2 girls 1 thread. Need guidance! MANWHORE, BUDDHA, EVERYONE ELSE GTFIH
Thu, 09/06/2012 - 17:31
First Girl: Chelsea
Been sporadically trying to get her to meet up for over a month now. Never really gotten anywhere. She agreed and then flaked. Here are our most recent texts. Of note is the fact that this is the first time has ever initiated a text with me. She did invite me out a couple nights ago but I was completely exhausted and had to work at 8am (I do manual labor) It sucks but there was no way I was going to be able to go out w/o killing myself.
I honestly don't know what to send or where I should be directing this conversation. I do feel like I'm getting closer but I also think it would be easy to mess it up.
Second Girl: Vania
I met Vania almost a year ago while sarging the local university dorms during frosh week. We really hit it off and eventually met up for coffee last October. Everything was good I just had a lot of stuff going on (gf, fb, and random hook-ups) and so I just flaked on her and then never responded to her texts. I re-initiated in July and chatted a couple of times over text. I knew she was going to be living like a 5 minute walk from me + she seems like a really cool girl.
I met up with her at a bar on Saturday night, ended up making out on my balcony but I couldn't escalate (I blame my extreme tiredness, like I wasn't even horny). Had her over to my place on Tuesday night, talked for a while made-out etc. Got in her in the bedroom but she was getting too turned on so she bailed (I know, I know wtf is wrong with you) This girl is super hot, probably the hottest girl I've ever hooked up with (body-wise) She is 5"9", model, competed in Miss Canada, Eastern European etc. I think her hotness is clouding my judgement and I don't ever know what to do. As she was leaving we made plans to hang out friday night and make dinner together, and then I got the text below...
Any input and insight is appreciated guys!
Been sporadically trying to get her to meet up for over a month now. Never really gotten anywhere. She agreed and then flaked. Here are our most recent texts. Of note is the fact that this is the first time has ever initiated a text with me. She did invite me out a couple nights ago but I was completely exhausted and had to work at 8am (I do manual labor) It sucks but there was no way I was going to be able to go out w/o killing myself.
I honestly don't know what to send or where I should be directing this conversation. I do feel like I'm getting closer but I also think it would be easy to mess it up.
Second Girl: Vania
I met Vania almost a year ago while sarging the local university dorms during frosh week. We really hit it off and eventually met up for coffee last October. Everything was good I just had a lot of stuff going on (gf, fb, and random hook-ups) and so I just flaked on her and then never responded to her texts. I re-initiated in July and chatted a couple of times over text. I knew she was going to be living like a 5 minute walk from me + she seems like a really cool girl.
I met up with her at a bar on Saturday night, ended up making out on my balcony but I couldn't escalate (I blame my extreme tiredness, like I wasn't even horny). Had her over to my place on Tuesday night, talked for a while made-out etc. Got in her in the bedroom but she was getting too turned on so she bailed (I know, I know wtf is wrong with you) This girl is super hot, probably the hottest girl I've ever hooked up with (body-wise) She is 5"9", model, competed in Miss Canada, Eastern European etc. I think her hotness is clouding my judgement and I don't ever know what to do. As she was leaving we made plans to hang out friday night and make dinner together, and then I got the text below...
Any input and insight is appreciated guys!
Thu, 09/06/2012 - 18:31
#1
yo
@HUNTER:
With the first girl, seems like she wants to actually hangout with you but is possibly bringing a friend along for more 'security.' Bring a friend of yours along that can handle the friend so your girl can just be focused on you. Snowboarding would be perfect to make her like you more by teaching her, wrapping your arms around her to balance etc.
With the second girl, don't invite her to just dinner. Do something fun that will get her excited to be there with you. And your last text was pretty lame by admitting defeat and then saying 'its understandable...' To me, it came off as being too outcome dependent. Next time that happens, text her like it didn't affect you and you are having fun doing whatever was planned or hanging out with some friends at a bar etc. Basically act like she missed out on having a great time.
With the first girl, seems like she wants to actually hangout with you but is possibly bringing a friend along for more 'security.' Bring a friend of yours along that can handle the friend so your girl can just be focused on you. Snowboarding would be perfect to make her like you more by teaching her, wrapping your arms around her to balance etc.
With the second girl, don't invite her to just dinner. Do something fun that will get her excited to be there with you. And your last text was pretty lame by admitting defeat and then saying 'its understandable...' To me, it came off as being too outcome dependent. Next time that happens, text her like it didn't affect you and you are having fun doing whatever was planned or hanging out with some friends at a bar etc. Basically act like she missed out on having a great time.
Thu, 09/06/2012 - 18:52
#2
Re: yo
Haste;1174.8397;70 wrote:
@HUNTER:
With the first girl, seems like she wants to actually hangout with you but is possibly bringing a friend along for more 'security.' Bring a friend of yours along that can handle the friend so your girl can just be focused on you. Snowboarding would be perfect to make her like you more by teaching her, wrapping your arms around her to balance etc.
I should have given more detail. The whole snowboarding thing is a complete joke it's still summer where I live. It's like 85 degrees out right now lol.
Haste;1174.8397;70 wrote:
With the second girl, don't invite her to just dinner. Do something fun that will get her excited to be there with you. And your last text was pretty lame by admitting defeat and then saying 'its understandable...' To me, it came off as being too outcome dependent. Next time that happens, text her like it didn't affect you and you are having fun doing whatever was planned or hanging out with some friends at a bar etc. Basically act like she missed out on having a great time.
We talked a lot about different recipes and etc. We both just moved out and have been discussing our attempts at cooking. I suggested making dinner together (which IMO is one of the sickest dates you can do) I definitely agree the last text was fucking brutal.
What I was meaning to say is that she was extremely flustered when I asked her. We were in the middle making out in my bed, squeezing dem titties, etc and she's like "ohhh I have to go" and got up and booked it to the door (I'm guessing she was getting too turned on and knew she had to leave or she was going to fuck? I didn't know what to do here) . As we were saying goodbye I asked when she was free, she immediately said friday, then I said cool we'll make dinner together and she's said ok. She didn't have time to think about it at all and her mind was clearly not thinking properly. The text I sent didn't really convey the message I wanted it to and I don't even know if that was the right type of message to send.
Either way she still hasn't responded (it's now the next day at 1:45pm). Definitely misunderstood my text, reading it again now I don't know how anyone would understand it. It was one of those times when the words you're saying don't convey the mental thoughts you have. FUCK.
Fri, 09/07/2012 - 02:19
#3
Re: yo
@HUNTER:
Oh In that case, the snowboarding joke was good lol. Seems like she is investing into the interaction and wants to hangout, so make it happen!
Nevermind on dinner being lame, I thought you were going on the 'traditional' dinner date. I would just wait till tomorrow and shoot her a text to re-engage and maybe wait till Sat to ask her to hangout. Seems like she was having LMR and she wasn't in the right emotional state to have sex with you. If you two don't know much about one another, she could have second guessed it from that.
Oh In that case, the snowboarding joke was good lol. Seems like she is investing into the interaction and wants to hangout, so make it happen!
Nevermind on dinner being lame, I thought you were going on the 'traditional' dinner date. I would just wait till tomorrow and shoot her a text to re-engage and maybe wait till Sat to ask her to hangout. Seems like she was having LMR and she wasn't in the right emotional state to have sex with you. If you two don't know much about one another, she could have second guessed it from that.
Fri, 09/07/2012 - 07:43
#4
Re: yo
Haste;1174.8406;70 wrote:
@HUNTER:
Oh In that case, the snowboarding joke was good lol. Seems like she is investing into the interaction and wants to hangout, so make it happen!
Nevermind on dinner being lame, I thought you were going on the 'traditional' dinner date. I would just wait till tomorrow and shoot her a text to re-engage and maybe wait till Sat to ask her to hangout. Seems like she was having LMR and she wasn't in the right emotional state to have sex with you. If you two don't know much about one another, she could have second guessed it from that.
I wanted to wait but couldn't!
Hang-out was good but I was unable to push it sexually. She invited me into her apartment and etc. I'm just not used to girls this hot and of such a high value. Every time she would start getting turned on she would try and stop the emotions. Before I left I was more dominant and she seemed more receptive (small moans, fingers really digging into me) I know that I need to start being more dominant sexually I just can't seem to do in person...
EDIT: she bought the ice cream as well... I picked it out and she paid for it. Haagen-daz mmm
Fri, 09/07/2012 - 23:37
#5
Re: yo
@HUNTER:
Haagen-daz is fucking delicious!
Haagen-daz is fucking delicious!