Where I'm at: 1 Year Anniversary- much credit to Manwhore
My 1 Year Annivarsary of Committing to Game:
So I've worked with Manwhore for a while now and I gotta say, where I'm at right now, compared to exactly one year ago is amazing. I wanted to commemorate my 1 year anniversary with a litlte writeup about how presence and masculine energy work together to create a vibe that women are drawn to.
So I recently had an epiphane about what it means to actually be "Attractive" and realizedd that up until about a month ago, I 've been trying waying too hard and, ironically enough, what I was trying for wasn't even attraction *lolz durr*
So, what did I do? Well, I went a little deeper and in the past month, I've noticed how my presence and masculine energy have taken a signifant shift. Now, when I'm with a girl, I've started to notice my voice gets very very slow and I take random pauses in what I'm saying, a lot of times just to enjoy the moment.
I find myself more and more being in the middle of a conversation with a girl and just blurting out loud, "This is a good moment" and then moving onto something else. Like a couple weeks ago I was at an absolutely amazing rooftop bar in the middle of New York City and it was raining out and still super warm and me and this girl- Who I fucked last night : ) - were just standing in the middle of the rain and she tried to run back under the tent where everyone else was and I just stood out in the middle of the rain, completely alone, and just put my hands out and my head up and embraced the drizzle and then went back, grabbed her hand and made her come join me... she absolutely loved it and I just looked at her and was like, "This is a good moment" and then I think I made fun of her for chickening out at first.
Anyway- it's really awesome when you take these pauses and mantain eye contact becuase you start to literally feel the sexual energy between you two and you can kinda play with it. You'll also start to notice that when you take these pauses she'll actually lean in a little bit (but it's TOTALLY subconscious to her.. but you'll see her mouth actually flinch forward as if she subconsciously is trying to kiss you)- you can take these pauses as often as you like- personally, I just do it whenever I catch myself starting to move away from the present moment. It's not something I actually started doing as a tactic and it never will be but rather I started doing it as I became increasingly aware of my thoughts and actually developed the mindfullness to return to the present moment in the middle of a chaotic club.
Like I'll be talking and get kinda excited about what I'm talking about and when I notice this, I make a point to literally just PAUSE and take a breath and hold intense eye contact and just feel that sexual energy inside of me and everything will come back to the present- I'll move slower, talk slower and with more emphasis- my actions will be more sexual and more masculine.. and it's seriously amazing to take these pauses becuase it's in that moment right after as your exhaling and then you exhale completely and you have that very brief moment at the end of the exhale where it's like your balancing on a trapeze of sexuality with the girl and you can just hold it there and look her in the eyes and she starts to intnerally squirm a bit... agh I just fucking LOVE that... it feels so good and I can only imagine how amazing it feels for her and what's amazing about this is that you'll start to truly understand that looks do not matter at all.... it's literally almost entirely in the vibe. I might actually go so far to say that if you're able to cultivate this vibe the entire time you're with a girl... the actual "skill" of the game because laughable...
Basically, my interactions with women are becoming more and more like my meditation sessions- a constant process of me going away and coming back to the present moment. Mindfullenss meditaiton can really help to cultivate the type of voice and vocal pace that girls find sexually stimulating and it will happen completely naturally.
10/10 would recommend mindfullness meditation (NOT guided)