Tolle's FRs
I'm going to start doing field reports because I think they help me stay on track and figure out what issues need to be worked on.
I'm doing coaching with Manwhore.
Last called we talked about dominance and how perhaps my family life has affected how I interact with women.
Anyways lets get down to it-
Tonight- Wednesday May 29
I went to this upscale Wednesday spot. Great place. Lots of hot girls there. Also there's tons of office chodes in suits choding around. Note I havne't jacked of in 12 days so I'm pretty horny.
Tonight my goal was to be more dominant and do more sexual escalation.
I get in there, do a couple quick warm ups and then my wing joins me. We're going around approaching girls.
Notable appraoches-
-Very cute pakistani girl, she's walking with her friends but we chat for a second and she keeps going. Later on I see my wing hit on her, and then right after she asks me if I'm having a good night while walking through. I tried to find her later in the night but she dissapeared, maybe to a table or something. Just one of those girls where there's instant attraction sucks that I wasn't able to find her.
-A girl who was a stunner. Basically just approached her, and said some shit and left. The reason I note is this is because I left the moment she stopped paying attention to me which is gay. Got to persist in set, especially with girls that scare me.
-Pretty cute black girl. Getting pretty close to her, hand around her shoulder blahblaha. She's with her dude friend who doesn't seem interested in me and I don't really either. I leave but I don't reapproach later on.
-Some chubby girl. Her face was ok but when I got physical there was shittons of blubber. She asked me where I was from pretty loudly... something about her being from Vancouver. She seemd pretty drunk and a little belligerent(like she grabbed my neck and pushed me a little towards her, I don't even know what that was about). She left I didn't see her later... maybe i should force myeslf to just hook up with a fat girl and a get a bj cause I'm getting pretty horny and I need to get the ball rolling for this summer. I guess the downside of going out sober is it makes me completely not interested in fat girls. I think its because last summer in Montreal I had horrible sex with a fat chick and I sobered up in the right in the middle of it.
-Later on the street we open two german girls. At this point im kind of feeling out of it and I don't get physical at all. Durrr. I realize my physicality is often based on how good I'm feeling. Like I'm feeling good I get closer to the girl, get a lot of touch going. But If feel like shit I tend to hang back a bit.
-Warm up set. My and my wing on two french girls. The problem was this in a loud part of the club and I was trying to talk. Retarded considering they are french and were barely understanding what the fuck i was saying. Should have just danced with her instead or gotten physical or something. We tried to lead them to a quieter spot but it didn't happen.
Other notes-
-My eye contact is pretty good. I'd say I'm pretty dominant in that.
-Opening is solid. I open pretty loud.
What I need to work-
-More dominance through physicality like rub my boner on her.
-Just go for more pulls. A reference is a reference.
-Persist more in set, especially with hotter girls.
-I've noticed I'm repeating a lot of my verbals again especially in the opening and the first few sentences after. Gotta mix it up. Delibrate illogicality. I remember last Friday I was completely on fire with the verbal game stuff and how a lot of what I said was completely original. Need to remember to keep it original each night.