Chick 2 doors down

So you know where this chick lives but you're asking her to come out on her balcony and want to hit her with an owl text? Dude I think you want to talk to someone else about this "group gaming" shit. I don't know what you got going on with this but it annoys me. Maybe someone else can chime in 

Group gaming?

It's just me and her. The Owl text was just meant to be funny but I could also use a different reengagement text

Like we were out on the balcony chilling w my roommates for a bit but then I took her into my room 

I'm a bit confused, where's this at now did you just text her "come to ur balcony" and didnt follow up?

Also what are you trying to do here? Its gonna be hard to escalate from two balconies over

Hey bro, thanks for replying.

Yeah I texted her that yesterday and she didn't respond. If she had responded I had planned on just talking to her from my balcony and getting her over. 

But yeah I just want to hang with her again. Would be cool to have her come over again but I wouldn't mind doing some type of activity with her first that'd warm her up. We have pool tables in the building so that'd be fun

Or just have her come over to drink again since thats what we did last time. She said she could bring me alcohol last time 

drinking on a balcony?

reminds of balconybrah from Misc. 

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2722375/Gable-Tostee-Tinder-just...

Oh. My. FUCK! Don't look, don't go outside there's a MASSIVE tiger on your balcony! If I'm gonna fight that thing, I'm gonna need you to come over and help me put on my armor

Ok sweet, I like the dynamic you're building with the roleplay. I sent it we'll see what she says

It's also interesting how you asked if I just texted "come to ur balcony" and didnt follow up.

Is that a scenario where you would definitely follow it up with something? I feel like it definitely could be, but I've been losing so many girls to, what in my mind I am interpreting as "overgaming" with too much text/too many texts, that I've been trying to be more minimal.

I might not have texted "come to ur balcony" its kinda like going for a high five and then being left hangin

Ahhh gotcha.

Yeah, for some reason I was thinking in my head that if she didn't respond it'd be okay cuz I could just interpret it as her not being home, and then go from there.

But I see what you mean I should definitely be going for texts that offer enough value that she pretty much HAS to respond. 

And that it's best to avoid sending texts that may not get a response. It's the difference between these that's hard for me to judge sometimes... Like in my mind this girl is into me so she would respond to a minimal text like that, but I see how it's better to play it safer by offering more value 

Also think it through. If you get her out on the balcony it might seem like some Romeo and Juliet shit but its actually a logistical nightmare, I'm sure this occurred to Romeo also. 

Did you ever have her sitting down while you were just straight.. mackin' her..? Or did you just invite her over, you had social times with her, and then pulled her to your room and went at her.. 

That's very interesting that you bring this up MW. 

I did NOT just plain mack her at any point one on one. Once I had her in my room I started playing one of my songs, pulled her into me by her hips and just went at her like you said.

She's so fine, I just couldn't keep my hands off her. But I'm realizing that's not what's up... I need to take more time with these stunning girls and calibrate to how the girl is feeling. Just pulled a girl earlier and was taking things way slower, practicing being aloof and appraising her, kissing her a bit and telling her that's all she gets for now type stuff. Also had my hand down her skirt and she wasn't wearing panties. She also showed no disapproval or shock of my hand being down there. I think this is because I took more time and "verbally escalated" a bunch before while we were on the roof (telling her about her waking up next to me and making me pancakes and other sotrylines where its assumed that we're going to be fucking) Would've gone further obviously but her friend came in my room and announced they were leaving. Thats the 2nd time thats happened in the last couple weeks.

Anyway my continued convo with this (2 doors down) girl is:

me: Come to ur balcony

me: Oh. My. FUCK! Don't look, don't go outside there's a MASSIVE tiger on your balcony! If I'm gonna fight that thing, I'm gonna need you to come over and help me put on my armor

next day

her: I was out of town I just got back today haha

her: Wyd tonight

me: Kickin ur butt in beerpong

her: Lmao where at?

call her she doesnt answer

me: It's a home game don't feel like embarassing you on ur home turf

her: Lmao I'm going out tonigh

me: Yah ur a sore loser it's cool

10min

me: Where u goin

35 min

me: Dang I look good right now

her: I look better

her: You know of anything tonight

me: Bars

5 days

me: Hey punkin. Hows your day going

next day

me: ...?

I saw her in the gym area as my friend and I were heading out today. Went in there and talked to her for a bit, she was doing ab and butt excercises and I was joking with her that we should get donuts tomorrow since we need to grow our butts after a hard glute workout. 

Then I was like seriously, what're u doing tomorrow. She said "text me" I said "Ok answer ur texts" and my friend and I left to go downtown.

Wondering what you guys would hit her up with. I actually like this girl and could see her being girlfriend material so......yeah

Ok bro, cool, you're getting the loverboy stuff down and there's nothing wrong with that. But DUDE.. you got to experience dominating a chick and her surrenduring to it. Because actually that's 70% of any seduction. Think about how much you're holding yourself back. Derp.

And I know the language of it sounds sorta old-fashioned or even slightly chauvinistic, but it's not! It's fucking a normal part of interactions between a guy and a girl. They each have their ways of asserting themselves over each other. It's just that most men are fucking clueless about this shit. 

She's like "You know of anything tonight" you're like.. "I'm practicing my batman moves at a bar tonight. I could use a sidekick. 

Yeah she's 19 which is why I figured there's no point in inviting her to a bar, but I see that you could turn that into some other form of logistical compliance.

Are you referring to loverboy as in me with the other girl I pulled last night? Well that was kind of the point was to try to move the dominating her process along more slowly, because recently my attempts at dominating have been met with resistance rather than surrender, (the first time I had the girl next door over) which is why I'm trying to spend more time "macking" them verbally and getting them more comfortable in general being close to me (as you alluded to in your previous response) 

Yeah bro I know it's normal and have no problem dominating a girl. In fact I want to and I completely agree it's natural and part of our blueprint as men, it's just I'm trying to do it in a way where I don't get met with so much resistance when I do, bc that's definitely been recurring for me, although last night I got no resistance and definitely would have continued if her friend hadn't cockblocked

I mean verbally dude

Ohhhhh gotcha

Here's the continued convo today:

me: I'm so over this whole "traffic" thing. Soon they'll be building freeways for me

1 hr 40 min

her: Wtf *crying emoji* hahaha that was so random!

me: Yah, I mayy let you ride shotty if u promise to be good :)

me: Bonnie 'n Clyde style

2 hrs

her: Haha, I gotchu *emoji wink*

me: I'm hitting tasty Tuesday, come

her: What do they have?

me: Idk but I'm super hungry

45 min

me: Ok nvm I smashed that in a hurry. Wyd now tho I'm robbing the liquor store tonight. I could use a sidekick.

(Tasty tuesday is free catered food on tuesdays in our bldg)

I can see that she reads my texts and then takes a while to respond after. She read this one over 2 hours ago

Any thoughts on the dynamic here/ what angle to go at this from?

EDIT: Ok nvm she just texted me

her: Hey my bad I was sleeping when you texted me *emojis* did you rob the liquor store yet though?

her: *emojis*

me: No not yet. Do u have your catwoman outfit cuz we're gonna need to be incognito

her: I'm actually at the gym, so I don't have my car woman outfit at the moment. We might need to reschedule this robbery for tomorrow boss

her: *emoji

I guess she is implying that she's at the gym, and has class in the morning so it would be better to hangout tomorrow instead of today.

Do you guys think I should push for tonight or just go with tomorrow? I like how she's accepting my frame though and referring to me as boss. good girl

Yeah so now tho switch it up to a bit more serious but boss type frame. With a bit more of a sexual tinge. Something like "yeah but I hit that liquor store hard already. Now I just need to sip these brewskis in peace and have a back massage when you heading over tomorrow" 

Alright cool I sent that word for word. I suppose I'll give her until late afternoon/early evening to respond, she read it last night when I sent it.

Is there a specific protocol here incase she doesn't respond?

you better bang this lil 19 yr old.

Dude I'm definitely going to. I'm more into her than any other girl I've been talking to I'm definitely gonna make this happen. 

I've got another girl coming over tomorrow but I'm thinking I'll kick her out and hang w my girl after.

She didn't respond to that last message, so I'm thinking of going:

me: Yo was crazy busy yesterday didn't even get my R&R. Can you manage to sneak away from the books/gym for a secret mission later. Just got my new batsuit in the mail

What do you guys think? I feel like she was digging this "adventure" type vibe

Yeah. But Batman doesn't advertise 

Could you explain verbally dominating a bit more?

I feel like i have the body language, tonality and take a dominating role but not necessarily "verbally".

That's part of the training program. 

Yesterday

me: Hey was crazy busy yesterday didn't even get my R&R. Can you manage to sneak away from the books/gym for a secret mission later. Just got my new batsuit in the mail

5 hrs

her: Nice, how does it look on ya? *emoji devil

her: Is it incgnito enough?

her: What time ya thinking about going on a mission at?

me: How does 9-9:30 sound. Yeah they finally got my waistline right this time

9am this morning

her: Hey you awake?

her: Yesss

3.5 hrs 

me: I was out fighting crime late lastnight

me: Why boo what's up

her: Hahaha *crying emoji* wow and you didn't in invite me?

me: It was a solo mission what you doing later tho I might need your help

she read that at 1:30

What do you guys think is going on here? Is she just nervous to meetup like the other girl? How would you suggest allaying her nerves/ disqualifying myself? 

She usually reads my texts right away and then takes a while to respond after

You're so all over the place where's your consistency. You go from talking about bat suits and fighting crime, not grounded in reality at all, to getting pissed off trying to push push push and force a girl to meet up and get pissed at her when she doesn't. Derp 

She's into the whole secret mission type thing so I've just been going with that theme (I thought I was being consistent by doing that). But every time I bring up the meeting up aspect of it she just takes forever to respond (like the next day) or asks some other type of question that avoids actually meeting up.

And I'm not sure where in this convo I pushed super hard for the meetup and then "got pissed off," unless you're referring to my text convo's in general...

Anyway I must not be understanding something for you to be saying this, cause I thought I was being consistent by keeping with the same theme, and that she was being inconsistent by sounding like she wants to hang out but also taking forever to respond, kind of skirting around the subject

I guess if you're saying I need to ground it in reality by spelling out exactly what we're going to do when we meetup that makes sense.

But her patterns of texting me in the morning/ reacting enthusiastically to my texts and then just going radio silent is what's confusing me

No man we've discussed this ad nauseam on the forum. Some of you guys blast off into outer space and never ground shit in reality. Girls fluff off. Buddhagames was the worst perpetrator of this. Now answer my question. I got two hotties wanting to hang out, which one should I go with? 

You should go with the one who's more into you, or have them both come over in the way you helped PB do that one time off tinder

I'm going with the one that doesn't have a car and looks like Pocahontas. She can't go nowhere 

They're both into me, pff

OK so I'm seriously wondering what a good way to ground this into reality is

what about:

me: Hey you. Can you shoot pool. Or at least make an attempt at it ; )

or 

me: Hey let's get icecream. I just had an intense butt workout and need to appropriately gorge

or I could hit her with a combo:

me: You know what sounds amazing?

her: What?

me: The jacuzzi...we should totally hit it up