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Nat: Hello I'm going to cook you the best steak *I took her phone and sent myself this*
Nat - 14 mins later: Hello , I probably won't cook you a steak. But I promise I'm still kinda cool
Me - 8 hrs 48 mins later: Natasha, I just ate bbq veggies for a bed night snack.
Me: Nom Nom Nom
*pocket dial her by accident*
Nat - 1 day 1 hr later: Hi. Sorry I'm in the library so I can't answer my phone
Me - 4 mins later: No worries. Keener! at the library already eh. I just finished breakfast. Feeling pretty lazy.
Nat - 56 mins later: Haha I intended to start studying yesterday but that didn't happen so I got a pretty early start this morning. Breakfast at noon? I think there's another word for that called lunch
Me - 13 mins later: I'm starting a new trend. Breakfast at lunch. Just you wait, I its going to be the new cool thing.
Nat - 24 mins later: Okay but then what about the people who wake up at a reasonable hour? What are they supposed to call their first meal of the day?
Me - 52 mins later: Hmmm not sure. I usually don't eat it, so I'll be OK.
Nat - 3 hrs 48 mins later: It's an important meal you know. I've been at school since nine. I feel it's a suitable time to quit studying, right?
Me - 2 hrs 46 mins later: That's a solid 8 hours. Pretty good for a Sunday. You can come visit me. I'm at the [xyz] film festival working a booth
Nat - 1 hr 11 mins later: Ahhh that sounds so much better than my day. What sort of booth?
*Send her a pic of the booth*
Me - 2 hrs 7 mins later: Ok, I'm starving now. I'll take that dinner you promised me ;)
Nat - 1 hr 23 mins later: Haha :( I wish. I really have to study. I have three midterms this week. But definitely soon
Nat - 5 mins later: Except I still won't make you a steak lol
Me - 1 hr 11 mins later: Eff I don't miss school. Good luck with those.
Me: I'm also a big fan of baked goods ;)
Nat - 43 mins later: Any allergies I should be aware of? Haha
Me - 33 mins later: Nope. It's all good.

Two days later
Me: I send a pic of a concert I'm at. "Red Hot Chili Peppers last night. So good :)"
Her: She sends me a picture of her study notes. "So jealous. I hate you."

Me - 2 hrs 59 mins later: Haha
Me: What are you studying?
Nat - 1 day 12 hrs later: I had my African archaeology test today and now I'm studying for my ancient maya one on Thursday. So many flowcharts.
Me - 1 hr 9 mins later: Oohh flow charts. Fun!!!! :P That sounds way over my head. What's your degree?
Nat - 1 hr 24 mins later: Archaeology. Aka the most useless degree known to humanity. But it's so interesting
Me - 32 mins later: Hmm I've never met anyone in archeology. You probably should have been a paleontologist.
Nat - 31 mins later: What no way. Dinosaurs are way less cool than people. Trust me
Nat: What do you do?
Me - 30 mins later: No way. I have a really interesting bone that you could have examined if you were a paleontologist.
Me - 12 mins later: I'm an Enginerd
Nat - 38 mins later: A fossil bone? Or a bone bone? Because anything that's not fossilized falls under zooarchaeology.
Nat: What kind of enginerd?
Me - 58 mins later: A phallic bone. Bout 7" inches in length.
Me: I'm a structural Engineer.
Nat - 39 mins later: Wow. I get it. That's a terrible joke. You should never use it again
Me - 7 mins later: Yea, came off better when I heard about.
Me - 3 hrs 24 mins later: In your studies have you read anything about the end of the world in December? I'm looking for a reason to skip work tomorrow. World ending in a month would work.
Nat - 36 mins later: It's a fraud. A) December 21 simply represents the start of a new calendar cycle for the maya. Not the end of the world. B) there is no agreed upon date for the start of the last cycle, it's one of thee according to epigraphers, so December 21st is one of three dates that would begin the new cycle
Me - 10 mins later: Epigrapher is a profession? Just learned something new today.
Me: I'll probably still use the end of the world as a good excuse to party on December 20.
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Re: Girl from drum
@Fred...:

Ugh, the order of the texts is all fucked. Going to fix it quickly.

UPDATE: Fixed. The times still are off. Some texts are immediately after each other and a some are a few hours later. First text was Friday night and the last text was sent last night (Tuesday).

I met this cutie at a bar on Friday. Talked some bullshit for 15-20 mins before she had to leave.

Here are my first thoughts on this convo:

1) I just finished reading that bb.com misc thread and had to put that joke in. It flopped, but I don't think it killed me. Reading back, there were some good opportunities to take the convo some other directions, but I kept pounding forward with that joke.

2) I thought the start of the convo was OK. A little playful with a bit of "get to know you" stuff.

3) I'm not sure where to go with texts because she can't meet up this week. I don't make plans more than a 2-3 days in advance so I'm not going to arrange something for next week yet. Would you guys just stop texting her until closer to next week or keep sending some comfort buillding and joking texts?

4) She's definitely controlling the frame in the last few texts.

5) I'll probably reopnen with a picture of a hockey game I'm going to tonight. (Fuck you NHL)

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You guys have any feedback? I tend to get a number or two a week, so I don't care much about burning them down for the sake of learning.

I just spent more time writing up this post then I did texting this girl... WTF
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Re: Girl from drum
@Fred...:

woh...

Read manwhore's article on "giving away power"

Try to get more numbers in a week. 1 or 2 in a week just isn't enough.

Aim to get between 7-10 to start.
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Re: Girl from drum
@buddhagames:

Couldn't find the article. Can you link to it?
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Re: Girl from drum
Rogan says, "Why does it take so long for people to go for a meetup"
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Re: Girl from drum
@Manwhore:

Yeah... it's a lil ridiculous.

That's the 1st 2nd or 3rd text I'm sending, at the latest.
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"Apart from the pulling and hauling stands what I am, Stands amused, complacent, compassionating, idle, unitary, Looks down, is erect, or bends an arm on an impalpable certain rest, Looking with side-curved head curious what will come next, Both in and out of the game and watching and wondering at it."