what seperates the winners from the losers
Mon, 03/18/2013 - 00:24
The more i go down this self development roadmap- i begin to realize - what seperates the guys who are good and who aren't.
the successful ones live their lives consciously, have mental control over their actions, thoghts , emotions, they see them selves as "in charge" of the outcome because they view themselves as "high value" and that they deserve nothing less than a 10. you feel like they are going to drive themselves thru whatever bullshit til they end up on the other side of the rainbow. they are ridicoulously vicious after going after their goals. they see themselves in control, and they are going to drill it in until they win - thesee are who have developed years of mental habits of thought that push themselves harder to gain more experiences. The losers have trained their brains from years of "choding" out , and led themselves down a perpetual sprial to a lower conscious living and lower esteem.
those who aren't successful, live unconsciously, un aware, neither happy nor sad. they lack mental control, mental discipline. they go out spent a few hours and barely do anthing and go home wondering liveing in self doubt and waisting time. and be okay with that. the fundamental issue is not that they are happy with it - but a deeper issue. they feel okay with waisting time, not upset with the results they are getting, because the real reason they live like this is because they are complacent to a self "of low results" because that is what they believe themselves to be internally. Even though its subconscious. The subconscious thru years of being trained by poor mental thought patterns, finds and gives them excuses without themselves even being aware about it. This can go on for years. the successful person accepts no excuses, delays, or inactions.
One thing, personally, i f i make a rule, i stick with it. I do have a problem with procrastination and such, but i realized to identify those times and analyze why " i am delaying" from doing something in the field. If my goal this girl is to work on this one thing, i literally ask the question - what is causing me to not take this action right now ? Usually the answer to that question , makes me realize the "root" issue..then ends with me drilling in the correct action.
the successful ones live their lives consciously, have mental control over their actions, thoghts , emotions, they see them selves as "in charge" of the outcome because they view themselves as "high value" and that they deserve nothing less than a 10. you feel like they are going to drive themselves thru whatever bullshit til they end up on the other side of the rainbow. they are ridicoulously vicious after going after their goals. they see themselves in control, and they are going to drill it in until they win - thesee are who have developed years of mental habits of thought that push themselves harder to gain more experiences. The losers have trained their brains from years of "choding" out , and led themselves down a perpetual sprial to a lower conscious living and lower esteem.
those who aren't successful, live unconsciously, un aware, neither happy nor sad. they lack mental control, mental discipline. they go out spent a few hours and barely do anthing and go home wondering liveing in self doubt and waisting time. and be okay with that. the fundamental issue is not that they are happy with it - but a deeper issue. they feel okay with waisting time, not upset with the results they are getting, because the real reason they live like this is because they are complacent to a self "of low results" because that is what they believe themselves to be internally. Even though its subconscious. The subconscious thru years of being trained by poor mental thought patterns, finds and gives them excuses without themselves even being aware about it. This can go on for years. the successful person accepts no excuses, delays, or inactions.
One thing, personally, i f i make a rule, i stick with it. I do have a problem with procrastination and such, but i realized to identify those times and analyze why " i am delaying" from doing something in the field. If my goal this girl is to work on this one thing, i literally ask the question - what is causing me to not take this action right now ? Usually the answer to that question , makes me realize the "root" issue..then ends with me drilling in the correct action.
Mon, 03/18/2013 - 02:25
#1
Yeah.
I'm vicious as FUCK
Yeah.
I'm vicious as FUCK when I want something. It's a little over the top and hard to be around sometimes, to be honest.
I'm vicious as FUCK when I want something. It's a little over the top and hard to be around sometimes, to be honest.
Mon, 03/18/2013 - 03:28
#2
I agree, the level of
I agree, the level of intensity is something else. Buddha, do you do anything to mitigate the effects of that 'hard to be around' intensity? Because friends who aren't intense of vicious show almost no desire to be around me in that state UNLESS some of my intensity rubs off and inspires them. Do you just think to yourself "whatevs, fuckem if they don't want any of this" or do you try and calibrate?
Mon, 03/18/2013 - 04:26
#3
I understand it for what it
I understand it for what it is.
I'll be the first person to go right up to your face, point a finger at you and say, without blinking, "I'm going to absolutely destroy you" but even while doing this, I'm not like attached to it and I don't make it personal- it's because I want to win, I have a goal and I want to achieve it.
I might do that and then smile and start laughing.. not because I'm like intentially trying to manipulate the person or even purposely "calibrating" but more because I just try not to take myself to seriously and I realize I can be ridiculous sometimes.
But also- there isn't a person on the planet who, when someone else comes up to them, gets in their face and says, "I'm going to destroy you" who ISNT going to get pissed and want to destroy me back... but that's what I want. I love that- I piss people off, inspire people, make some people laugh- but the thing is... no matter what's going on- I'm ALWAYS making people feel SOMETHING and at the end of the day- It's going to make your life more exciting, it's going to push you harder and it's going to bring you to a place you haven't been... because that's the place where I naturally exist.
I don't want to go up against someone who isn't trying to rip my throat out. But at the end of the day- after I win, I'll sit down and have a beer with you and tell you why you lost and genuinely try and make you better, as well as try and learn from you how I can get better.
But idk man, I'm sure I do something that mitigates the "hard to be around" shit cause the very people that I go up against the most and that I'm the most competitive with, tend to end up being some of my best friends- honestly, not everything I do is super "calculated" lol... like I'm still in the process of breaking what I do down- so some of this shit I just roll with.
And to make a long story short- no... I'm not going to pretend to be less competitive or less cut-throat than I am, just so that people want to be around me more.
You may not always like what you hear from me or the way I act- but at the very least, you're going to get the real deal... I'm not going to hide shit from you, I'm basically just gonna lay it all out there on the line and if you wanna try and take me down because of it- go right ahead but there's no way in hell you're going to succeed at that. I'm un-fucking-breakable
I'll be the first person to go right up to your face, point a finger at you and say, without blinking, "I'm going to absolutely destroy you" but even while doing this, I'm not like attached to it and I don't make it personal- it's because I want to win, I have a goal and I want to achieve it.
I might do that and then smile and start laughing.. not because I'm like intentially trying to manipulate the person or even purposely "calibrating" but more because I just try not to take myself to seriously and I realize I can be ridiculous sometimes.
But also- there isn't a person on the planet who, when someone else comes up to them, gets in their face and says, "I'm going to destroy you" who ISNT going to get pissed and want to destroy me back... but that's what I want. I love that- I piss people off, inspire people, make some people laugh- but the thing is... no matter what's going on- I'm ALWAYS making people feel SOMETHING and at the end of the day- It's going to make your life more exciting, it's going to push you harder and it's going to bring you to a place you haven't been... because that's the place where I naturally exist.
I don't want to go up against someone who isn't trying to rip my throat out. But at the end of the day- after I win, I'll sit down and have a beer with you and tell you why you lost and genuinely try and make you better, as well as try and learn from you how I can get better.
But idk man, I'm sure I do something that mitigates the "hard to be around" shit cause the very people that I go up against the most and that I'm the most competitive with, tend to end up being some of my best friends- honestly, not everything I do is super "calculated" lol... like I'm still in the process of breaking what I do down- so some of this shit I just roll with.
And to make a long story short- no... I'm not going to pretend to be less competitive or less cut-throat than I am, just so that people want to be around me more.
You may not always like what you hear from me or the way I act- but at the very least, you're going to get the real deal... I'm not going to hide shit from you, I'm basically just gonna lay it all out there on the line and if you wanna try and take me down because of it- go right ahead but there's no way in hell you're going to succeed at that. I'm un-fucking-breakable