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wow.. i got obliterated tonight in New York. walked back and Felt Like a Champ

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Went out alone. In New York. Completely Sober. During a rain storm.

Got into 3 top clubs. Got blown out by like 20 women. Made out with one chick. Got 2 numbers.

But hell, these are the hottest women in New York, whatttta gonna do....


These are the nights that are so shitty they are awesome. You're walking back, alone, at 4am becuase you stuck it out to the bitter end and as you're walking back to the subway, it starts pouring and now you're walking, alone, at 4am, in the pouring rain, without a jacket or umbrella and for some reason I couldn't help but stop and just stand there and realize how much of a champ I am.

Get out there and put in the work folks. Most guys who are good at this won't talk about these nights but they happen.

Not only do they happen. But they are the sole reason I'm getting good at this and 99 percent of YOU arent.... it's because I go out, alone, in a rainstorm and stick it out to the bitter end and RELISH the night

The process IS the result.

Cheers to everyone putting in the effort ; )

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fb5BzrDMprM
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@buddhagames:

Awesome man! I admire your work ethic.

I had my first solo and sober night this Tuesday. I felt like a champ for the 9 appraoches I did by myself even though I felt like a complete newbie again.
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@tolle:

haha keep at it homy.

Soon you'll be makin stunners cry because they hear you talking about them
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It's Just Something You Have To Do If You Want To Be Great- Manwhore

"Apart from the pulling and hauling stands what I am, Stands amused, complacent, compassionating, idle, unitary, Looks down, is erect, or bends an arm on an impalpable certain rest, Looking with side-curved head curious what will come next, Both in and out of the game and watching and wondering at it."

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Gotta love those nights.

On a couple occasions I've had nights like this where nothing is working and shit just keeps going downhill to the point that you feel semi-defeated. But then if you keep going, suddenly shit starts getting better. Might be in my own head, but it's like they can tell you REALLY don't wanna keep going, but you do anyways. Ever had that happen to you?
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@RezznT:

Yup. Of course.

Had a night where I went out with Katalyst and we approached, LITERALLY 50-60 street sets EACH.... I got blown out by ALMOST every single one.

It got to the point where we were so tired, so broken, that we actually reached that next level where shit starts to click. As he was driving me back to the subway, I was doing shit like hopping out of the car at a red light to run over and open chicks in the middle of the street (in MANHATTAN)

He drops me off to go to my subway and I see a chick walking across the street (it's now like 430am)... I go up- approach her, immediately make out with her and end up pulling her.

One of the craziest, most satisfying pulls of my life.
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It's Just Something You Have To Do If You Want To Be Great- Manwhore

"Apart from the pulling and hauling stands what I am, Stands amused, complacent, compassionating, idle, unitary, Looks down, is erect, or bends an arm on an impalpable certain rest, Looking with side-curved head curious what will come next, Both in and out of the game and watching and wondering at it."

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@buddhagames:
i went out solo for first time last night... got crushed haha
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@buddhagames:

Awesome man. Geezuz I gotta get off my ass and go get blown the fuck out some more. Its the end of the world tonight so a perfect time to do so.
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Enlightenment consciously chosen means to relinquish your attachment to past and future and to make the Now the main focus of your life.  Through allowing, you become what you are: vast, spacious. You become whole. You are not a fragment anymore, which is how the ego perceives itself. Your true nature emerges, which is one with the nature of God"
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