Taylor Swift and the female subconscious
Unconsciously women know that they cannot fill the void within you.
They cannot complete you.
Women are sweeteners to your life not the missing puzzle piece.
Their primal systems probe you, and sense how fulfilled you are.
Fulfilled people have a natural confidence and fearlessness.
Since it's unconscious they can pick the idiot guy who ACTS confident and fearless in an ignorant way.
Their relationships with these men are frought with trouble and if you know these types of men they are nothing to envy.
Their lives are full of angst.
The womans system feels for fulfilment in your bodily system. Which includes congruence in your words and actions.
If you display actions that symbolize you want her to be your missing puzzle piece then that's a red flag to the girl.
You should be fully fulfilled with your life while talking to thw girl, that doesn't mean you need to be happy...fulfillment is deeper.
Listening on spotify to Taylor Swift songs she describes through poetic language the feeling that the man she's sexually interested in gives her.
Its sometimes counterintuitive. But its interesting listening to her that she never describes some guy who chases her. More like guys who challenge her.
Its a challenge to gain entry into a fulfilled persons life. They dont want low emotions, they dont want immaturity. They don't need it.
A lot of female pop songs, chick-flicks, etc give an outline of the "lover boy" that attracts women. So its educational to listen deeply to these things and not brush them off through male ego.
Its ultimately about understanding women deeper. Than maybe even they understand themselves.
Women are so close to their femininity that they can't always see it clearly. Their in the eye of the storm and not interested in it. So it takes masculine energy to observe and learn about the storm and that it wants the fully stable masculine presence to be able to center the storms chaos.
Beautiful. Is this "lover boy" archetype the same thing or something else
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the lover boy like the bad boy is sort of an unknown entity that doesnt really exist anywhere but the female subconscious, lol, maybe like how our ideal women may not actually exist in the real world. but its connected for sure. the lover has stereotypes that go along with presence and challenge but not always fulfillment.
fulfillment isnt connected to the lover/bad boy stereotype necessarily. but i think it helps you to come off as a lover. it helps with a disatached yet interested presence.
we all know the bad boy stereotype that makes women wet. thats like the guy who's funny, flirty, arrogant, mischevious, mysterious,has a dangerous side, apart from everyone else and not interested in people, wounded some way in which the girl can possibly fix. usually has a past that's maybe dark or adverse that explains why he is the way he is. but then to the girl his gooey inner core comes out.
i dont know what the fuck this is about with women but it seems to be a common fantasy at least.
Taylor Swift sings more about this kinda guy i think, but her lyrics kind of describe something that can't be grasped intellectually. very emotional intuitive stuff...as women are.
its interesting she never really describes physical attributes, just feelings, how the guy made her feel.
which goes to show that it doesnt really matter what physical or emotional flaw you THINK you have, as long as you make her feel these strong emotions that the lover or bad boy archetype makes her feel.
also obviously if you try to look like a badass thats not going to work
thats interesting, a bit more theoretical but nice