Alexis- already set up meet with her and her group tnight
Fri, 08/31/2012 - 21:00
Last night I was on fire! In a crappy quiet state and snapped out of it into absolutely killing it. Sober and mostly alone no less.
My most memorable set of the night was a 2 set with a girl on her birthday. First time at a bar. I opened weak but they were still into it cause I was man handling birthday girl. I think my biggest problem was because I was just slaying it with several girls in the other room I was in a supperrr chill mode. In the other room I didn't have to say a word and girls were all over me due to being loud, social proof, making it rain value just before. But these girls didn't see them. So I went up and just started chatting but it didn't have that umphh behind it. Cause I went in for the insta makeout with birthday girl and she didn't have it. I still held her close and led her upstairs by hand. Some other dude who seems to haw met them that night starts talking to them and I give him the friend. Perfect. We're chatting, it's going good. I get bored with chit chat, so I put her in front of me instead of my side and pull her in. She keeps chatting. I get more bored so I self amuse with some dumb answers which she believes and then cut her off and tell her she's really hot. I went for the makeout again at some point but no dice. All of a sudden the guy disappears???? He had a beautiful busty Italian girl and we have an awesome foursome and he just peaces.. Fuck. So here's m other biggest problem. My girl sees her friend being bored and I should gone to the bar with them, the dance floor, sat them at a table, ANYTHING! But instead I hold my girl and continue to chit chat. She notices her friends being bored and starts to leave. Gives me the "I like you but no" kisses on the neck and cheek. I try to tell them were going to the dance floor but it's too late. She offers her phone number and duhhhhhhh I don't take it cause I wanted to get my index finger wet. It backfires terribly and shes disappointed but still leaves. Whoops. It's a shame. Thick half Asian with large boobs. My fav type of Asian. Sigh. Should've got the number.. Oh well lots of lessons for this one set.
Annnyyyways the mixed group I met up with that night. 2 dudes, 6 girls. I killed it. Just sooo social and talkative. Giving value without any outcome. Ahhh awesome. Been a while since ive done that feels good man. Why I love the game. One of the girls I've met before is pretty cute. Not hot. But tells me she got hammered last weekend cause I was at the same function as her. Turns out she really likes me. Cool. But it's unattractive that her response to liking someone is getting hammered and not even talking to me. Kind of a turn off. I'd still hit it but I'd rather one of two other girls there. One of them - Alexis - is bringing a visitor to the baseball game tnight and then probably going out. This girl was super cool last night. I was joking about anything with her and he made me laugh a few times. She's super chill and pretty productive in her professional life. Dating material for sure but... Not for me. Def a cool girl though just not my gf style. Ill hit it and see what comes after. We made plans for next week but she mentioned a baseball game tnight which I didn't try to invite myself to or anything. Today she texts me:
Her: Yoooooo
Her: What are u doing tonight
Me: I might have to stay in, do paper work n shiizz :S
Me: You still going to the jays game?
Her: Ya wanna come?
Me: Im down. Depends when I finish work though. You doing anything before or after
Her: Possibly after ya
Her: K lemme know when u know. I already have the tickets. (They're free) but ill tell someone else to come if u can't make it
Me: Sahweet! K I'll let you know asap
Her: hokie!
Me: Eff work! Sign me up Alexis
Her: Yayyy! I love u
Her: It starts at 7
So simple texts. Not much else needed to be done. Last night she was into me but not like googly eye attracted. It just needs more time. I'm wondering what to reply though. My first instinct was to fall in her frame. That wasnt an actual I love you but she is just happy I'm coming cause I was so fun yesterday. I need her to be happy I'm coming because she can makeout with me at the game and fool around in a car later. So I was just going to reply: <3 love you more. Meet you there at 7. Or something like that. But it falls into her frame of us just being like best friends. Lame. Was thinking of just ignoring it and replying logistically... Wondering what's best. Thoughts?
My most memorable set of the night was a 2 set with a girl on her birthday. First time at a bar. I opened weak but they were still into it cause I was man handling birthday girl. I think my biggest problem was because I was just slaying it with several girls in the other room I was in a supperrr chill mode. In the other room I didn't have to say a word and girls were all over me due to being loud, social proof, making it rain value just before. But these girls didn't see them. So I went up and just started chatting but it didn't have that umphh behind it. Cause I went in for the insta makeout with birthday girl and she didn't have it. I still held her close and led her upstairs by hand. Some other dude who seems to haw met them that night starts talking to them and I give him the friend. Perfect. We're chatting, it's going good. I get bored with chit chat, so I put her in front of me instead of my side and pull her in. She keeps chatting. I get more bored so I self amuse with some dumb answers which she believes and then cut her off and tell her she's really hot. I went for the makeout again at some point but no dice. All of a sudden the guy disappears???? He had a beautiful busty Italian girl and we have an awesome foursome and he just peaces.. Fuck. So here's m other biggest problem. My girl sees her friend being bored and I should gone to the bar with them, the dance floor, sat them at a table, ANYTHING! But instead I hold my girl and continue to chit chat. She notices her friends being bored and starts to leave. Gives me the "I like you but no" kisses on the neck and cheek. I try to tell them were going to the dance floor but it's too late. She offers her phone number and duhhhhhhh I don't take it cause I wanted to get my index finger wet. It backfires terribly and shes disappointed but still leaves. Whoops. It's a shame. Thick half Asian with large boobs. My fav type of Asian. Sigh. Should've got the number.. Oh well lots of lessons for this one set.
Annnyyyways the mixed group I met up with that night. 2 dudes, 6 girls. I killed it. Just sooo social and talkative. Giving value without any outcome. Ahhh awesome. Been a while since ive done that feels good man. Why I love the game. One of the girls I've met before is pretty cute. Not hot. But tells me she got hammered last weekend cause I was at the same function as her. Turns out she really likes me. Cool. But it's unattractive that her response to liking someone is getting hammered and not even talking to me. Kind of a turn off. I'd still hit it but I'd rather one of two other girls there. One of them - Alexis - is bringing a visitor to the baseball game tnight and then probably going out. This girl was super cool last night. I was joking about anything with her and he made me laugh a few times. She's super chill and pretty productive in her professional life. Dating material for sure but... Not for me. Def a cool girl though just not my gf style. Ill hit it and see what comes after. We made plans for next week but she mentioned a baseball game tnight which I didn't try to invite myself to or anything. Today she texts me:
Her: Yoooooo
Her: What are u doing tonight
Me: I might have to stay in, do paper work n shiizz :S
Me: You still going to the jays game?
Her: Ya wanna come?
Me: Im down. Depends when I finish work though. You doing anything before or after
Her: Possibly after ya
Her: K lemme know when u know. I already have the tickets. (They're free) but ill tell someone else to come if u can't make it
Me: Sahweet! K I'll let you know asap
Her: hokie!
Me: Eff work! Sign me up Alexis
Her: Yayyy! I love u
Her: It starts at 7
So simple texts. Not much else needed to be done. Last night she was into me but not like googly eye attracted. It just needs more time. I'm wondering what to reply though. My first instinct was to fall in her frame. That wasnt an actual I love you but she is just happy I'm coming cause I was so fun yesterday. I need her to be happy I'm coming because she can makeout with me at the game and fool around in a car later. So I was just going to reply: <3 love you more. Meet you there at 7. Or something like that. But it falls into her frame of us just being like best friends. Lame. Was thinking of just ignoring it and replying logistically... Wondering what's best. Thoughts?
Fri, 08/31/2012 - 21:05
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Re: Alexis- already set up meet with her and her group tnight
@icewahine:
Oh and I wanted to get out my escalation with her. So with this girl I was being mostly friendly at the start but at the end of the night (we were both sober). I put my hand on her knee under the table when making a point or something. I could sense it starting to be uncomfortable an pulled away before she did. Which was good. Lots of eye contact and the end. She gave me a hugggeee hug after we made plans next weekend. Legs and bodies were touching almost alwys when sitting. I did the manwhore take over her body while sitting. Hand on knee and Kinda sitting with my shoulder over her. Awesome. Tnight all I think I gotta do is the same and then isolate her somewhere. I don't want to get stuck in linear progression here but then all that's left to do is lead her around by hand and kiss her.
Oh and I wanted to get out my escalation with her. So with this girl I was being mostly friendly at the start but at the end of the night (we were both sober). I put my hand on her knee under the table when making a point or something. I could sense it starting to be uncomfortable an pulled away before she did. Which was good. Lots of eye contact and the end. She gave me a hugggeee hug after we made plans next weekend. Legs and bodies were touching almost alwys when sitting. I did the manwhore take over her body while sitting. Hand on knee and Kinda sitting with my shoulder over her. Awesome. Tnight all I think I gotta do is the same and then isolate her somewhere. I don't want to get stuck in linear progression here but then all that's left to do is lead her around by hand and kiss her.