Venturing in UC Santa Barbara
Tue, 07/10/2012 - 11:19
So yeah after about 2 weeks of choding around in UC Santa Barbara, Yesterday i finally decided to head out for some day game, It's been waaayyy too long. For those of you who don't know UC Santa barbara, it is one of THE biggest party school in this nation. People come from all over California for the grand experience here. Racoons and skunks flipping your trashes over, the beach, the parties everyday, and the gals. You have to visit
I was buzzed for the 1st time while doing day game today. I understood first-hand why in several FRs i read, so many guys heading out to venues got drunk and it's hard for them to stop lol.
My initial fear of approaching was virtually gone, the hype and tunnel vision kicked in... crap i felt like i was about to run for governor. Made me come out of my shell and become more EXPRESSIVE. Got to the point where my face was within 6 inches from this hb9's face as she was staring deep into my eyes. Scared the shit out of me, I've never done that during day game because im a chode lol.
Today taught me that i've got to STOP playing it SAFE
Interaction that stood out for me:
I was walking down this super long street, blonde Hb8 with shades walks my direction >:D
Me: hi!
Her: hi! how's your day? (she asks me that and keeps walking past me...WTF!)
Me: (i turn around, with my arms out and dont reply. There was something about my facial expression that let her know that she can't talk to me and walk away lol)
Her: Sorry i was on my way home to cook...blah blah blah (as she walks back towards me for a hug)
*fluff talk*
Me: Anyways im not going to hold you off any longer, i have get back home before my cousin thinks you kidnapped me
Her: haha ya...blah blah
Me: ah ok. Have watched Ted yet btw?
Her: no
Me: Cool we're both missing out, im planning on watching it this week
Her: Isn't that kind of silly? (she gave that dirty look, she clearly didnt want to see it)
Me: (after 2 secs of thinking) Ya girl, i can be silly sometimes too (....fck)
Her: I don't know, i have a boyfriend...blah blah blah
WOW. This one just lied straight to my face lol
Maybe next time i shouldn't specify the movie?
In one of my 1st sets, i guess got lucky because the girl said she actually wanted to go see spiderman instead, cool.
Gawd why the hate towards Ted
I was buzzed for the 1st time while doing day game today. I understood first-hand why in several FRs i read, so many guys heading out to venues got drunk and it's hard for them to stop lol.
My initial fear of approaching was virtually gone, the hype and tunnel vision kicked in... crap i felt like i was about to run for governor. Made me come out of my shell and become more EXPRESSIVE. Got to the point where my face was within 6 inches from this hb9's face as she was staring deep into my eyes. Scared the shit out of me, I've never done that during day game because im a chode lol.
Today taught me that i've got to STOP playing it SAFE
Interaction that stood out for me:
I was walking down this super long street, blonde Hb8 with shades walks my direction >:D
Me: hi!
Her: hi! how's your day? (she asks me that and keeps walking past me...WTF!)
Me: (i turn around, with my arms out and dont reply. There was something about my facial expression that let her know that she can't talk to me and walk away lol)
Her: Sorry i was on my way home to cook...blah blah blah (as she walks back towards me for a hug)
*fluff talk*
Me: Anyways im not going to hold you off any longer, i have get back home before my cousin thinks you kidnapped me
Her: haha ya...blah blah
Me: ah ok. Have watched Ted yet btw?
Her: no
Me: Cool we're both missing out, im planning on watching it this week
Her: Isn't that kind of silly? (she gave that dirty look, she clearly didnt want to see it)
Me: (after 2 secs of thinking) Ya girl, i can be silly sometimes too (....fck)
Her: I don't know, i have a boyfriend...blah blah blah
WOW. This one just lied straight to my face lol
Maybe next time i shouldn't specify the movie?
In one of my 1st sets, i guess got lucky because the girl said she actually wanted to go see spiderman instead, cool.
Gawd why the hate towards Ted
Tue, 07/10/2012 - 16:52
#1
Re: Venturing in UC Santa Barbara
@Ghettoguru:
I look at shit tests as a sign that the girl wants me and as an opportunity to make her want me even more. I get worried when I don't get shit tests. Usually means I'm not going in hard enough or playing it safe.
I look at shit tests as a sign that the girl wants me and as an opportunity to make her want me even more. I get worried when I don't get shit tests. Usually means I'm not going in hard enough or playing it safe.
Tue, 07/10/2012 - 20:22
#2
Re: Venturing in UC Santa Barbara
@Sick-Cunt:
You're making a good point about the shit tests, completely forgot about that.
You're making a good point about the shit tests, completely forgot about that.
Sat, 07/14/2012 - 09:54
#3
Re: Venturing in UC Santa Barbara
So Wednesday i started texting this hb9 i met doing day game on Tuesday. 5'7 blonde stunner with amazing eyes... God damn. had a 10 mins interaction, qualified her, build some rapport and bounced,
Me: Hi Laurence it's Guru. We met yesterday afternoon as you were suspiciously standing by the bike racks.
Her: Hi Guru. My name is actually Lauren. How ya doing?
Me: Ya my bad Lauren, spellcheck works wonders on this phone ;P. Im enjoying these delicious Russian pancakes i made. How is it on your end?
Her: Haha autocorrect is the worst. Those do sounds tasty, are you a chef? I'm heading out to pick up some udon noodles.
Me: Yes im a chef in my own kitchen, i love playing with spatulas.
Udon sounds really good, what do you put in it?
Her: I got it from a restaurant but it's chicken soup with thick noodles and veggies.
Me: That should keep you satisfied for weeks. They always serve soup like it's the apocalypse.
Her:True. Asian soups tend to be quite filling. Luckily i won't have to worry about food for the next few weeks!
Me: Woot! it leaves plenty of cash on the side for some shopping!
Her: Ohhh yeah! Or just make up for yesterday's little shopping splurge
*FRIDAY*
Me: Gawd is it just me or is parking so easy to find on this campus
Her: Haha sarcasm? On campus is easy. IV, that can be tough (IV is the school's residential area)
Me: Lol you park in IV?
Her: Sometimes. My building has a parking lot tho luckily
Me: Haha that "Sometimes' sounds like you couldn't find a spot
Her: Haha no it just means i park over by the food places or on the street to visit friends. What are you up to?
Me: Getting my Skype bombarded with calls lol, catching up with friends. Friday is a fun day, what mischief are you causing?
Her: I put some purple in my hair earlier, so i guess that's mischievous of me. Other than that, i had a pretty G rated night so far out to dinner with relatives downtown. Catching up with friends is always good
Me: Aw shoot you would make a great sidekick. Purple hair on Halloween is what im going for ;)
Her: haha nice! it's just this hair chalk stuff that washes out. U can borrow some if i have any left by then ;$
*:)
Me: Applying it would require your expertise, i cannot do this project alone
Her: Haha it's not very difficult, but since i'm a generous human being i'm willing to help out
Me: And i admire that :) Say what is your schedule looking like tomorrow? i'm down for an adventure
*no reply yet*
Can anyone take some time to analyze this and see where i need to improve?
For the most part she was replying within 8 mins intervals while i was at least 2x as slow lol
-EDIT- She replied... 1:30am holy shit:
Her: My Day is pretty free! What kind of adventure do you have in mind?
Me: Hi Laurence it's Guru. We met yesterday afternoon as you were suspiciously standing by the bike racks.
Her: Hi Guru. My name is actually Lauren. How ya doing?
Me: Ya my bad Lauren, spellcheck works wonders on this phone ;P. Im enjoying these delicious Russian pancakes i made. How is it on your end?
Her: Haha autocorrect is the worst. Those do sounds tasty, are you a chef? I'm heading out to pick up some udon noodles.
Me: Yes im a chef in my own kitchen, i love playing with spatulas.
Udon sounds really good, what do you put in it?
Her: I got it from a restaurant but it's chicken soup with thick noodles and veggies.
Me: That should keep you satisfied for weeks. They always serve soup like it's the apocalypse.
Her:True. Asian soups tend to be quite filling. Luckily i won't have to worry about food for the next few weeks!
Me: Woot! it leaves plenty of cash on the side for some shopping!
Her: Ohhh yeah! Or just make up for yesterday's little shopping splurge
*FRIDAY*
Me: Gawd is it just me or is parking so easy to find on this campus
Her: Haha sarcasm? On campus is easy. IV, that can be tough (IV is the school's residential area)
Me: Lol you park in IV?
Her: Sometimes. My building has a parking lot tho luckily
Me: Haha that "Sometimes' sounds like you couldn't find a spot
Her: Haha no it just means i park over by the food places or on the street to visit friends. What are you up to?
Me: Getting my Skype bombarded with calls lol, catching up with friends. Friday is a fun day, what mischief are you causing?
Her: I put some purple in my hair earlier, so i guess that's mischievous of me. Other than that, i had a pretty G rated night so far out to dinner with relatives downtown. Catching up with friends is always good
Me: Aw shoot you would make a great sidekick. Purple hair on Halloween is what im going for ;)
Her: haha nice! it's just this hair chalk stuff that washes out. U can borrow some if i have any left by then ;$
*:)
Me: Applying it would require your expertise, i cannot do this project alone
Her: Haha it's not very difficult, but since i'm a generous human being i'm willing to help out
Me: And i admire that :) Say what is your schedule looking like tomorrow? i'm down for an adventure
*no reply yet*
Can anyone take some time to analyze this and see where i need to improve?
For the most part she was replying within 8 mins intervals while i was at least 2x as slow lol
-EDIT- She replied... 1:30am holy shit:
Her: My Day is pretty free! What kind of adventure do you have in mind?
Sat, 07/14/2012 - 12:23
#4
Re: Venturing in UC Santa Barbara
@Ghettoguru: IV is the shit. So much fun. Shes keen, get it.
Mon, 07/16/2012 - 10:56
#5
Re: Venturing in UC Santa Barbara
Yeah it is dude!
She agreed and asked what we were doing
Me: we'll wreak havoc downtown. Ice cream, Spiderman, then the beach.
Her: that sounds good! what time?
Me: ill call you, pick up :)
Her: kk gimme 5 mins
Anyways we meet up in front of this Mexican restaurant in IV. I was running late but it didnt take me long to spot her. She was wearing something kind of like this but showing more legs: http://www.kraiggrayson.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/plus-size-female-...
But ya from there we drove downtown. The gal walked pretty fast so it was hard for me to walk where i wanted lol. I tell her i want to go check out the store across the street. This store sold camping items and souvenirs. I grabbed a hat and placed it on her head. Teased her about how she looked like she came straight out of Miami beach.
Then we headed down to Pinkberry because it was hot AF. AT this point i purposefully created silence to get her to talk on her own. She wouldn't ramble on about something unless i asked her a question which i hate doing.
Anyways after that we bounced to the Movies. Movie starts pretty funny so we can't help but laugh and make comments here and there. She then asked me for my Facebook. At one point during the movie she crossed her legs. The one foot that was in the air was lightly rubbing against my leg. After that i could hear her breathing fast, horny?
It's so weird and hard to put into words but i have a VERY strong feeling she was doing that on purpose. I felt like it was my cue to do something but i pretended to feel nothing.
did i miss something here??
Movie ends and she drives us home. On the way back she points out her apartment which is literally a 5 mins walk from where i live, cool. When she pulled over in front of my apartment, i went into complete chode mode and babbling nonsense along the lines of:
"well today was awesome (pause) good to be back at pinkberry's it's been far too long (pause and she lols) i wish we'd talk more blah blah blah... well... ill talk to you later"<- wtf??
I got out of the car before i say anything else stupid.
Sent her a text last night basically saying it was great and goodnight.
Her: me too! night!
She agreed and asked what we were doing
Me: we'll wreak havoc downtown. Ice cream, Spiderman, then the beach.
Her: that sounds good! what time?
Me: ill call you, pick up :)
Her: kk gimme 5 mins
Anyways we meet up in front of this Mexican restaurant in IV. I was running late but it didnt take me long to spot her. She was wearing something kind of like this but showing more legs: http://www.kraiggrayson.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/plus-size-female-...
But ya from there we drove downtown. The gal walked pretty fast so it was hard for me to walk where i wanted lol. I tell her i want to go check out the store across the street. This store sold camping items and souvenirs. I grabbed a hat and placed it on her head. Teased her about how she looked like she came straight out of Miami beach.
Then we headed down to Pinkberry because it was hot AF. AT this point i purposefully created silence to get her to talk on her own. She wouldn't ramble on about something unless i asked her a question which i hate doing.
Anyways after that we bounced to the Movies. Movie starts pretty funny so we can't help but laugh and make comments here and there. She then asked me for my Facebook. At one point during the movie she crossed her legs. The one foot that was in the air was lightly rubbing against my leg. After that i could hear her breathing fast, horny?
It's so weird and hard to put into words but i have a VERY strong feeling she was doing that on purpose. I felt like it was my cue to do something but i pretended to feel nothing.
did i miss something here??
Movie ends and she drives us home. On the way back she points out her apartment which is literally a 5 mins walk from where i live, cool. When she pulled over in front of my apartment, i went into complete chode mode and babbling nonsense along the lines of:
"well today was awesome (pause) good to be back at pinkberry's it's been far too long (pause and she lols) i wish we'd talk more blah blah blah... well... ill talk to you later"<- wtf??
I got out of the car before i say anything else stupid.
Sent her a text last night basically saying it was great and goodnight.
Her: me too! night!
Mon, 07/23/2012 - 18:51
#6
Re: Venturing in UC Santa Barbara
@Aequitas
At this point in time, the place is just full of foreign exchange students and people visiting from all over holy shit. Met some people with whom i can put my French to the test, it's amazing.
After making effort here and there im getting my shit together. Im going to attend community college in Santa Barbara in Fall.... Ya very soon.
I am also in the process of getting back into shape. Been doing pushups almost everyday and frequently heading to the gym. I'm tall, very toned but skinny. Heavy weights, low reps for bigger muscles is the way to go from what i hear.
I've been focusing on building my social circle here and met some tight guys. This is where i need to start reading Manwhore's Social game material lol.
Anyways yesterday I got a call from this Irish dude i met at a party Friday. He invited me to a small BBQ party at his place in IV overlooking the beach. There were no more than 10 people there, half of which were girls. 2 of them were cute but i didn't have the intention to game, unless i found a good window of opportunity. Turns out i'm the only one who doesn't smoke weed, cutie qualifies herself saying she's extremely persuasive and saying she got the girl next to me into it blah blah blah... lol
Too bad she's returning to the Bay today ;P
Midnight rolled around and i started heading home. However i was feeling pumped up for whatever reason and decided to do street approaches on the way for 1 hour. Did some amazing plowing, i'm usually horrible at it.
I also met 2 Irish chicks, we were speaking in French and they loved it. One of them was carrying a box with beer in her hands so i basically told her to pass it over to help out. I was kind of hoping that would lead us walking together but that was a no go, #closed.
Now onto the best part of the night. I decided to go grab a bite at this Chipotle-like place on IV, this African was starving. The place was packed, pretty unusual at such a late time of the day.
I'm still outside and i walk by this girl chatting up some guy. Honestly she was like a 7 but I could tell there was nothing going on between the 2, so i tapped her back "Excuse me, hey i know this is totally out of the blue but i find you cute, what's your name?" I don't remember how receptive she was but things definitely hit rock-bottom when the table of 6 CHODES next to her stopped talking and eating just to watch me. They were all together, mixed set.
At this point i probably made the mistake of letting her know that we are being watched, but i said it in a way that it didn't bother me at all, i just found it really funny. One of the chodes tried to tool me and i remember responding "ya holmes she's been my gf for the like the past 3 minutes" then i kind of pulled her in and clawed her, i was totally self-amused. Then the gal totally back-stabbed me and said not to touch her. I was chill and let go. As i walked away another dude at that table said "yo you can't touch her like that again", i replied "yeah ok holmes" and laughed out loud.
This had to be the biggest cockblock i've ever faced, ill have to go through some more of this to deal with it better.
At this point in time, the place is just full of foreign exchange students and people visiting from all over holy shit. Met some people with whom i can put my French to the test, it's amazing.
After making effort here and there im getting my shit together. Im going to attend community college in Santa Barbara in Fall.... Ya very soon.
I am also in the process of getting back into shape. Been doing pushups almost everyday and frequently heading to the gym. I'm tall, very toned but skinny. Heavy weights, low reps for bigger muscles is the way to go from what i hear.
I've been focusing on building my social circle here and met some tight guys. This is where i need to start reading Manwhore's Social game material lol.
Anyways yesterday I got a call from this Irish dude i met at a party Friday. He invited me to a small BBQ party at his place in IV overlooking the beach. There were no more than 10 people there, half of which were girls. 2 of them were cute but i didn't have the intention to game, unless i found a good window of opportunity. Turns out i'm the only one who doesn't smoke weed, cutie qualifies herself saying she's extremely persuasive and saying she got the girl next to me into it blah blah blah... lol
Too bad she's returning to the Bay today ;P
Midnight rolled around and i started heading home. However i was feeling pumped up for whatever reason and decided to do street approaches on the way for 1 hour. Did some amazing plowing, i'm usually horrible at it.
I also met 2 Irish chicks, we were speaking in French and they loved it. One of them was carrying a box with beer in her hands so i basically told her to pass it over to help out. I was kind of hoping that would lead us walking together but that was a no go, #closed.
Now onto the best part of the night. I decided to go grab a bite at this Chipotle-like place on IV, this African was starving. The place was packed, pretty unusual at such a late time of the day.
I'm still outside and i walk by this girl chatting up some guy. Honestly she was like a 7 but I could tell there was nothing going on between the 2, so i tapped her back "Excuse me, hey i know this is totally out of the blue but i find you cute, what's your name?" I don't remember how receptive she was but things definitely hit rock-bottom when the table of 6 CHODES next to her stopped talking and eating just to watch me. They were all together, mixed set.
At this point i probably made the mistake of letting her know that we are being watched, but i said it in a way that it didn't bother me at all, i just found it really funny. One of the chodes tried to tool me and i remember responding "ya holmes she's been my gf for the like the past 3 minutes" then i kind of pulled her in and clawed her, i was totally self-amused. Then the gal totally back-stabbed me and said not to touch her. I was chill and let go. As i walked away another dude at that table said "yo you can't touch her like that again", i replied "yeah ok holmes" and laughed out loud.
This had to be the biggest cockblock i've ever faced, ill have to go through some more of this to deal with it better.