Focus for Tonight
Wed, 06/27/2012 - 22:01
Okay, so my primary focus is to get my approaches in- that is the #1 goal and will be for the rest of my 30 day challenge. Just stickin to the basics here for a bit. No need to get flashy.
Secondary focus for tonight- Escalate solid sets through physicality/leading. Don't bail on solid sets just cause I feel like it's not going anywhere- allow myself to see the opportunities to take it further by being open to pushing my boundaries and getting physical and leading.
If I don't have any solid sets, it's okay, as long as I'm getting in my approaches and as long as my approaches are HARD and represent a true commitment to pushing myself and succeeding. No room for being a pussy in this.
Secondary focus for tonight- Escalate solid sets through physicality/leading. Don't bail on solid sets just cause I feel like it's not going anywhere- allow myself to see the opportunities to take it further by being open to pushing my boundaries and getting physical and leading.
If I don't have any solid sets, it's okay, as long as I'm getting in my approaches and as long as my approaches are HARD and represent a true commitment to pushing myself and succeeding. No room for being a pussy in this.
Wed, 06/27/2012 - 22:05
#1
Re: Focus for Tonight
@buddhagames:
Oh- also, as a way of doing this. Tonight I'm not going to go for any numbers. I am going to simply escalate and lead and see how far I can take each set. No getting numbers, not stopping at a makeout.
A makeout is, just like anything else, a tool. It can be used at certain points to further the interaction but, I actually think that the sexual tension that is built up before an opportunity for a makeout can be better capitalized on by escalating harder and leading more.
No numbers- unless SHE is like seriously leaving and there is nothing more I can do. Escalate and lead: That's the name of the game for tonight.
It's just something you gotta do if you want to be great. (Damn... that's my new motto. LOVE it.)
Oh- also, as a way of doing this. Tonight I'm not going to go for any numbers. I am going to simply escalate and lead and see how far I can take each set. No getting numbers, not stopping at a makeout.
A makeout is, just like anything else, a tool. It can be used at certain points to further the interaction but, I actually think that the sexual tension that is built up before an opportunity for a makeout can be better capitalized on by escalating harder and leading more.
No numbers- unless SHE is like seriously leaving and there is nothing more I can do. Escalate and lead: That's the name of the game for tonight.
It's just something you gotta do if you want to be great. (Damn... that's my new motto. LOVE it.)
Wed, 06/27/2012 - 22:07
#2
Re: Focus for Tonight
@buddhagames:
Yeah man ROCK IT!
Yeah man ROCK IT!
Wed, 06/27/2012 - 22:10
#3
Re: Focus for Tonight
@kris:
haha word.
Yeah, I have a good grounding in a long-term focus, so it's time to make little goal for each night I go out.
Approaching is always #1 and takes precedence over everything else ( I mean... duh?) but beyond that, every night I see little sticking points or shit that I'm doing that is pussy and so when that happens, it just means the next night I am going to target that stuff directly and systematically take it out.
haha word.
Yeah, I have a good grounding in a long-term focus, so it's time to make little goal for each night I go out.
Approaching is always #1 and takes precedence over everything else ( I mean... duh?) but beyond that, every night I see little sticking points or shit that I'm doing that is pussy and so when that happens, it just means the next night I am going to target that stuff directly and systematically take it out.
Wed, 06/27/2012 - 22:20
#4
Re: Focus for Tonight
@buddhagames:
Just be like "YEEOOO! I'm buddahgames! Who're you?! come ere, fiesty girl ey? you know what i do with fiesty girls? CHUCK EM IN THE AIRR, weeeeeeeeeeeee"
Just be like "YEEOOO! I'm buddahgames! Who're you?! come ere, fiesty girl ey? you know what i do with fiesty girls? CHUCK EM IN THE AIRR, weeeeeeeeeeeee"
Wed, 06/27/2012 - 22:21
#5
Re: Focus for Tonight
@kris:
alternatively just be chill ;p
alternatively just be chill ;p
Wed, 06/27/2012 - 22:24
#6
Re: Focus for Tonight
@kris:
haha, cool man.
I'll prob just go for lots of physicality but mantain my chilled out, relaxed demeaner... I think there's something to this. I don't know what it is but I think it's something I can really develop and be congruent with. Like INTESNSE physicality but combined with my natural, very chill, very expressive personality... I think there's something to this.
I'm not even trying to focus on verbals right now... I think it's just such a small part of the game that to focus on that now wouldn't actually benefit me that much.
haha, cool man.
I'll prob just go for lots of physicality but mantain my chilled out, relaxed demeaner... I think there's something to this. I don't know what it is but I think it's something I can really develop and be congruent with. Like INTESNSE physicality but combined with my natural, very chill, very expressive personality... I think there's something to this.
I'm not even trying to focus on verbals right now... I think it's just such a small part of the game that to focus on that now wouldn't actually benefit me that much.