A glimpse into a night out with Buddhagames: Combining social intuition with structured game- Field Report

Get to the venue and this girl who I met last saturday is there in the back room for a birthday party with her friends (it's a small venue) so I go and say hi to her and she gives me shit for trying to kiss her. I handthrow, backturn and then come back and immediately start going into dhv material about helping out my grandpa this past weekend... Anime eyes appear and she goes in for the kiss but I hold eye contact and don't let her

She goes, "Kiss Me"- I tell her good things come to those who wait, smile, squeeze her hands and then go to get a drink at the bar.

I go to the bar and meet up with "PIMPIN" and his buddy.. chat for a second and then I want to get in state, so I see 2 girls and a dude dancing in the middle of the bar behind us and I go in and start dancing with them and just acting crazy and getting myself in state. The key difference here between what I did when I frst started and now is that I don't let this "craziness" consume me... I always bring it back down to earth just enough so that it's not like OVERLY weird- it's just at that line where it's fucking AWESOME but still grounded enough that I'm not out in outer space.

The entire mixed set is LOVING it and dancing with me and chearing me on lol.. the girls weren't hot but I just wanted to get into the flow and out of my head early.

BOOM

I'm in state- 15 minutes at the venue and I've hit massive state... It's becoming easier and easier to do this... I walked into the venue pretty nervous but I took action and within 15 minutes, I'm in crazy state.

Turn around and there is a blonde girl sitting down with her friends and I turn around and hand of god her and she grabs my hand and starts laughing hysterically (not becuase it's funny-but this is one of those "attraction" giggle fits you get if you're really on point)

I don't say anything to her but I just lean back on my back foot and use my weight and momentum to lift her out of her seat and then use that momentum to swing her into me (but not too hard... just enough so there is a slight tug)

So now she's out of her seat and right up against me, her tits touching my chest and I'm holding solid eye contact with her... she starts to giggle and laugh hysterically and I dlv myself to try and calm her down, "wow- that was totally weird, wasn't it" Her: "OMG NO it's okay, it's okay, what's your name, where are you from, who are you"

Then her other friends look over and start laughing and go, "Do you know him from before"

And before she can answer, I put my arm around her and smile and go, "Yeah, we've been best friends since grade school" and my girl plays along.

So then my girl starts to comment about how tall I am and how she can't even see my eyes- so I use this as an opportunity to lock into the set and I grab her hands, spin her around and simaltaneously take a seat so that she is standing facing me, I'm sitting down and her back is to all of her friends (Killing so many birds with one stone- efficiency)

She gets right up close to me and starts asking me chode questions- I ignore all the questions and cut to my own thread, "Listen up girl, I'm gonna tell you the way to my heart" and again her eyes go INSTANT ANIME

I tel lher she needs to make me a sandwich and go into serious detail about how to make it and then I teach her how to properly cut the bread and which type of turkey I like and then I pause and tell her, "But you have to wear sexy stilletos while you do it" and she starts cracking up and just goes, "DONE"

It's still really early in the night and this girl isn't who I want to go home with- I approached her because I wanted to warmup but also I wanted to start to establish social proof because it's a relatively small venue and there was one girl who I specifically wanted to talk with but before I did I wanted to warmup and have social proof- I wanted her to be wondering who I am before I even approach

Grab this girls number and do Julien's same night pull seeding and she's 100% down with the program

Go back to my girl and chill a bit and then come back to the bar and see PIMPIN and his buddy- I ask them if they approached the 2 girls sitting down next to them and they say, "Yeah- they are being bitches"

So of course I take this as a challenge and immediately approach them.

I lean back and just give the one girl eye contact and a cocky smile and slowly put up my middle finger

Immediately the girl starts laughing and gives me the middle finger back and I start to laugh and look at her friend, laugh and go, "Is she always like this" and the friend starts to laugh and goes, "Yeahhhhh"

So I turn back to the friend and give hers ome shit and she's like, "OMG you totally just flipped me off... why'd you do that" and I laugh and go, "Just felt like it" cut threads and move into dhv material (When I say dhv material- it's all entierly thought up in the moment- I don't use canned stuff)

They are locked in- Every time I body rock, they are both grabbing my sleeves and reinitating the conversation

Grab myy target and pull her up and give her a spin and then have her sit back down- they are asking me tons of questions at this point and I ignore and cut to more dhv material and then go for more complience and tell the one girl to grab my hands, she does and then I tell her to stand up and she does and then I take her seat and look at the friend and go, "Isn't she cute" and point at her friend and the friend starts to giggle

So now I'm locked in.

Oh and out of the corner of my eye, I see the girl who I had just # closed had gotten up and is now dancing about 5 feet away from where I'm talking to these girls- she's trying to get my attention

But I decide that this isn't the girl I want to go home with and grab the # and do Julien's # close seeding and bounce out

Now I see the girl who, from the very beginning, was my target.

Smoking hot- really "Dark" look about her... has super dark red lipstick on and an amazing ass- Hottest girl in the venue by far

She's dancing with two other guys- so she's the hottest girl in the bar by far and it's a mixed set.... not even a second thought- let's do this.

Go up and just get right in her face, lock eye contact and go, "You look like a sithlord" but I have a vibe of pure self amusement right now and at the time I thought this was the most HILARIOUS opener ever and she actually did remind me of a sithlord at the time because of her vibe and "dark" makeup etc... seemed like the kind of girl that's just waiting to eat some dudes soul and spit it out after.

She looks at me for about a second without saying anything and I just hold eye contact and she starts to smile and goes, "You're lucky I like starwars" in response, I grab her hands and throw them off of me, backturn and then immediately go into more dhv material about how I took my little cousin to this SUPER nerdy star wars convention because he'd always wanted to go

She's super into it and starts asking me questions and every time I body rock, she grabs my shirt and pulls me in... obviously the other dudes in the set are blown out at this point

I go for the # and she's resistent- tells me she doesn't give her # to guys... I ignore and just say, "Okay cool... what's your #" and then she gives it to me LFMAO

tell her to text me later and go through the standard shit.... didn't turn out perfectly but I go back to the girl who I met last saturday and chat a bit

Go back to the bar and grab 2 more #'sand then PIMPIN and his budddy say they are leaving to go to meatpacking and I tell them I'm staying here

They leave and I engage the sithlord a couple more times and then tell her I have to go (logistics were shit and I just didn't see it going down)

So I leave with the girl from last saturday and we get back to her place and the sithlord texts me, "hey" but I'm already back at this chicks place and it's way too late.

Hop on her bed and I'm super tird so I just get under the covers and she goes away for like 2 minutes and comes back wearing some super sexy leingere and gets in bed and starts suckin my dick and yeah... the rest is history

I'ma hit up sithlord and setup a day2, along with the other 4 #'s I got... the bar was too small but I was still able to get a few #'s, so that's aight.