irish nurse!!!
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 09:54
Met this girl in the supermarket. Very stylish, very cute girl. We spoke about 30 min on the street then got her number. She was so cute that I was like "mang she might cause me giving up one night stands and having a proper relationship". During our convo I've seeded the meeting for this week as she was busy last weekend.
Me: hello cutie. Its hkmt. Just finished another session in the gym. Getting ready for miami lol. I hope you enjoyed the dinner after being that much hungry (during our convo she told me that she was starving etc)
Me: pack your luggage and let's go to milano fashion week, we can dominate it with our awesome glasses (during our convo I realised that we both had some funny party glasses)
At this point manwhore advised me to call her and leave a voice message. I called her she picked up, it was a very loud place we couldn't hear each other. She hung up and I called again afteer 5 min let the voice message. No response and yesterday;
Me: senorita don't make any plans for tomorrow as we are going for a drink. I would say red wine but if you wanna keep up the irish spirit, I don't mind guinness lol.
No response... No matter what I do when it comes to phone game, I can't get any response at all. Tried to be playful, people called it too gamey, tried to keep it casual people called it boring I really don't know what to do atm. I'm watching southpark etc to get the sense of humour but nothing is working right now. I guess around last 50 numbers that I've recently taken all flaked on me. I'm in stage of giving up the whole day game and just focusing on pulling from bars. Having considered people meet girls with hello how are you texts, is my texting that much bad???
Me: hello cutie. Its hkmt. Just finished another session in the gym. Getting ready for miami lol. I hope you enjoyed the dinner after being that much hungry (during our convo she told me that she was starving etc)
Me: pack your luggage and let's go to milano fashion week, we can dominate it with our awesome glasses (during our convo I realised that we both had some funny party glasses)
At this point manwhore advised me to call her and leave a voice message. I called her she picked up, it was a very loud place we couldn't hear each other. She hung up and I called again afteer 5 min let the voice message. No response and yesterday;
Me: senorita don't make any plans for tomorrow as we are going for a drink. I would say red wine but if you wanna keep up the irish spirit, I don't mind guinness lol.
No response... No matter what I do when it comes to phone game, I can't get any response at all. Tried to be playful, people called it too gamey, tried to keep it casual people called it boring I really don't know what to do atm. I'm watching southpark etc to get the sense of humour but nothing is working right now. I guess around last 50 numbers that I've recently taken all flaked on me. I'm in stage of giving up the whole day game and just focusing on pulling from bars. Having considered people meet girls with hello how are you texts, is my texting that much bad???
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 10:12
#1
Re: irish nurse!!!
@hkmt:
Ok, lets look at those texts how a 'high value' guy would. First, he would put no value on her looks and call her 'cutie', it won't give her that rush of emotions if all you've got to remember after a 30 min convo is her boobz. There's nothing worth replying about in that initial message; you just finished gym? Soooo.....? What emotion are you trying to convey. Was it a grueling workout? Do you want to exaggerate and say that you pulled a muscle and need an irish nurse PRONTO to give you some tlc? See what i did there...making connections and making it playful.
Of course she enjoyed her frickin dinner, but what's the point in mentioning that bullshit. It's what some hapless chode would say, or her dull husband. How about, "you seemed pretty hungry girl, you were practically drooling for food ;b If you're on your third course you better bring over some heavenly leftovers for me!!" - playful, accusatory and dominant. You come across as a refreshing new guy in her life, which you WAS, not some rapport seeking chode.
....i fuck up a lot over text with real hotties as well. it sucks, but that's why we're here to learn buddy
Ok, lets look at those texts how a 'high value' guy would. First, he would put no value on her looks and call her 'cutie', it won't give her that rush of emotions if all you've got to remember after a 30 min convo is her boobz. There's nothing worth replying about in that initial message; you just finished gym? Soooo.....? What emotion are you trying to convey. Was it a grueling workout? Do you want to exaggerate and say that you pulled a muscle and need an irish nurse PRONTO to give you some tlc? See what i did there...making connections and making it playful.
Of course she enjoyed her frickin dinner, but what's the point in mentioning that bullshit. It's what some hapless chode would say, or her dull husband. How about, "you seemed pretty hungry girl, you were practically drooling for food ;b If you're on your third course you better bring over some heavenly leftovers for me!!" - playful, accusatory and dominant. You come across as a refreshing new guy in her life, which you WAS, not some rapport seeking chode.
....i fuck up a lot over text with real hotties as well. it sucks, but that's why we're here to learn buddy
Fri, 06/08/2012 - 11:13
#2
Re: irish nurse!!!
@Gogo:
Thanks dude. Your analysis were eye opening. Eventually someone took my bad text and convert it to a good one by pointing the missing bits. Much appreciated!! However I don't think calling a girl "cutie" is that much of an issue. In fact I remember manwhore was saying something lie "if you can't call a girl sexy, cutie etc, then there is a problem" on one of these threads..
Gogo I will open another thread for another girl in a bit. Pls analyse it as well
Thanks dude. Your analysis were eye opening. Eventually someone took my bad text and convert it to a good one by pointing the missing bits. Much appreciated!! However I don't think calling a girl "cutie" is that much of an issue. In fact I remember manwhore was saying something lie "if you can't call a girl sexy, cutie etc, then there is a problem" on one of these threads..
Gogo I will open another thread for another girl in a bit. Pls analyse it as well
Sat, 06/09/2012 - 00:03
#3
Re: irish nurse!!!
@hkmt:
He said if your not comfortable calling a girl those things then something is wrong.
I forgot if I posted this in your old thread about this girl but it was something about putting higher expectations/value on the girl. Like you are expecting more from her than she is currently willing to give.
He said if your not comfortable calling a girl those things then something is wrong.
I forgot if I posted this in your old thread about this girl but it was something about putting higher expectations/value on the girl. Like you are expecting more from her than she is currently willing to give.
Sat, 06/09/2012 - 02:40
#4
Re: irish nurse!!!
@Sick-Cunt:
but dude I have seen people texting girls about paris trips with hot air balloons, robbing banks etc. and actually these texts got some good reviews. IT is creating a role-play but when I text about milano fashion week why do you think it puts higher expectations? In fact it can easily be turned into a role-play by; but no imotions involved babe we are just designers.... Obviously she didn't respond and the idea didn't work but I feel these texts seem to be very similar??
but dude I have seen people texting girls about paris trips with hot air balloons, robbing banks etc. and actually these texts got some good reviews. IT is creating a role-play but when I text about milano fashion week why do you think it puts higher expectations? In fact it can easily be turned into a role-play by; but no imotions involved babe we are just designers.... Obviously she didn't respond and the idea didn't work but I feel these texts seem to be very similar??
Sat, 06/09/2012 - 04:54
#5
Re: irish nurse!!!
I think its because the idea is so ridiculous that you are absolutely sure the person isn't serious. I don't even know what the fuck that fashion shit is but I felt like you could very well be serious about it. Also the ideas are fun.
Imagine how thrilling robbing a bank or riding around in a hot air balloon would be. Now think about going to some gay fashion show...not the same.
^ all my perspective though, maybe this is some shit on a deeper level
edit:
and also you saw from your 1st bad message with her that she wasn't responsive. That may have lessened the 'effect' of your 2nd text.
Imagine how thrilling robbing a bank or riding around in a hot air balloon would be. Now think about going to some gay fashion show...not the same.
^ all my perspective though, maybe this is some shit on a deeper level
edit:
and also you saw from your 1st bad message with her that she wasn't responsive. That may have lessened the 'effect' of your 2nd text.
Sun, 06/10/2012 - 03:00
#6
Re: irish nurse!!!
@hkmt:
Take my advice with a grain of salt as I'm kinda DECENT at follow-up game not anything great..
But i would get rid of the lols in your texts - sound mad fuckin approval seeking and frankly gay like a school girl that . I.e. "getting ready for miami lol" and i don't mind guiness lol" I think you ignored people's advice earlier. I could be wrong but back in March/April on this forum I think people were telling you to stop using lol.
Also I'm learning this as well but you need to be way more of a challenging guy in general. I would go into further detail but you'd have to pay Manwhore for that :)
Just keep going out - don't be a pussy and give up. It's ok. you're going to suck at first but eventually you'll get better buddy. Trust me.
Keep up the faith - YOU WILL GET BETTER. If you keep doing this and posting on the forum for the next 6 months you'll be like jeez I am a pimp.
I wish people told me this when I was a young 19 year old trying to figure out where his balls were...
Take my advice with a grain of salt as I'm kinda DECENT at follow-up game not anything great..
But i would get rid of the lols in your texts - sound mad fuckin approval seeking and frankly gay like a school girl that . I.e. "getting ready for miami lol" and i don't mind guiness lol" I think you ignored people's advice earlier. I could be wrong but back in March/April on this forum I think people were telling you to stop using lol.
Also I'm learning this as well but you need to be way more of a challenging guy in general. I would go into further detail but you'd have to pay Manwhore for that :)
Just keep going out - don't be a pussy and give up. It's ok. you're going to suck at first but eventually you'll get better buddy. Trust me.
Keep up the faith - YOU WILL GET BETTER. If you keep doing this and posting on the forum for the next 6 months you'll be like jeez I am a pimp.
I wish people told me this when I was a young 19 year old trying to figure out where his balls were...