TonightX4-Great Night: Plenty of observations//Proper execution of the gameplan and blasting away sticking points

Okay so tonight had positives and negatives and then some things that just kind of... are what they are.

So I was a little more nervous today than yesterday. Idk why, it wasn't a huge deal and I actually ended up pushing through a lot of barriers that I discussed in previous posts. And I also executed the game plan (which I'll discuss later) very well.

So I get there and I'm feeling some nerves so I hit up a "warmup" girl. Really cute blondie from paris who actually just got into town tonight.

I get to the top of the stairs and do a little scan of the environment and I'm checking for any girls that I find attractive and she instantly pops out at me so I go up and grab her hand and say, "hey"... I was speaking VERY loudly but since she's foreign and the music was super loud, she couldn't understand me so she asked "what" like 4 times but I kept her from giving up by maintaining eye contact the whole time... As soon as she hears me and the "what" shit is over I tell her I forgive her and then she's like, "My names xxx" and I'm like, that was the name of my adorable dog (fact) she gets playfully offended and is kind of laughing so I'm like, "awww give me a hug" and I give her a massive hug but she's kind of resistant and does this like, 'noo what's hapening" thing but I just plow through it and give her the hug and then let her go and we keep talking.

We're both having problems hearing so I tell her, "come with me downstairs so we can grab a drink and talk" she kinda looks over at her friends and then back at me and I got the locked on eye contact but she's like, "I can't ... My friends..." and I'm just like, "Yeah it's cool we'll just talk for a bit" and so she agrees and tells her friends she's going downstairs with me. For some reasons I still feel slightly tense but it doesn't mater I'm just making sure to do what I can with my body language and eye contact so it's all good. I don't need state to approach.

So I take her downstairs and I get off the stairs before her, turn around and put my hands out and she grabs them and I guide her down, she lets go of my hands at the bottom of the stairs and we walk over and grab seats at the bar and she says she doesn't want anything more to drink and I just order a water and tip the bartender, so what ensues is over an hour of conversation but I was committed to staying in set and not bailing like I have been in the past...

I think my most natural style is that whole, "time is your ally" thing which is cool cause I always end up in very long, very solid sets but it can also be a little annoying cause I don't get that insane instant attraction... But trust me it builds.

So I just keep the eye contact on point and shoot the shit. I don't remember much of the verbals but there wasn't really anything of note... Oh at one point I get some dude next to us to take a picture of us and then I tell her to text it to me... So she takes my number but it turns out her phone can't send pics cause she just got it... So I take her phone and just text myself, "hey sexy" from it. We joke about this a bit and continue to talk for a while...

At this point I start thinking, "Okay I have to escalate.. .that's the gameplan" so I grab her stool and pull it closer to mine and put my arm around her.. sall good. So then another like 10 minutes of convo and she goes to the bathroom and I tell her I'll watch her drink and I end up shootin the shit with the bartender (cool dude) while she's gone.

She comes back and moves the stool away from mine, but it doesn't phase me at all. I just keep talking and vibing and after another like 10 minutes of convo, again I think, "Okay, the gameplan- escalate or lead but do one of those" so I just say FUCK IT and I have no clue if she's that into me but I just know I have to escalate so I go in for the makeout and it's on!

We makeout a bit and then I pull back.. shoot more shit... makeout.. shoot more shit... okay so now I'm thinking, "I've escalated, next step lead" so I stand up and grab her hand and lead her back up the stairs and at this point the attraction is super on and comfort//rapport has already been established so this is just a SUPER SOLID set.

Oh- also, so it's important to note that I used the makeout, PURELY as a tool for escalation. I had already escalated physically with putting my arm around her and shit and there just wasn't that much sexual tension, so I actually used the makeout to CREATE sexual tension, as opposed to what happens most of the time, which is that the makeout releases the tension.

Anyway- head upstairs and I sit down and I guide her to my lap and she straddles me and starts shakin her ass and I'm grabbin her ass and letting her dance on me. Oh, also her friends had come up and told her they were all leaving in like 10 minutes so she kept telling me, "okay I have to leave in 5" and kept giving me time updates... I think she may have wanted me to somehow take responsibility from her and get her to stay but I just didn't know how...

Anyway- at one poitn she gets in my ear and is like, "We'll see if you even text me".. like she's worried I won't. and I'm just like, "I'm gonna prove you wrong" and she's like, "We'll see"

So then I decide to keep leading her. So I grab her hand and take her back downstairs to the bar and we sit and shoot the shit and makeout a bit and I'm grabbin all over, gropin the titties etc..

So escalation was there... rapport was there... comfort was there (maybe- ooo this was missing!) attraction was there.. leading was there

I was very pleased with how I executed the gameplan with this gal. So anyway- her friends come down and say they are leaving and she tells me she has to leave, so I say, "okay" and give her a kiss goodbye.

She texts me like 20 minutes later saying, "Have a good night!". I text her back a smiley face.

So then I head to the bathroom cause I gotta take a fuckin piss. Take a piss and head back upstairs and I'm laughing like, "well fuck... still gotta get my approaches in! lol"

So I look around and there is really nothing around so I walk outside and chill for a bit and see two girls smoking. Roll up on them and ask for a cig... she gives it to me and I'm just like, "actually, I just wanted to talk to you guys" (weak as fuck.. I know lmao)... anyway- we talk for like 5 or 10 minutes but there isn't much attraction at all... and they head inside and i lose them.

So then as I'm walking inside I see three girls talking with this dude sitting down and I go in and pull out one of them and I grab her hand and give her bomb eye contact and I'm just like, "Hey" and she starts laughing cause she's nervous nad is like, "Hey".. "What's your name" so I tell her my name and she keeps laughing and i swear to god, here we go again, she's like, "Omg you're so from california" and I'm like, "yeah.. how'd you know" and she's like, "The necklace.. that and you look the part" .. so we talk for a bit more and she's just like nervous and then like grabs her friends hand who is talking to the dude and is like, "xxx this is BG! Guess where he's from!" so her friend guesses switzerland...

I tell her, "No.. california" and she's like, "What" and I'm like "california" and she's like, "What" ... now mind you it's not loud at all and I'm very much speaking loud so I look back at the first girl and I'm like, "Is there something wrong with your friend" ... I just knew something was off. She doesn't know what to say to me because she's girl coding her friend (telling her I'm actually a cool guy and not to fuck with me) so the other girl eventually is just like, "Whatever, I don't even care" so I turn back to the first girl and keep talking and I"m like, 'What's up with your friend, she was being weird" and she kinda just like shrugs and is almost like embarrassed about what her friend did.

So then, the other girl comes back into the picture and walks around in front of me and is smiling and like, "Wait what's your name again" and then is like, "I was just fucking around earlier" and I'm like, "oh okay, yeah I didn't really care, I just kinda thought you were a retard" and she starts laughing (my back is to the dude and I'm about 8 feet away from him) so now it's me with my back to the dude and slightly away from him with the two girls in front of me.. their third friend who was the only one left talking to the dude then comes over and is like, "Wait what's your name.. you're from cali right" so in a matter of like 40 seconds, I had stolen every single girl from the dude without speaking a word to the guy, "except when the first girl very briefly introduced us" and with hardly saying anything to the girls... this was kinda interesting...

Anyway- the first girl chimes back in and is like, "That other guy is calling you xxx" (He was trying to tool me by calling me a fake name) and I just look at her and I'm like, "yeah I don't care" and then keep talking to her friend...Okay, so I thought this was a GREAT way to handle this particular AMOG because he was ALREADY out of the picture... they were standing in front of me and my back was to him, he was gone, he didn't matter anymore, so there was no point in caring, no point in engaging with whatever he was doing in any way, it truly didn't matter and I truly didn't care... so I just very quickly said, "Yeah I don't care" and then quickly went back to what I was doing... basically just putting the nail of his coffin of forgottenness. If I had gotten pissed or annoyed and turned around and engaged him in any way, I would have been bringing him back into the conversation.. which is pointless.. he was already gone.


This really gets to her and she starts working for my attention.

But the other girl I'm talking to is way hotter so I just go with her.

She tells me how they just come to this bar to make fun of the guys and I laugh and I'm like, "except me" and give her serious eye contact and then I'm like, "Because I'm awesome" and she can't help but nod... "Attraction is NOT a choice" those are some TRUE fucking words right there... that's what was so confusing to these girls.. they did not come to this bar to get picked up, they came to make fun of guys and have a girl night... but then they all somehow found themselves attracted to me and couldn't figure out what was going on

So then the one girl is like, "Okay we're leaving" so I go up to the girl who initially was trying to fuck with me and I talk for just like another minute or two and then I'm like, "give me digits" and she's like, "Okay I'll give you my business card" and I look at her with eye contact and I'm like, "NO... I want your phone number" and she gives it to me. I text her, "-BG- the only guy at xxxbar you didn't make fun of"

And she responded later on with, "Is there sucha thing? haha hi nice to meet you"

So that was pretty cool. It was like literally the entire group just swarmed me and left the other dude. I didn't even really do anything... they all just like swarmed with questions like, "Where are you from, what's your name, omg cali, omg your necklace, omg cali, omg what's your name again" lmao

And I look back and the other dude is literally sitting alone now... kinda felt bad

So they leave and I head upstairs and approach one girl but it's awkward cause her back is to me and i try to grab her hand but miss lmao... so she ends up rejecting me pretty hard

Then I walk to the dance floor and some fatty wants me but I just stare her down and shake my head lmao... I'm kinda a dick..

Anyway- head to the back and see this fucking HOTTY in a red dress and just point at her... absolutely no go, she totally just ignores me. I stick around... she ignores me... I stick around... she ignores me.. their dude friend is laughing (I don't care) I grab one of their friends hands and she says something but I can't hear and then like goes away...

I head down and leave..

All approaches that I committed to were done.

I also executed the gameplan that I had set out VERY well.

I escalated and I led... And it seems as if both numbers are responding, so that's always a plus.

I also am beginning to approach groups of girls and guys and actually pulled all the girls away from that one dude... so lots of positives tonight and just overal executing the gameplan and focusing on my sticking points

I actually didn't feel nearly as "in state" as I did last night but was able to push and do things that I wasn't doing last night.. so that is really cool. State is a bonus, but I can do it all without state. Just an understanding of what needs to be done and then doing it.

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