Damn... I think I've been infected with... with... oneitis...
Mon, 07/30/2012 - 04:32
So I developed a small case of oneitis for this gal I met yesterday at a day party.
6'0, blonde hair, model... smart as fuck, has a fucking sexy as hell british accent was all cute saying how she's a huge nerd and was telling me her favorite books and shit... we chatted for a good hour or more.. She reminds me of my last girlfriend (who literally sent me on a crazy spiral of craziness that ended up with me getting into the community)... my last gf was also like 6'0, model, smart as fuck (went to school with me)...
At the end of the convo she goes, "We need to exchange numbers. I don't have work tomorrow so we should meet up and get brunch"...
Hit her up today and she's responding but it's been all flakes on her end. No meet.
Ughh... I'm going out tonight. I gotta get this girl out of my mind.
BUT
All that complaining and bitching having been said: I want to write up some lessons from this.
1. It actually feels kinda good to know that this can still happen to me. I had begun to wonder if I just didn't care about girls anymore, if it was ever going to be possible for me to find a girl I was into, becuase I just literally haven't really cared about any girl I've met in a VERY VERY long time... Like literally, I haven't met a girl who I actually like WANTED to be with.
2. I am realizing that I am a just a super super high value guy. Like what I realized is that my standards have been almost too low recently. Just in the sense that it takes a SUPER SUPER high value girl to actually make me interested, to holy that interest and make me like actually WANT to be with her.
like katalyst was telling me this- he was like, "Dude, you're just like way sicker than you even realize" and I think that I need to just kind of RECOGNIZE the value I'm bringing to the table... like recognize the caliber of girl that actually interests me.
3. I am going to lose this girl... it's just the way life works. She's already cooked. I am going to meditate and move on. Go out tonight and do my thang. It hurts a little but I'm just gonna delete her number and move on.
5. I'm not self sufficient. Sure, it may take like a really really high value girl to make me feel like this, but the fact that I CAN feel like this, simply means that I'm still looking for something. I'm looking for something to fill that "void"... It exists and this is life's way of showing me that it exists.
Damn... Please. Somebody just call me a faggot and be done with it.
6'0, blonde hair, model... smart as fuck, has a fucking sexy as hell british accent was all cute saying how she's a huge nerd and was telling me her favorite books and shit... we chatted for a good hour or more.. She reminds me of my last girlfriend (who literally sent me on a crazy spiral of craziness that ended up with me getting into the community)... my last gf was also like 6'0, model, smart as fuck (went to school with me)...
At the end of the convo she goes, "We need to exchange numbers. I don't have work tomorrow so we should meet up and get brunch"...
Hit her up today and she's responding but it's been all flakes on her end. No meet.
Ughh... I'm going out tonight. I gotta get this girl out of my mind.
BUT
All that complaining and bitching having been said: I want to write up some lessons from this.
1. It actually feels kinda good to know that this can still happen to me. I had begun to wonder if I just didn't care about girls anymore, if it was ever going to be possible for me to find a girl I was into, becuase I just literally haven't really cared about any girl I've met in a VERY VERY long time... Like literally, I haven't met a girl who I actually like WANTED to be with.
2. I am realizing that I am a just a super super high value guy. Like what I realized is that my standards have been almost too low recently. Just in the sense that it takes a SUPER SUPER high value girl to actually make me interested, to holy that interest and make me like actually WANT to be with her.
like katalyst was telling me this- he was like, "Dude, you're just like way sicker than you even realize" and I think that I need to just kind of RECOGNIZE the value I'm bringing to the table... like recognize the caliber of girl that actually interests me.
3. I am going to lose this girl... it's just the way life works. She's already cooked. I am going to meditate and move on. Go out tonight and do my thang. It hurts a little but I'm just gonna delete her number and move on.
5. I'm not self sufficient. Sure, it may take like a really really high value girl to make me feel like this, but the fact that I CAN feel like this, simply means that I'm still looking for something. I'm looking for something to fill that "void"... It exists and this is life's way of showing me that it exists.
Damn... Please. Somebody just call me a faggot and be done with it.
Mon, 07/30/2012 - 04:39
#1
You're good - no worries
@buddhagames:
faggot. LMAO.
just fuckin w/u - just RELAX. be patient - like alex from rsd says "time is your ally" she senses you want it too bad so she's making you wait. she likes you. you spent more than an hour in that hipster chaos yesterday -you're all good. just take your time, run your superb text game and you're good to go. you like her so she's going to .
AND YOU ARE NOT TO WIFE HER. YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO LEAVE THE NYC YOLO DREAM TEAM FOR AT LEAST A YEAR. PLEASE.
I've got to lot to comment on in your thread.
ps. you are so fuckin money. like when i saw with "club slut" yesterday you were just doing all the right things. keep doing visualizations
faggot. LMAO.
just fuckin w/u - just RELAX. be patient - like alex from rsd says "time is your ally" she senses you want it too bad so she's making you wait. she likes you. you spent more than an hour in that hipster chaos yesterday -you're all good. just take your time, run your superb text game and you're good to go. you like her so she's going to .
AND YOU ARE NOT TO WIFE HER. YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO LEAVE THE NYC YOLO DREAM TEAM FOR AT LEAST A YEAR. PLEASE.
I've got to lot to comment on in your thread.
ps. you are so fuckin money. like when i saw with "club slut" yesterday you were just doing all the right things. keep doing visualizations
Mon, 07/30/2012 - 04:39
#2
You're good - no worries
@buddhagames:
double post
double post
Mon, 07/30/2012 - 05:42
#3
Re: You're good - no worries
@Katalyst:
ha! yeah, I appreciate that dude... I'm going back to cali for like 3 weeks though, so I wanted to see if I could get her in before I left... But i'm just gonna let shit play out the way it should. You're 100% right.
Also- wow, I just meditated for the first time today- it's crazy how those kinds of thoughts start to come up, even just not meditating for ONE DAY... Like I meditated yesterday at like 5ish and then I waited until like 1130 tonight to do it and between then and this time I did it- I basically crumbled lmfao
I feel much more relaxed about the whole situation now. Not too worried about it.
lol and dude- I'm SO PUMPED for the NYC YOLO DREAM TEAM.
In the next year, we are going to collectively make new york city our bitch. So much to learn from you guys.
Like I really think that this is a group that could become legendary in our exploits.
Also- Manwhore... when you come through the city, you will have to join up for a night... if you can handle the awesomeness, that is :b (It's funny, cause he's training 2/3 of this group)
ha! yeah, I appreciate that dude... I'm going back to cali for like 3 weeks though, so I wanted to see if I could get her in before I left... But i'm just gonna let shit play out the way it should. You're 100% right.
Also- wow, I just meditated for the first time today- it's crazy how those kinds of thoughts start to come up, even just not meditating for ONE DAY... Like I meditated yesterday at like 5ish and then I waited until like 1130 tonight to do it and between then and this time I did it- I basically crumbled lmfao
I feel much more relaxed about the whole situation now. Not too worried about it.
lol and dude- I'm SO PUMPED for the NYC YOLO DREAM TEAM.
In the next year, we are going to collectively make new york city our bitch. So much to learn from you guys.
Like I really think that this is a group that could become legendary in our exploits.
Also- Manwhore... when you come through the city, you will have to join up for a night... if you can handle the awesomeness, that is :b (It's funny, cause he's training 2/3 of this group)
Mon, 07/30/2012 - 14:19
#4
Re: Damn... I think I'v.. with... oneitis...
@buddhagames:
Hahaha I am going to make up a big post about oneitis, my current problems and a fr combined. Oneitis is a funny thing. I caught it for one girl a while back and noticed the disease affected my game with other girls.. Not just her. It's a horrible horrible thing. But easily fixed! And I thought i was above catching it too and rationalized my feelings for the girl cause she was a cut above the others (which she actually was!! Not just mind projections). But ANY time your talking to a girl from the sellers frame their is something wrong. Really really really experienced guys don't usually catch oneitis cause even if the girl is fucking brad Pitt they still have the inner game to stay the buyer and keep their emotions in check.
I'm going to write up a big post about my thoughts around this.. Won't be anything revolutionary but it's how the rsd stuff is clicking into my head.
Hahaha I am going to make up a big post about oneitis, my current problems and a fr combined. Oneitis is a funny thing. I caught it for one girl a while back and noticed the disease affected my game with other girls.. Not just her. It's a horrible horrible thing. But easily fixed! And I thought i was above catching it too and rationalized my feelings for the girl cause she was a cut above the others (which she actually was!! Not just mind projections). But ANY time your talking to a girl from the sellers frame their is something wrong. Really really really experienced guys don't usually catch oneitis cause even if the girl is fucking brad Pitt they still have the inner game to stay the buyer and keep their emotions in check.
I'm going to write up a big post about my thoughts around this.. Won't be anything revolutionary but it's how the rsd stuff is clicking into my head.