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Text Game Write up, She digs me but does't know my name lol ;)

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Alright so long story short, I met this chick by walking up to the bar and after she got drinks with her friends she takes a couple of steps and walks up to me and tells me that she likes my shirt, I don't follow through with that (my buddy was like bruh go talk to her!). I think the reason being was I didn't want go into chase mode and come off as a dog that wags his tail and follows her around just because she showed me some attention/validation.  I honestly don't remember/know why I didn't step to her right after she walked up to me but I believe it was for the reason(s) just stated. Technically I was going down the stairs to get change from the bar (to play pool) and she was going up after just getting drinks so in a way we were in each others way.

I tell the chick thanks and go about my way (I have a hunch I know why she did what she did but that’s for later). Later in the night, before I think about leaving I literally walk up to her and her group and I just give out a HEY! Some stupid shit like that, it wasn't proper or formal I think I just gave her/them the business with my body language and/or delivery I shall say. I make quick small talk with her friends, actually I didn't want to speak with her friends but she introduced so I made quick work of that. Moved onto her made her laugh or whatever then she tells me that she lied and didn't like the movie/hated it. I go for the number get it then just as I turn to leave, she touches my arm/shoulder and tells me that she wants that ice cream. (you'll understand once you read the texts) I respond with: as long as you come with me or as long as we get to it together (it was one or the other), we give a flirty smile and I walk away say bye to the homies and go down stairs.

Something I took from my write up of the night so that you guys can get more context:

She tells me that she wants that ice cream (but she does it in a flirty almost double entendre sort of way like I want that come LOL at least that’s what it seem like to me haha) so respond with one of those two responses in a similar manner (Honestly I’m not sure if I made eye contact but I know most likely that I got the message across to her, the same as she/hers did to me/for me lol).

 

 

Sent the first message the night we met.

Me:Lmao (laugh emoji) 

Several days later*

Me: it maybe a new year but I'd bet money you're still into ice cream lol ;P

Her: whose thiss

Me: this is Batman, and we had a lively conversation about ice cream (emoji with the cool shades on)

Me: I meant to get back to you a lot sooner but crime fighting around New Years = fidget spinners & fireworks lol

Her: To be honest I don't remember

Her: Are you sure ?

Me: Remember teeling someone you liked their shirt then confess to lying about it aka hating the movie it was based on lol

Her: I do remember saying that but I don't remember you

Yesterday had this convo:

Me: LMAO I was the dude in the Deadpool shirt. We met at (venue). If you were trying to peep the name just say

Her: haha I don't remember (two laughing emoji's)

Me: Same thing for me the other day, so I went into deep thought: lied about loving Deadpool! Really wants/loves ice cream (monkey emoji) plus ;P lol

Me: LMAO I honestly don't remember if I told you my name…

About 3 hours later:

Her: No I don't know your name

Her: Haha

Her: Sorry I was a little drunk that night

 

I didn't respond to her Saturday Night because I was out last night chatting up and having things going with some honey's ;)

 

Lol today I still haven't responded, I want to set this on the right track (she's fucking hot, idk if I mentioned that) and I think she's interested because I think she remembers flirting with me but just doesn't remember/know my name. 

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Just texted her back:

Me: Lol yeah I think we both were to be honest. I tried & really remember though ;)

Me: ALirght so all I'm giving you is my name no social lol

Me: Allow me to reintroduce myself my real name is Catch.That's my secret identity when I'm not Batman (I gave her my real name lol).

Her:Haha well i'm (gives me her name)

Her:Sorry Catch for not remembering lol 

*lol I honestly don't remember giving her my name.

I could/ want to go for the date but right now I'm broke and I get paid Friday, off the weekend ;)

Thinking about following this up with:

Well as long as you don't give up my secret identity since it could be used against me, well be fine

 

OR

 

Well I'll if you take me out to get that ice cream like we both wanted, all is forgiven ;P

 

Daddyjihad1 (not verified)
You're jumping the gun and

You're jumping the gun and moving wayyy too fast for her dawg. She isn't ready to be asked on a date, look at how she's responding to you. She's still trying to figure out who you are. Stir the pot some more and chill out. Build a vibe, be cool, and tone done the wittiness just a notch. You sound like a hungry predator lol.

Where are you two now?

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Fuck :/

I went with a variation of the second one... your right I thought something was off but wasn't sure.

What do you mean where are we?

I jumped the gun and went for date lol

Daddyjihad1 (not verified)
Like has she responded? Whats

Like has she responded? Whats the current text

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oh shit lol of course

Me: Well hello (wave emoji) [her name], we meet again sober this time lol

Me: If you help me steal back al the ice cream the wet bandits stole from Dairy Queen, I can forgive it ;P

*I sent these messages about 3-4 hours after her

it should also be noted that she has the read reciepts on for the iphone. and the last message she "read" was the one before these, so she either hasn't read the last two messages I sent her or she turned the read reciepts off... :/

Daddyjihad1 (not verified)
Chop off my balls and give

Chop off my balls and give them to Aunt Jemima if she responds

Report back if she responds. If not, we'll make fun of you then craft something cool. Lol jk it'll work out :)

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:)) lookie lookie

The response:

Her: haha what ice cream haha

At first I was like fuck she's definitely interested and wants to make it happen as well then I thought, "wait does she mean: what do you mean ice cream as if she's curious about wtf I'm talking about" or she thinks I'm funny given all the hahahahahaah's she put lol

I don't want to misplay this.

The above text she sent me is where it's currently at she just sent that to me about 5 minutes ago while I was in the shower.... ;)

update: just sent her this

​Well they stole a lot, specifically the main one like the Neapolitan flavors (the big 3) people love that vanilla LOL  I could go more in depth but I’ve already revealed too much

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Its over dawg. Go out and

Its over dawg. Go out and play again. You hesitated when she complimented your shirt. You should’ve stepped to her right then. Do not let her get away. These are pivotal moments in game. When you went back up to her and her friends your eye contact was probably shit and your voice wasn’t projecting. Basics bruh. Ice cream is a good date but you’re over selling it and sound like a 12 year old. You’re not bein gangster enough!

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batehs wrote:Its over dawg.

batehs wrote:
Its over dawg. Go out and play again. You hesitated when she complimented your shirt. You should’ve stepped to her right then. 

Do not let her get away. These are pivotal moments in game. When you went back up to her and her friends your eye contact was probably shit and your voice wasn’t projecting. Basics bruh. Ice cream is a good date but you’re over selling it and sound like a 12 year old. You’re not bein gangster enough!

Damn I was wrong, I thought at that moment it wasn't the right move to make :/

I gotta be more gangster, hopefully a spiritual gangter lol ;)

I want to post another text thread (I have it all written out too, I think it's pretty good) but it's currently not letting me *sad face*