What I learned from my first 3some
Mon, 12/31/2012 - 03:18
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C6CJQ_hnm24
1st off- shoutout to my boy jmulv for legit walking me through this shit lol
Yup. It finally happened : ) .... there are so many things I learned from this experience. The only reason it even happend in the first place was because I finally stepped the fuck up and started ACTUALLY applying the principles. There are different levels of applying this shit and each time you reach a new level, what you're capable of skyrockets. But the thing is that it can be uncomfortable to break through to that next level- in a sense, you kinda gotta take that leap of faith and at some point just say, "Fuck It" and go for the damn thing. Like REALLY REALLY just GO FOR IT.
So here's the backstory on how it happend: I texted one of my fuckbuddies to come to Lavo and in the meantime, me and my wing start gaming. Start approaching and I can tell, right off the bat, i'm on FIRE tonight. Opening sets, merging sets to successfully hook two 9.5's, who within a minute of meeting them said to me, "Omg, we're totally having a threesome tonight" (GAWD this shit is SO REAL guys.... seriously just apply the principles.... it's just SO FUCKING REAL) , having 2 girls trying to extract ME from the venue, within the first 30 minutes of being there. All good shit.
My girl gets there and I decide to say, "FUCK IT" and keep approaching. I figure she invested so much in coming that she wasn't going to leave and I knew this particular fuckbuddy was almost pathetically obsessed with me. So within 5 minutes of her being there, I'm making out with anotehr girl right in front of her.... I legit made the decision in my head, where I distinctly remember saying to myself, "I don't care if I lose this girl.... I'm going to act as if she's not here and just game as usual"... so she sees me making out with this other girl and tries to give me some shit and I just look at her and go, "We are hooking up. That's it. I don't give a fuck if you think there is more to it- I'm going to makeout with whoever I want".... and guess what? Instead of leaving... this chick just accepted the situation and tagged along behind me like a little puppy dog, while I continued to makeout with girl after girl after girl (madeout with 5 different girls while she was standing there with me)
After I makeout with a few girls, I turn around and say, "Hey beb, I want you to find us another girl, are you okay with that" and I just give her crazy eye conctact and don't blink an eye.... this is just how it's gonna be and she's gotta either get with the program or get out. she looks at me and goes, "I think I can do that".... Within 5 minutes, she had gotten into the VIP table at the front of the club right below the DJ and was making out with another girl.
I see this and I remain unreactive. I decide to just act as if this shit goes down everyday. No big deal. I go up and get myself into the VIP area as well and start making out with my girl and then havev her make out with the other girl . I try to makeout with the other girl but she's resistant.
So att his point, I decide to use my girl to escalate on the other girl, without me having to escalate.... I figure if I can get my girl to do the escalation for me, it will accomplish the same thing, as if I'm escalating on her. So I start telling my girl to grab her tits and ass and they start groping eachother... I go in for the makeout two more times with the other girl and finally she opens up like a little flower. And now I'm making out with both girls.
I tell my girl to text the other girl, "I want you to come home with us" so she does that and the other chick responds back, "Okay" lol.
So we chill out for a bit longer and then I decide to start leading HARD. I grab my girl and the other girl by the hands and just rip them from the vip area and tell them, "Grab your coats. We're leaving" and so they walk with me to the coat-check and grab their coats and we get outside, hail a cab and leave. I decided to bring both girls back to my fuckbuddies place because I felt that the other girl would be most comfortable with this.
We get back to my girls' place and get into the bedroom and I sit them both down on the bed and we smoke a bowl. I whisper to my girl, "Start making out with her" and so my girl starts making out with the other girl and I take off all my clothes except for my boxers and then, I start to take my girls' clothes off until she's naked and then I tell her to take the other girls' clothes off. As soon as both chicks were naked they just started GOING AT EACHOTHER.... Like holy shit guys.... They literally started fucking ATTACKING eachother.... I was just like, "Well okay... I'm just gonna let them do their thing" and while my girl is eating out the other girl I go over and start making out with the other girl from behind... I then grab my girls' hair and pull it really hard and simaltaneously lay down on the bed. She takes the hint and climbs on top of me and starts sucking my dick and the other girls comes over and starts grabbing my girls' tits and then starts making out with me.
I take my girl and put her on top of me and start fucking the shit out of her while the other girl is making out with me. After a little while I take my girl and throw her off me and tell her to start making out with the other girl and so they start going at it again
I will say this: There were many many times where I ahd NO FUCKING CLUE what I was supposed to do lol... like "Oh hey... where the fuck do I fit into all this"
I legit just lay down and start jerking off while they are going at eachother and then after a little bit the other girl comes over and starts to makeout with me and I grab her and take her from behind and I actually end up busting inside of her... I was trying really hard to hold it back but this was so fucking hot.... although, I will say that it's not really like it seems in the pornos, heh.... it was actually kind of awkward at times but hey..
So anyway- onto the lesson:
1. Social Proof: Do whatever the fuck you can to position yourself to look as cool as fucking possible. Do not approach the 9s or 10s at the club, without establishing social proof. The best way to successfully open a 9 or higher, at a club, is to open an ajecent set and then merge the two. It literally is AMAZING the difference between approaching a 9+ without doing this and with doing this.
2. Lead HARD... I can't express this enough- if you're going to have a threesome... you HAVE TO FUCKING LEAD WITHOUT A DOUBT IN YOUR MIND. You have to be ruthlessly unreactive and RELISH the initial shittests.... I actually believe that once you get to a certain level with this stuff, the shittests are just a fast-tracked way of gaining attraction.
3. DETACHMENT FROM OUTCOME- You have to be completely detached from the outcome and unafraid of losing the girl.
4. HOLD YOUR FRAME. Whatever it is. Just hold it. Don't blink an eye. Act as if everything is just business as usual. Be ruthless in what you expect and don't give an inch. The girl may try to crack your frame but anything she says will just be some socially conditioned bullshit, which has no more truth to it than your frame. MANTAIN YOUR FRAME
5. BE 100% UNREACTIVE. Like when shit goes bad OR good... just roll with it- don't let it go to your head. Know what you want and always keep in mind that at the end of the day you're still going to be there.
And for the love of god- PUSH YOUR COMFORT ZONE.... just say and do the things that you are too afraid to say or do. The results may surprise you.
1st off- shoutout to my boy jmulv for legit walking me through this shit lol
Yup. It finally happened : ) .... there are so many things I learned from this experience. The only reason it even happend in the first place was because I finally stepped the fuck up and started ACTUALLY applying the principles. There are different levels of applying this shit and each time you reach a new level, what you're capable of skyrockets. But the thing is that it can be uncomfortable to break through to that next level- in a sense, you kinda gotta take that leap of faith and at some point just say, "Fuck It" and go for the damn thing. Like REALLY REALLY just GO FOR IT.
So here's the backstory on how it happend: I texted one of my fuckbuddies to come to Lavo and in the meantime, me and my wing start gaming. Start approaching and I can tell, right off the bat, i'm on FIRE tonight. Opening sets, merging sets to successfully hook two 9.5's, who within a minute of meeting them said to me, "Omg, we're totally having a threesome tonight" (GAWD this shit is SO REAL guys.... seriously just apply the principles.... it's just SO FUCKING REAL) , having 2 girls trying to extract ME from the venue, within the first 30 minutes of being there. All good shit.
My girl gets there and I decide to say, "FUCK IT" and keep approaching. I figure she invested so much in coming that she wasn't going to leave and I knew this particular fuckbuddy was almost pathetically obsessed with me. So within 5 minutes of her being there, I'm making out with anotehr girl right in front of her.... I legit made the decision in my head, where I distinctly remember saying to myself, "I don't care if I lose this girl.... I'm going to act as if she's not here and just game as usual"... so she sees me making out with this other girl and tries to give me some shit and I just look at her and go, "We are hooking up. That's it. I don't give a fuck if you think there is more to it- I'm going to makeout with whoever I want".... and guess what? Instead of leaving... this chick just accepted the situation and tagged along behind me like a little puppy dog, while I continued to makeout with girl after girl after girl (madeout with 5 different girls while she was standing there with me)
After I makeout with a few girls, I turn around and say, "Hey beb, I want you to find us another girl, are you okay with that" and I just give her crazy eye conctact and don't blink an eye.... this is just how it's gonna be and she's gotta either get with the program or get out. she looks at me and goes, "I think I can do that".... Within 5 minutes, she had gotten into the VIP table at the front of the club right below the DJ and was making out with another girl.
I see this and I remain unreactive. I decide to just act as if this shit goes down everyday. No big deal. I go up and get myself into the VIP area as well and start making out with my girl and then havev her make out with the other girl . I try to makeout with the other girl but she's resistant.
So att his point, I decide to use my girl to escalate on the other girl, without me having to escalate.... I figure if I can get my girl to do the escalation for me, it will accomplish the same thing, as if I'm escalating on her. So I start telling my girl to grab her tits and ass and they start groping eachother... I go in for the makeout two more times with the other girl and finally she opens up like a little flower. And now I'm making out with both girls.
I tell my girl to text the other girl, "I want you to come home with us" so she does that and the other chick responds back, "Okay" lol.
So we chill out for a bit longer and then I decide to start leading HARD. I grab my girl and the other girl by the hands and just rip them from the vip area and tell them, "Grab your coats. We're leaving" and so they walk with me to the coat-check and grab their coats and we get outside, hail a cab and leave. I decided to bring both girls back to my fuckbuddies place because I felt that the other girl would be most comfortable with this.
We get back to my girls' place and get into the bedroom and I sit them both down on the bed and we smoke a bowl. I whisper to my girl, "Start making out with her" and so my girl starts making out with the other girl and I take off all my clothes except for my boxers and then, I start to take my girls' clothes off until she's naked and then I tell her to take the other girls' clothes off. As soon as both chicks were naked they just started GOING AT EACHOTHER.... Like holy shit guys.... They literally started fucking ATTACKING eachother.... I was just like, "Well okay... I'm just gonna let them do their thing" and while my girl is eating out the other girl I go over and start making out with the other girl from behind... I then grab my girls' hair and pull it really hard and simaltaneously lay down on the bed. She takes the hint and climbs on top of me and starts sucking my dick and the other girls comes over and starts grabbing my girls' tits and then starts making out with me.
I take my girl and put her on top of me and start fucking the shit out of her while the other girl is making out with me. After a little while I take my girl and throw her off me and tell her to start making out with the other girl and so they start going at it again
I will say this: There were many many times where I ahd NO FUCKING CLUE what I was supposed to do lol... like "Oh hey... where the fuck do I fit into all this"
I legit just lay down and start jerking off while they are going at eachother and then after a little bit the other girl comes over and starts to makeout with me and I grab her and take her from behind and I actually end up busting inside of her... I was trying really hard to hold it back but this was so fucking hot.... although, I will say that it's not really like it seems in the pornos, heh.... it was actually kind of awkward at times but hey..
So anyway- onto the lesson:
1. Social Proof: Do whatever the fuck you can to position yourself to look as cool as fucking possible. Do not approach the 9s or 10s at the club, without establishing social proof. The best way to successfully open a 9 or higher, at a club, is to open an ajecent set and then merge the two. It literally is AMAZING the difference between approaching a 9+ without doing this and with doing this.
2. Lead HARD... I can't express this enough- if you're going to have a threesome... you HAVE TO FUCKING LEAD WITHOUT A DOUBT IN YOUR MIND. You have to be ruthlessly unreactive and RELISH the initial shittests.... I actually believe that once you get to a certain level with this stuff, the shittests are just a fast-tracked way of gaining attraction.
3. DETACHMENT FROM OUTCOME- You have to be completely detached from the outcome and unafraid of losing the girl.
4. HOLD YOUR FRAME. Whatever it is. Just hold it. Don't blink an eye. Act as if everything is just business as usual. Be ruthless in what you expect and don't give an inch. The girl may try to crack your frame but anything she says will just be some socially conditioned bullshit, which has no more truth to it than your frame. MANTAIN YOUR FRAME
5. BE 100% UNREACTIVE. Like when shit goes bad OR good... just roll with it- don't let it go to your head. Know what you want and always keep in mind that at the end of the day you're still going to be there.
And for the love of god- PUSH YOUR COMFORT ZONE.... just say and do the things that you are too afraid to say or do. The results may surprise you.
