Hot Tiny Asian Chick - Need Text Help
Thu, 06/28/2012 - 06:47
Backstory:
Met this chick last week while me and my buddy were on campus at my alma mater. I opened by legitimately asking for directions, and she lingered a bit so I just got her to come with us. We ended up going to play pool with her, and my buddy left to give me some alone time with her. I tried to escalate but was pre-emptively shut down because she always moved back every time I tried to get close to her. I told her I wanted to see her again and asked for her number, but she said she has a boyfriend so only as friends (this "boyfriend" lives 6 hours away, supposedly). I played it cool and got her number.
Later that week I brought her to a concert with me. We were dancing together for maybe half the night, I was pressing my boner against her the whole time and touching her body and holding her hands, bit her neck, nibbled on her ear, yet every time I went in for the kiss she moved her head back. I tried for the makeout at least 5 times that night. Turns out she doesn't really drink, has a bit of social anxiety, and is more shy than I initially thought. When we were going back to my car she was real quiet, and talking to her felt like pulling teeth. She ended up blue balling me because her mom and sisters were staying with her at the time. I didn't even kiss her at all, except on the forehead. It still hurts for me to pee--can't tell if it's physical damage from dancing, her blue balling me, or both.
Anways, the texts below start from the day after this.
Me: Hey boo. I had fun last night.
Girl - 2 hrs 44 mins later: yah it was fun. thanks for inviting me
Me - 22 mins later: I sensed some shyness from you but found it endearing. Like a cute little fuzzy bunny.
Girl - 7 mins later: thanks? lol. wouldn't u rather hang out with someone more outgoing?
Me - 4 mins later: Nah I'll just bring a big carrot stick for you to munch on next time. ;)
Girl - 5 mins later: hmm good thing I like carrots huh? does that mean ur making me dinner? :D
Me - 5 mins later: Yes they are delicious and nutritious. ;) I would love to cook dinner with you, but only if you invite me over.
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Girl - 12 hrs 54 mins later: hmm I'll think about it.
Girl - 10 hrs 5 mins later: hello jello!
Me - 8 mins later: Hey I just got done with dinner. What are you up to.
Girl: just reading for class. what'd you eat?
Me - 32 mins later: I want to see you right now but I'm hanging out :(
Girl - 5 mins later: it's ok. we can hang out some other time!
Girl - 25 mins later: goodnight..
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Me - 1 day 13 hrs later: I don't think you're ready for this jelly.
Girl - 6 mins later: cause my bodys so bootylicious for you?
Me - 6 mins later: Aww you know me so well
Me - 11 mins later: so when is your bootylicious self going to be free?
Girl - 8 mins later: haha I dunno y?
Me - 7 mins later: Are you an FBI agent now? Look I just want to see you.
Girl - 10 mins later: ok maybe sometime this weekend?
Me - 8 mins later: This weekend is no bueno. Come to [free concert] with me later.
Girl - 11 mins later: I can't I have to study for my test tomorrow
Logistics wise, she lives with her sister and I live with my parents so I won't be able to pull her back to my place.
Please give me a critique guys. Where should I take the texting and how do I move this interaction forward in general?
Met this chick last week while me and my buddy were on campus at my alma mater. I opened by legitimately asking for directions, and she lingered a bit so I just got her to come with us. We ended up going to play pool with her, and my buddy left to give me some alone time with her. I tried to escalate but was pre-emptively shut down because she always moved back every time I tried to get close to her. I told her I wanted to see her again and asked for her number, but she said she has a boyfriend so only as friends (this "boyfriend" lives 6 hours away, supposedly). I played it cool and got her number.
Later that week I brought her to a concert with me. We were dancing together for maybe half the night, I was pressing my boner against her the whole time and touching her body and holding her hands, bit her neck, nibbled on her ear, yet every time I went in for the kiss she moved her head back. I tried for the makeout at least 5 times that night. Turns out she doesn't really drink, has a bit of social anxiety, and is more shy than I initially thought. When we were going back to my car she was real quiet, and talking to her felt like pulling teeth. She ended up blue balling me because her mom and sisters were staying with her at the time. I didn't even kiss her at all, except on the forehead. It still hurts for me to pee--can't tell if it's physical damage from dancing, her blue balling me, or both.
Anways, the texts below start from the day after this.
Me: Hey boo. I had fun last night.
Girl - 2 hrs 44 mins later: yah it was fun. thanks for inviting me
Me - 22 mins later: I sensed some shyness from you but found it endearing. Like a cute little fuzzy bunny.
Girl - 7 mins later: thanks? lol. wouldn't u rather hang out with someone more outgoing?
Me - 4 mins later: Nah I'll just bring a big carrot stick for you to munch on next time. ;)
Girl - 5 mins later: hmm good thing I like carrots huh? does that mean ur making me dinner? :D
Me - 5 mins later: Yes they are delicious and nutritious. ;) I would love to cook dinner with you, but only if you invite me over.
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Girl - 12 hrs 54 mins later: hmm I'll think about it.
Girl - 10 hrs 5 mins later: hello jello!
Me - 8 mins later: Hey I just got done with dinner. What are you up to.
Girl: just reading for class. what'd you eat?
Me - 32 mins later: I want to see you right now but I'm hanging out :(
Girl - 5 mins later: it's ok. we can hang out some other time!
Girl - 25 mins later: goodnight..
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Me - 1 day 13 hrs later: I don't think you're ready for this jelly.
Girl - 6 mins later: cause my bodys so bootylicious for you?
Me - 6 mins later: Aww you know me so well
Me - 11 mins later: so when is your bootylicious self going to be free?
Girl - 8 mins later: haha I dunno y?
Me - 7 mins later: Are you an FBI agent now? Look I just want to see you.
Girl - 10 mins later: ok maybe sometime this weekend?
Me - 8 mins later: This weekend is no bueno. Come to [free concert] with me later.
Girl - 11 mins later: I can't I have to study for my test tomorrow
Logistics wise, she lives with her sister and I live with my parents so I won't be able to pull her back to my place.
Please give me a critique guys. Where should I take the texting and how do I move this interaction forward in general?
Thu, 06/28/2012 - 08:37
#1
Re: Hot Tiny Asian Chick - Need Text Help
@biodiesel:
IMO I think it's good - just keep doing whatever you're doing and be patient. she definitely likes you. she will meet up with you. I would offer a lil cute funny text here or there and she should meet up w/you. no rush - i kno you want that ass. we all do but don't fuck yourself over - just be patient homie
IMO I think it's good - just keep doing whatever you're doing and be patient. she definitely likes you. she will meet up with you. I would offer a lil cute funny text here or there and she should meet up w/you. no rush - i kno you want that ass. we all do but don't fuck yourself over - just be patient homie
Thu, 06/28/2012 - 10:07
#2
Re: Hot Tiny Asian Chick - Need Text Help
@biodiesel:
Abundance man! There's no point in sticking around a girl if she's being hard about it, there are ALOT of women out there.
Do you really like it when I girl acts shy? Or is that something you just wrote?
Cause I really dislike shy girls, find it annoying tbh.
You're not doing anything "wrong" really, I would try to be more aggressive though and ask
Me: "How's your schedule for the week?"
Her: "I have work monday-wednesday"
Me: "Oh cool, I'm free on friday. Icecream, park and Prometheus, you + me. How awesome does that sound?"
(Or something you think she would like) And when she says yes that sounds awesome. You just got yourself a date..actually I'm gonna send that text to a girl I met the other day.
But yeah, as I said. If she still doesn't go for it. Think abundance, and you'll just add to your "Fury" as Tim would call it. And just go out there and find another girl.
Love
Wonder
Abundance man! There's no point in sticking around a girl if she's being hard about it, there are ALOT of women out there.
Do you really like it when I girl acts shy? Or is that something you just wrote?
Cause I really dislike shy girls, find it annoying tbh.
You're not doing anything "wrong" really, I would try to be more aggressive though and ask
Me: "How's your schedule for the week?"
Her: "I have work monday-wednesday"
Me: "Oh cool, I'm free on friday. Icecream, park and Prometheus, you + me. How awesome does that sound?"
(Or something you think she would like) And when she says yes that sounds awesome. You just got yourself a date..actually I'm gonna send that text to a girl I met the other day.
But yeah, as I said. If she still doesn't go for it. Think abundance, and you'll just add to your "Fury" as Tim would call it. And just go out there and find another girl.
Love
Wonder
Thu, 06/28/2012 - 22:15
#3
Re: Hot Tiny Asian Chick - Need Text Help
@biodiesel: Pretty obvi shes downzo for you. Patience with this one. Just keep driving that wedge between her and her bf and she'll cave in. Long distance js bound to fail imo, especially while in college. Be the catalyst that ends a relationship which is most likely going to end anyway. You're doing her and him a service ;) Diversify portfolio so you stay icey and not as emotionally invested.
Fri, 06/29/2012 - 00:08
#4
Re: Hot Tiny Asian Chick - Need Text Help
Girl - 12 hrs 54 mins later: hmm I'll think about it.
Girl - 10 hrs 5 mins later: hello jello!
Me - 8 mins later: Hey I just got done with dinner. What are you up to.
Girl: just reading for class. what'd you eat?
Me - 32 mins later: I want to see you right now but I'm hanging out :(
Girl - 5 mins later: it's ok. we can hang out some other time!
Girl - 25 mins later: goodnight..
Lol you didn't even answer her question and then you just stopped talking to her lol. When I read this whole convo, it sounds to me like all you want to do is fuck her (which is true) but you can't be blatantly obvious about it (even though she wants it too). Women are stupid but it's how the game works. It's why you tell a girl 'Hey come check out my soda machine' instead of 'hey come over and sleep in my bed' (yes that soda machine is the exact line I used this past weekend to pull a girl home and YES I have one of those soda water machines). I think since she's technically 'unavailable' you simply gotta wait until she's hitting you up AND inviting you out so in the mean time go meet some new girls and forget about this one until she comes to you.
I just read the convo again and honestly it's horrible lol.
'when are you going to be free?' horrible
'I want to see you.' lol
'I sensed some shyness from you' fail
Next time, just keep it chill. Go read manwhores epic thread http://manwhore.org/forum/node/59 and get in that style more. Notice how he only goes for the meet up on high points after several fun/playful jabs back and forth. You gotta get her hot for you and then have her basically at the point of begging you to ask you to ask her out which becomes pretty obvious.
Like when she said 'does this mean you're going to cook me dinner?'
I would have been like 'Yah come over' - short and simple and played from there.
instead you sounded almost defensive like you can't have girls at your place or something either because you're trying to hide something or you live at home or your place sucks or whatever. Hence the 12 hour later 'hmm I'll think about it' which = no in girl speak ;)
Girl - 10 hrs 5 mins later: hello jello!
Me - 8 mins later: Hey I just got done with dinner. What are you up to.
Girl: just reading for class. what'd you eat?
Me - 32 mins later: I want to see you right now but I'm hanging out :(
Girl - 5 mins later: it's ok. we can hang out some other time!
Girl - 25 mins later: goodnight..
Lol you didn't even answer her question and then you just stopped talking to her lol. When I read this whole convo, it sounds to me like all you want to do is fuck her (which is true) but you can't be blatantly obvious about it (even though she wants it too). Women are stupid but it's how the game works. It's why you tell a girl 'Hey come check out my soda machine' instead of 'hey come over and sleep in my bed' (yes that soda machine is the exact line I used this past weekend to pull a girl home and YES I have one of those soda water machines). I think since she's technically 'unavailable' you simply gotta wait until she's hitting you up AND inviting you out so in the mean time go meet some new girls and forget about this one until she comes to you.
I just read the convo again and honestly it's horrible lol.
'when are you going to be free?' horrible
'I want to see you.' lol
'I sensed some shyness from you' fail
Next time, just keep it chill. Go read manwhores epic thread http://manwhore.org/forum/node/59 and get in that style more. Notice how he only goes for the meet up on high points after several fun/playful jabs back and forth. You gotta get her hot for you and then have her basically at the point of begging you to ask you to ask her out which becomes pretty obvious.
Like when she said 'does this mean you're going to cook me dinner?'
I would have been like 'Yah come over' - short and simple and played from there.
instead you sounded almost defensive like you can't have girls at your place or something either because you're trying to hide something or you live at home or your place sucks or whatever. Hence the 12 hour later 'hmm I'll think about it' which = no in girl speak ;)