Reading A Book
Fuck this shit. I’ve been on this power trip.
This could be an overall great understanding on conduct between two partners in a relationship. What does proper behavior look like on the subtle level and such.
As well as what is innoncent, a mistake, what can be forgiven, and what can't etc. In some cases, not saying here, a girl might not actually know. The point is however to make her know. She might even think its ok because he's my friend or something. And that needs to be addressed
Story 1 is unacceptable by both your "boy" and your girl. Why are you acquiescing in these scenarios? Where is that fear really coming from? Ask yourself the tough questions.
Story 2 is also unacceptable. Shows signs that you need to work on not being fucked with. No sting to you dog. Straight up. Story 1 illustrates this too if your boy thinks it's fucking cool to put his arm around your girl like that. When I say sting I also don't just mean being more physically imposing. I mean your verbals, demeanor, your vibe, verbal sparring. Like you have the wit to be able to tool these motherfuckers if you took MW's training. If it's how I imagine this went down that's downright disrespectful and worthy of knocking his teeth in.
Story 3 I can't tell for sure because we're missing a good chunk of facts while you were in the restroom but seems like nothing there.
More context for story 1:
I was only gone for a hot minute. It wasn't long at all so I don't think there was context for why they could have been touching eachother aside from the fact that they were in the same vicinity cause he was the only other person at the party that she knew. They weren't leaning back or on a couch or anything. Him, my girl, and another one of our mutual female friends (not attractive), they were standing up in the main room where beer pong was played and they were around a lot of our friends. Facing another friend. He had his arms around both of them and our unattractive friend and him were engaging another person and she was just standing there watching, not talking, just looked like she was observing and listening.