I don't want to open up too much- But is there a time when it's the correct value play?
Sun, 10/21/2012 - 16:19
I'll do whatever is going to get me laid. I'm starting to look at this game in terms of value and what's the "right" play as opposed to what's the play I "want" to do.
Anyway- last night, had a girl ask me what was so great about me, she goes, "Okay, so you're hot... but what's so great about you" and I avoid the quesiton and twist it around so that she starts qualifying herself and telling me about how big her tits are and how she got a breast reduction... but then she opens up too much- she starts telling me bout how someone in her family died recently
We were makin out and shit and she was being very physical with me... but how do I avoid this happening? I find that girls do this kinda shit a lot with me
I just ignored it and started making some jokes about something else- but she kept begging me to open up to her she was like, "You still haven't told me anything about you"... "Tell me..."
So I was like, "Okay, get over here" and I get up and grab her hand and pull her to a chair and she sits on my lap and I tell her some shit about meditaiton but don't go into detail about it... just tell her it's a big part of my life
Then she asks me if I want to go outside lol
Anyway- she keeps wanting me to open up... how do I get her to just be satisfied with what i've already said or to stop harping on this kinda shit
OR
Should I just open up here and give her some comfort- I'll say this... this girl was actually scared of me. I think, in this case, I should have opened up a little just to make her feel a little more comfortable... it took some REALLY SOLID wingmanship from my roommate to calm her down cause she was literally SCARED of me... but also simaltaneously really fucking into me.
This situation is somethin I'd love some feedback on. I'm trying to learn the proper amount to open up to a girl.
Anyway- last night, had a girl ask me what was so great about me, she goes, "Okay, so you're hot... but what's so great about you" and I avoid the quesiton and twist it around so that she starts qualifying herself and telling me about how big her tits are and how she got a breast reduction... but then she opens up too much- she starts telling me bout how someone in her family died recently
We were makin out and shit and she was being very physical with me... but how do I avoid this happening? I find that girls do this kinda shit a lot with me
I just ignored it and started making some jokes about something else- but she kept begging me to open up to her she was like, "You still haven't told me anything about you"... "Tell me..."
So I was like, "Okay, get over here" and I get up and grab her hand and pull her to a chair and she sits on my lap and I tell her some shit about meditaiton but don't go into detail about it... just tell her it's a big part of my life
Then she asks me if I want to go outside lol
Anyway- she keeps wanting me to open up... how do I get her to just be satisfied with what i've already said or to stop harping on this kinda shit
OR
Should I just open up here and give her some comfort- I'll say this... this girl was actually scared of me. I think, in this case, I should have opened up a little just to make her feel a little more comfortable... it took some REALLY SOLID wingmanship from my roommate to calm her down cause she was literally SCARED of me... but also simaltaneously really fucking into me.
This situation is somethin I'd love some feedback on. I'm trying to learn the proper amount to open up to a girl.