The point at which you can no longer explain what you're doing is the point at which your sticking point lies.
Tue, 07/31/2012 - 09:34
Title basically says it all.
Realized this because one of my MAJOR sticking points right now is AFTER the pull takes place.
Up until the pull takes place, I could write a very detailed breakdown of exactly how my interactions look. They are all very similar and have the same elements in them. After we leave the venue though, I couldn't write down or explain what it is I'm supposed to do.
It's the same thing with day2's... I can't explain what I'm doing- I'm sorta just "winging it"...
Two major sticking points of mine: Day2's and "Closing"
Thought this was a great way of figuring out where your sticking points are. Just think about how far into a "hypothetical" interaction you can go... like how far can you go and still be explaining, in detail, what you're doing, how you're doing it and the variety of ways she'll react and how to handle those reactions.
When that breaks down- you have your sticking point.
Realized this because one of my MAJOR sticking points right now is AFTER the pull takes place.
Up until the pull takes place, I could write a very detailed breakdown of exactly how my interactions look. They are all very similar and have the same elements in them. After we leave the venue though, I couldn't write down or explain what it is I'm supposed to do.
It's the same thing with day2's... I can't explain what I'm doing- I'm sorta just "winging it"...
Two major sticking points of mine: Day2's and "Closing"
Thought this was a great way of figuring out where your sticking points are. Just think about how far into a "hypothetical" interaction you can go... like how far can you go and still be explaining, in detail, what you're doing, how you're doing it and the variety of ways she'll react and how to handle those reactions.
When that breaks down- you have your sticking point.