My night...one of thoseee nights. Also a text convo...invited her out..no answer so far..hmm

Last night was...well to put it this way one of those nights. This is a good thing because well I do not have many nights like this. It was not that I got blown out a lot or that I missed a pull...I just got really attached to some of the girls I approached. Why? I don't know.

I was in the city hanging with friends for another friends birthday. It was cool. First spot is Upper East Side. The bar is dead as hell at first..only one girl there that didn't obvi have a bf. So what do I do? I talk to her. End up just talking to her for a large part of the early night. She's like a 6. I'm really just warming up. Not much physicality. While I do admit that is my sticking point, I just feel better holding it back...yea stickningpoint for sure.

End up leaving early to get something to eat. Why? Because I'm starving. I wasn't drinking (I don't drink much so I'll pass most of the time). I head back and get blown out once then start talking to a bachelorette party. She has this light up cock on her face. Hilarious. I'm playing with it giving her shit talking to the other party members. Feeling great. I say bye to them and start to work on getting the whole partyy to leave the bar so we can hit the next venue. In the process I spot another gorgeous two set and just approach. I say "Hey What's Up" eventually I joke on the fact that she has a cock on her chest. Funny thing i slater in the interaction she tells me how tha twas a better opener than someone else who called her nice looking before. Hilarious. Her and I have an awesome interaction. It's a two set too...just having chode convo but it was a little more high energy than expected. I grab the digits because my boy kept saying we had to leave. I notice that her background is another dude kissing her on the cheek. She didn't respond to my opening text so there is a possibility this could be dead...but nbd.

Get to the Gansevoort. We didn't even end up going in. If I remember I ddin't do any approaches. We head to another place after. Prahna? yea. We get into the section and I see this Asian girl immediately. I approach...this was probably my most genuine and best approach of the whole night. I just head in and smile, "You look really good tonight". She blew open..she's on vacation...visitng her cousin...she's from Cali. She was surprised that I don't drink. Eventually she says she's gonna check on her cousin and she goes. I was cool with it.

I dance with some more people and I'm just dancing on girls having fun. I'm sober btw.
The asian girl comes back and pulls me away saying she's bored and she needs someone to hang with.I immediately move her and we go to dance. She keeps bugging me to drink. I tell her I don't drink. She keeps asking me to do shots with her...my thing is that I think she was realllly sober and well just felt super nervous around me and couldn't take it unless she's drunk. Some girls, are like this. They do not do well around dudes they like unless they are drunk. I buy her and I a drink. WE have some more convo. Eventually she gives me this look and I say "if you want to kiss me you should just kiss me" She laughs and turns away from me...but then turns back. At the time I thought I she might have not liked it/...but looking back I think I hit the nail ont he head. Eventually she asks me to ask the bartender where the bathroom was. I decided I was gonna be difficult and not do w.e she wanted. She eventually walks away from me to another side of the bar. Prissy asian princess from California. Cliche. I make her wait like three minutes as I talk to my other friends at the bar and then I ask for her. I grab her and lead her to the stairs.> Tell her where it is and then she says "I'll meet yo back up here ok?" I'm like cool. I go in for th ekiss and she gives me her cheek. I end up kissing her neck. So boss of me haha. However I went in too fast for the kiss...nbd. She never comes back to me but I see her staring out of her section...bored as hell at me. I decide I didn't want to chase. Now that I think of it...I should've. I actually liked her...but the logisticcs were FUCKED (she was staying with her cousin...and I don't live in the city. She was actually asking me where I lived haha she def wanted to fuck) and I had no room in my car (I drove 4 people) etc. Next time..however I learned something from this set. 1. Always approach with a smile...sly smile...2- don't be afraid to buy a girl a drink. Especially if she came back to you. Now she may have just wanted a drink, but also some girls just NEED you to buy them a drink. It's sort've like passing go. 3. Don't get too attached...because they don't always comeback.

I do a few more approaches and get blown out a few times. A couple more Asian girls haha. aNothing crazy. Then I am walking through the downstairs area and I see this other Asian girl. I approach her..>I;m playing with her legs and shit and this dude comes out of no where and says "that's my girlfriend! ahah" I excuse myself. Nbd on that. I walk through more and see this 10 Asian Girl. Chinese. my type. I walk through people...excuse me excuse me excuse me...and I get to her...instantly physical...her name is Vanessa. we talk a bit...nothing too crazy and the conversation flails a bit but I keep plowing...she excuses her self and I take pictues of the table I'm in. I see her and I ask her if she's leaving. She says they might be going somewhere else. Cool i ask for the number and she tlls me she's seeinig someone...nbd. Eventually I walk about outside and I see her again. I reapproach instantly and talk to her friend and her. Good...I'm making good progress. She's smoking a cig. I tell her "you look just as good in the light" and she laughs and says thank you. Good. Eventually she finds out she's 5 years older than me and kept giving me shit for it. That's a stickingpoint here too. I don't know why she kept fronting on me lol. Ugh. She says shes gonna go back in. I tell her I'll see her inside. I end up running into her (purposely) again later on and try to dance with her but she just dances briefly but then goes with another dude...lol ok nbd).

A few more approaches but nothing really sparked after that.

Lessons:

I have no problem approaching. I love that about me. I open sets extremely well...my main issue is keeping their interest
I have entitlement issues for real...but thats alright. Just need to keep taking more and more chances.
I need to LET GO of my attachment to the outcome.