Girl just texted me "Do you have your own place?"
Thanks. I wanted to expand on a topic I touched in my last post that really gets overlooked. But texting really can put in perspective where your irl game REALLY is. Like you could be getting all kinds of numbers and shit thinking you're a mack, when really the girls thought you were creepy as fuck and just wanted you to get rid of you by giving you her number. Whether it is fake or real. Shit you actually couldve been macking on these chicks but because you didnt ground yourself as a real person, the girl is just like fuck this hes some random bar creep i hooked up with. It's tough to know where you are making progress without someone who knows whats up as well watching you so they can key in on what is really going on. The quality of your irl game has such an impact on how you are perceived, and consequently how your texts are interpreted. Now thats not to say you cant slam a chick who you didnt think it was on. Good texting can help overcome those girls that aren't "solid".
You have deeper problems to work on than just the technicalities of "text game." You need to work on your empathy. Part of the reason you failed was because you spent so much time worrying about how YOU felt... and you weren't really in control of that either btw.
For example, you got so hung up on "living with your parents" that you screwed yourself. She didn't think it was a big deal and you lacked the empathy to see.
A) You failed to control your own feelings
B) You failed to empathize and see her feelings let alone manage them.
^^Aequitas, that last one is gold. Texting makes all your inner game problems glaringly obvious.