Lowest point Ever
Sat, 12/15/2012 - 06:12
i posted this on rsdnation i want to get feedback from here too
Have you ever been at a point in your life where you just feel like nothing is going your way?
i feel like no matter what i do or try i can't get any girl that i want can't get a date from phonegame to save my life
every day i feel like i get made fun of for something different or stupid
i sit on the bench of my college bball team after starting every year in highschool
currently have 0 women in my life
and i have to go each and everyday and pretend like everything is alright when infact ITS NOT ALRIGHT
i just wanna know if anybodys ever been through a super slump like this it's really depressing
Have you ever been at a point in your life where you just feel like nothing is going your way?
i feel like no matter what i do or try i can't get any girl that i want can't get a date from phonegame to save my life
every day i feel like i get made fun of for something different or stupid
i sit on the bench of my college bball team after starting every year in highschool
currently have 0 women in my life
and i have to go each and everyday and pretend like everything is alright when infact ITS NOT ALRIGHT
i just wanna know if anybodys ever been through a super slump like this it's really depressing
Sat, 12/15/2012 - 09:12
#1
Re: Lowest point Ever
@Shiminy21:
FIRST WORLD PROBLEMS. Real stress or real depression is when you can't put food in your stomach or don't have enough money to feed your wife and kids.
For real.
I have to be harsh. You sound like a pussy right now. I slip into this mode every so once in awhile and it's really not healthy.
You should be glad that you're actually on the team (a bunch of people tried out and didn't make the team and YOU DID so clearly you are at least the 12th best basketball player on your WHOLE CAMPUS.) - be glad that you actually know about the game instead of all these chodes that choose to turn a blind eye to it or scoff at you trying to improve yourself. It's going to happen - everyone wants to laugh at a "try-hard" because they can't do it. Next time you're on campus in the dining hall or walking about do yourself a favor and just study the faces of people for 5 minutes. You'll see at least 80% of the people are just followers and have no direction or purpose in life.
Trust me I can definitely relate - I actually felt this way a couple of months ago after going through a slump I felt that was of epic proportions and to be honest It's only until I started to believe that I was enough (just by breathing and taking positive action everyday) and also when I took a break from thinking about game for a couple of days that I started to see my first string of pretty epic results. And by believing you are enough - you are not judging your success on external results, just on your internal actions.
Shit gets better if you stick to it. I didn't get any ass in college and didn't lose my virginity after 18 months of straight up cold approaching so I know exactly how you feel about 0 women in your life. My nickname in college was Mr. 0-4 (0 for lays, 4 for years in college). I actually appreciate the struggle because I've seen people get success in the game easily and they've turned all soft and shit.
Just hold your head high and think to yourself "Laugh now, cry later". Stick to the process, walk your path and shit will be alright mann. Cry one out if you have to tonight and then promise yourself going forward that you won't judge your mood on shit that you can't control. When you're ready the world will give you what you deserve and you'll come to appreciate your success.
Btw how long have you been going out?
FIRST WORLD PROBLEMS. Real stress or real depression is when you can't put food in your stomach or don't have enough money to feed your wife and kids.
For real.
I have to be harsh. You sound like a pussy right now. I slip into this mode every so once in awhile and it's really not healthy.
You should be glad that you're actually on the team (a bunch of people tried out and didn't make the team and YOU DID so clearly you are at least the 12th best basketball player on your WHOLE CAMPUS.) - be glad that you actually know about the game instead of all these chodes that choose to turn a blind eye to it or scoff at you trying to improve yourself. It's going to happen - everyone wants to laugh at a "try-hard" because they can't do it. Next time you're on campus in the dining hall or walking about do yourself a favor and just study the faces of people for 5 minutes. You'll see at least 80% of the people are just followers and have no direction or purpose in life.
Trust me I can definitely relate - I actually felt this way a couple of months ago after going through a slump I felt that was of epic proportions and to be honest It's only until I started to believe that I was enough (just by breathing and taking positive action everyday) and also when I took a break from thinking about game for a couple of days that I started to see my first string of pretty epic results. And by believing you are enough - you are not judging your success on external results, just on your internal actions.
Shit gets better if you stick to it. I didn't get any ass in college and didn't lose my virginity after 18 months of straight up cold approaching so I know exactly how you feel about 0 women in your life. My nickname in college was Mr. 0-4 (0 for lays, 4 for years in college). I actually appreciate the struggle because I've seen people get success in the game easily and they've turned all soft and shit.
Just hold your head high and think to yourself "Laugh now, cry later". Stick to the process, walk your path and shit will be alright mann. Cry one out if you have to tonight and then promise yourself going forward that you won't judge your mood on shit that you can't control. When you're ready the world will give you what you deserve and you'll come to appreciate your success.
Btw how long have you been going out?
Sat, 12/15/2012 - 10:36
#2
Re: Lowest point Ever
@Shiminy21:
Ummm Fuck yeah I went through that shit. Still "deal" with shit like that. I play a lot of pickup basketball man and I know exactly what you are talking about. But here's the fucked up thing that no one wants to here....that faggot voice in your head is NOT you. It just absolutely isnt. Do you want to be a faggot? Of course not...its just a bullshit voice in your head that is a result of a lot of negative social conditioning that you had no control over. So now that you know this, start paying attention to your actual life. Like katalyst said, breathing and thinking "I am enough".... But yeah, check out the Power of Now dude. Seriously, do it
Ummm Fuck yeah I went through that shit. Still "deal" with shit like that. I play a lot of pickup basketball man and I know exactly what you are talking about. But here's the fucked up thing that no one wants to here....that faggot voice in your head is NOT you. It just absolutely isnt. Do you want to be a faggot? Of course not...its just a bullshit voice in your head that is a result of a lot of negative social conditioning that you had no control over. So now that you know this, start paying attention to your actual life. Like katalyst said, breathing and thinking "I am enough".... But yeah, check out the Power of Now dude. Seriously, do it
Sat, 12/15/2012 - 23:26
#3
Re: Lowest point Ever
@Shiminy21:
lmfao
yeah bro. You're not addicted to drugs. You're not homeless.
you don't even have FIRST WORLD problems.
lmfao
yeah bro. You're not addicted to drugs. You're not homeless.
you don't even have FIRST WORLD problems.
Sat, 12/15/2012 - 23:56
#4
Re: Lowest point Ever
Two types of people in this world: problem makers and problem solvers. Sack up.
Mon, 12/17/2012 - 01:24
#5
Re: Lowest point Ever
@Shiminy21:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VZ2HcRl4wSk
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VZ2HcRl4wSk