I've kind of started seeing that I was hanging out with mainly. Another was a super hot, young, solid nine blonde that I've also been hanging out with. She looked amazing in her little dress. Just by taking action, fucking around, opening and self amusing I was able to get myself in a headspace where I don't give a fuck what that girl is doing and felt empowered having taken matters into my own hands. At one point I walked right past my girl on the dancefloor to where the super hot young blonde was dancing right next to her, I grabbed her, pulled her in, grabbed her by the back of her neck and started saying some dominant shit in her ear. She loves it and melts into my arms as I spin her around. I felt like I had a real victory that night because instead of reacting and allowing negativity and scarcity to infect me I took action, changed my mood and had a good night.

Awesome stuff. Yeah my main girl and I ended things again and I've come to the realization that the relationship just isn't healthy. Not getting back together again. This upcoming semester is my last one in college. In other words, my last opportunity in college to kill it in ever facet of life. Grades, gym, diet, game, money, etc. 

i started red my new internship and it's been awesome thus far. Super chill company with young people. I'm excited for what the future holds. I'm gonna try to make the call last night, I miss talking to you fucks :')

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@Jack.Ruby that's what's

@Jack.Ruby that's what's up.

Where do I go to join the teleconference?

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Alex123 wrote: @Jack.Ruby

Alex123 wrote:
@Jack.Ruby that's what's up.

Where do I go to join the teleconference?

meow is handling the technical details, add him on Skype. His username is listed above

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Alex123 wrote: @Jack.Ruby

Alex123 wrote:
@Jack.Ruby that's what's up.

Where do I go to join the teleconference?

You can find his username in the official teleconference thread.

I've searched for you here it is:

Add

meowzz2

 on skype ;)

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Alex123 wrote: @Jack.Ruby

Alex123 wrote:
@Jack.Ruby that's what's up.

Where do I go to join the teleconference?

Just accepted your request. Hope to see ya tonight

Manwhore will be running the show tonight tho, so add manwhore.teleconference

 

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Yeah boys we got shit done..

Yeah boys we got shit done.. great call