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Being the man... in the presence of chodes and ugly girls

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Joined: 03/27/2013

I'm sure we've all experienced this at some point. I was just thinking how fucked up this really is. It is so damn easy to be "the man", "alpha", whatever you want to call it around chodes and ugly girls but then have nervousness set in around AMOGS and sexy girls.

WHY does this happen. Why would I ever let the external world effect that way I present myself. Maybe it isn't the people around me that influence how I act, but some mental pattern that tells me I'm supposed to act different around different types of people. Talk about mental BULLSHIT

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Joined: 06/07/2012
It happens because your brain

It happens because your brain isn't fucking stupid. It knows the difference between a chode/ugly girl and an amog/hot girl. Welcome to reality.

In fact, you should be glad it happens because it allows you to be better than other guys who can't deal with that shit. Furthermore, if we were at a point that we had evolved past this shit then game wouldn't even work.

You deal with this shit by expanding your comfort zone/exposing yourself to new experiences and over-riding limiting mindsets with new beliefs.