BuddhaGames Style Direct Opener
Fri, 03/22/2013 - 18:01
So I have a pretty distinct opener that I use pretty much whenever I go out. There are a lot of iterations of it but anyone who goes out with me will see pretty much the same opener being used.
I've gone out with a bunch of pooah's and I've never really seen anyone consistently use the direct opener in the way that I do. Obviously, plenty of people go direct but I think I have a pretty specific way of doing it and use it with enough consistency that I've gotten pretty deadly with it. So I wanted to share why I like it so much and some of the small tweaks I use that I think help to make it a little more potent.
1. It fits in with my personality- I'm super open, so for me, I can really really buy into it. I can buy into it and believe it's going to work because it's the same way I am with everything else in my life. They may not like it but at the very least- I'm tellin em how it is and they can take it or leave it.
2. It cuts through so many layers of game (when you do it right) that it's almost silly. It's a MASSIVE dhv in and of itself, it shows an incredible amount of unreactiveness, it cuts through any idea of a "Friend-Friend" interaction
3. I also did something with my direct opener that I know some guys I've met have even critiqued me on and said it would bring it TOO over the top. I add in serious physical dominance to the mix. In addition to my verbals going direct- I pretty much make every single aspect of the interaction direct- from my verbals and eye contact, to my physicality and even the amount of space I leave between us.
So the way I do it is generally I walk slightly past my target and then will turn around and softly grab the outer part of their forearm and pull them in towards me while stepping forward slightly. I then pause and just relax into the eye contact and breathe and then at this point I usually let a cocky little smile spread across my face and then I pull them in even closer and whisper into her ear:
"You are sexy as fuck. I had to say hi"
From there I usually mantain physicality but will switch it so I let go of the forearm and will often times like just switch to holding her hand, while still pulling her in closer than she's comfortable with.
Might just start dancing with her.
Usually will use my physical dominance that I've established at this point to continue to lead her
So I just combine a ton of physicality with super direct verbals. it's pretty easy and not very complicated.
I highly recommend this for new guys just starting out. lol maybe not for the reasons you want but it will SNAP you into shape REAL quick.
I've gone out with a bunch of pooah's and I've never really seen anyone consistently use the direct opener in the way that I do. Obviously, plenty of people go direct but I think I have a pretty specific way of doing it and use it with enough consistency that I've gotten pretty deadly with it. So I wanted to share why I like it so much and some of the small tweaks I use that I think help to make it a little more potent.
1. It fits in with my personality- I'm super open, so for me, I can really really buy into it. I can buy into it and believe it's going to work because it's the same way I am with everything else in my life. They may not like it but at the very least- I'm tellin em how it is and they can take it or leave it.
2. It cuts through so many layers of game (when you do it right) that it's almost silly. It's a MASSIVE dhv in and of itself, it shows an incredible amount of unreactiveness, it cuts through any idea of a "Friend-Friend" interaction
3. I also did something with my direct opener that I know some guys I've met have even critiqued me on and said it would bring it TOO over the top. I add in serious physical dominance to the mix. In addition to my verbals going direct- I pretty much make every single aspect of the interaction direct- from my verbals and eye contact, to my physicality and even the amount of space I leave between us.
So the way I do it is generally I walk slightly past my target and then will turn around and softly grab the outer part of their forearm and pull them in towards me while stepping forward slightly. I then pause and just relax into the eye contact and breathe and then at this point I usually let a cocky little smile spread across my face and then I pull them in even closer and whisper into her ear:
"You are sexy as fuck. I had to say hi"
From there I usually mantain physicality but will switch it so I let go of the forearm and will often times like just switch to holding her hand, while still pulling her in closer than she's comfortable with.
Might just start dancing with her.
Usually will use my physical dominance that I've established at this point to continue to lead her
So I just combine a ton of physicality with super direct verbals. it's pretty easy and not very complicated.
I highly recommend this for new guys just starting out. lol maybe not for the reasons you want but it will SNAP you into shape REAL quick.