TonightX5- These are the nights that put hair on your chest

Okay so tonight was a really great night. I got all my approaches in and did not hook a single one, except for some random fatty that looked skinny from far away but when I got up close I realized she was super heavy. Sneaky bitch

These are the nights that put hair on your fucking chest. The nights where your sober and all alone and NOTHING is hooking. But I just kept telling myself to get my approaches in and to make them strong. After every rejection I would just regroup, chill for maybe 3-4 minutes and find the next girl.

Also- I'm really fucking happy because I was approaching the HOTTEST girls at each location. I was approaching some mixed groups and I was approaching the hottest girls. I was out of my comfort zone the entire night. I was choosing to approach girls who I thought were smoking hot.

I was really pushing myself and for that I am proud and I can hold my head up high and say I gave it my all tonight and I lived up to my standards.

So I'll go through each approach

Okay, so I wait in line for a bit but it's just me so the doorman lets me in with another group. I was super nervous tonight for some reason (I think I sorta was nervous cause like the past couple nights had been so good and on some subconscious level, I was hoping I could live up to those past nights) But it doesn't matter, all that means is that its a sign to take advantage of those nerves, step up and go outside my comfort zone.

So literally I walk in the door and see a group of three girls like basically right in front of me so I walk directly up to them put my hand out and say what's up. The girl I approaching isn't give me the instant attraction I've been getting. the past couple nights. She's hesistant and seems to just be placating me. I cant think of anything to say so I just give eye contact and keep my body language as best I can. She's not leaning in. I forget what I said but I was nervous and almost like too calm. I was stifled. I was just kind of standing there. At one point she's like, "You're super aggressive" and I just give her eye contact and I'm like, "yeah" and she's like, "You just walked straight through the door and came up" and I'm just like, "yeah" lmao... I didn't know what else to say...

So then I'm like, "are these your friends" and she's like, "yeah" and introduces me. She then promptly tells her friends she has to go to the bathroom- this is new to me. Kinda a shock. But she was real hot. The chode questions with eye contact just weren't cutting it. And she left.

I shake it off. No big deal. Walk upstairs and grab a water at the bar. I head to the dance floor. See another hottie and give her the double hands of god. Her friends grab her hands and put them in mine- seems solid.

I immediately tell her- let's head downstairs and talk. She says she is going to dance with her friends and then asks me if i want to dance. I tell her okay but that I have to put my water down, I grab her hand and bring her with me to put my water down, I grab her hand and bring her with me to put it down and then we go back to the dance floor. I look at her and give her eye contact and tell her I think she's sexy... she kinda laughs and we start dancing. I give her a spin and try to bring her in to grind with me but she resists but doesn't let go of my hands. We start dancing but like that kind of dancing where there is distance between you. She tells me she's a bad dancer. I tell her I'm an amazing dancer but hat I'll lower my skills to her level. She kinda laughs. We keep doing this weird distance dancing and each time I try to grab her waist and pull her in she resists. We keep dancing but it's just getting stale. She lets go of my hands and starts to look around. I just tell her I'm gonna leave. So I head off..

Wow, I'm starting to realize that a lot of these sets I kinda killed myself. Like I would just see the slightest resistence and bounce instead of sticking it out, creating the fun and being awesome. I was stifled and I let it get to me... Lesson Learned

I head downstairs and take a piss and walk back up and see two girls sitting down. I go up and say "hey" instantly one of the girls is being a bitch, I call her out on it and her friend starts to laug. The one on the right kept being a bitch while the one on the left was being cool and laughing etc.

At one point I ask the cool girl why she puts up with her friend being like this and the bitch is just like, "Cause she doesn't want to get smacked" and I'm just like, "WOH" but only in my head lmao.

Then I'm just like, "are you gonna take that..." and the friend just sorta laughs... The bitch girl tries to get me to leave but I plow and like they are both laughing at this point and we keep talking for like another minute and then they ask me again to leave (it wasn't really THEY... It was jUST the bitch... I actually think the other girl was kinda into me) but I plow and then we keep talking for another minute or so and then they tell me to seriously go away and so I'm just like, "okay, I'll catch you guys later"

Shit I did one more approach at this bar but I totally forgot what or who it was. I'll add it in later if I remember.

I leave and head to a club down the street. Sweet place. I get in line and when I get to the doorman, he's like, "There's a private party with a cover charge" and I'm like, "oh okay, is it like this all the time" and he's like, "no" and I'm like, "Oh cause I just moved here and I'm checking places out" and he's like, "You just moved here?... from where?" and I tell him where I'm from and he's just like, "aight man, just go through that front door" I tell him thanks and then ask his name and he's like, "will... I'm here every night"- dope shit, maybe I can develop a relationship with the dude. We'll see.

So I get in and it turns out he let me into the vip area that's actually a floor above the main area. So I chill out for a bit and then see a smoking hottie in a red dress sitting down so I go up say "hey" and sit down next to her. It's the same situation as most the other sets, she's not a bitch about it but she just is very disinterested and over time just ends up leaving.

One of my sticking points is that I just don't know what to say when this happens. Like I'm trying to talk and all that comes out are like weird sentences that are kinda chopped up and I'm stuttering (LMFAO... I DON'T stutter) so she leaves and then I head downstairs and chill at the bar and relax cause I know all I have left to do is one more approach but then I realize people are starting to leave so I get on my horse and see what appears to be a cutie on the other side of the room so I go up and do my approach but she is totally fat so I eject after like five minutes (she was hooked though haha)

I leave that club and go across the street to another bar just to check it out. Head inside and find a girl sitting on the speakers so I go up and approach and she hooks. She's laughing her ass off. We start talking and she's wearing this like flower crown thing and so I ask her about that and she's like, "I want to be a princess" So I give her eye contact and I'm like, "I'll be your prince" and she looks at me and leans in and is like, "that's really fucking cute... You can be my NY prince... I have a bf back home so I have a king but you can be my pricne" and I'm like, "oh your bf isn't here is he?" and she's like, "noo I'm just visiting from florda" and we keep talkin for a bit. Then I grab her hand and I'm like, "let's go dance" and so we head to the dance floor and start to dance and we do that for a bit (I need to work on my sober dancing skills.. it's real hard in sandals... but I love waering sandles.. soooo...) anyway- I grab her hand and tell her were gonna walk back down to where we were, so she starts to follow me but then her friend intercepts and then I go back and grab her by the waist and I'm like, "What's up" and she's like, "I have to find my friend" and then I just peace out

So yeah.... a lot of these I just bailed on because it seemed like the girl wasn't interested. Pussy shit. Lesson learned.

I would love as much feedback as possible, especially about THESE kinds of nights.

I am REALLY REALLY happy about the fact that I approached the hottest girls I could find. Like not all of them, but every girl I did approach was hot (except the tricky bitch.. she was just fat).. I was out of my comfort zone the entire night and pushing that hard. I did all my approaches, pushed my comfort zone and now I'm realizing how aweomse it is that I'm still alive... and I approached a whole new caliber of girl tonight.

So a lot of great things about tonight. But also a lot of lessons to be learned... especially about how to handle the sets where the instant attraction isn't there.