Catholic guitar, cat, oops. smileys? ahhhhhhh
Me: Hey Korean Princess of the crown to Spijkenisse. Do you like to go for a run?
KOrea - 1 hr 15 mins later: Well, depends who's asking ;)
Me - 32 mins later: Cool, its Phil. You were so cute and turning me on in bed, if just a bit of that works when running... superman :)
KOrea - 9 mins later: Haha well, dont raise the bar too high.. im not much of a runner :( could cheer u on from the bike though ;)
Me - 41 mins later: Haha you'll do great. I was sick, so now I am boosting my health. I do that slowly but passionately, no need to worry. Tmw at 11 its superman session no one. Would make my day if princess came along!
KOrea - 19 mins later: Hmm id love to, but i have to be at uni around that time. Another time perhaps?
Me - 41 mins later: No prob. will let ya know. Probably Sunday!
KOrea - 1 hr 53 mins later: Ok,i'll have to prepare myself,mentally that is
KOrea - 1 week 6 days later: I have to ask u if it's ok if i kick your ass a bit later. I have to pick up a friend from the station. Hopefully I'll swing by concordia later on.
Me - 8 mins later: do whatever to prepare, i'll wake up in the middle of the night and beat your ass :)
Me - 1 hr 10 mins later: Come by my place I feel like playing some chords on my new guitar. We can drink wine or play pool
Me: Or do pillow fights
KOrea - 1 hr 19 mins later: Haha im sorry,i just finished my dinner. Can i take a rain check by any chance?
Me - 5 mins later: No, it's over. I'd prefer you to divorce tho.
Me - 13 mins later: My cat is guitar is highly catholic and would be disappointed if I did. Also I win the pillow fight by default
And what when she asks if its ok to flake (friend at station.. yadda rain check)? Have made out on two different night with her in clubs, on the phone she was very positive almost too excited/nervous. Now convoy is cold for 3 days.
Where to go from here? Any general advice?
The other issue is you go from trying to plan super platonic dates with her to inviting her over for basically a booty call session. Not really congruent.
My basic setup is, start texting her, get a response and build momentum, ask her what she's doing later at a high point, and BOOM, get her out immediately for something fun and casual yet close to your house.