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So this girl I met last weekend at summerfest who lives an hour away, I just started texting tonight. fyi she works at mcdonalds

me: (that night) Alex from summerfest
me: (tonight) Girl I'm bout to rob McDonald's. Don't tell ur boss
her: Who is this..?
me: The mothafuckin Yakuza. Bout to pillage that shit. It's cool tho I'll save you a Snack wrap.
her: Save me a frape!!!! Lmao!!!! I love snack wraps
me: Ok Melanie so i didn't catch ur full name. How am I supposed to facebook creep? ;) (stole this from a thread on here, slightly different context)
me: Add me- xxxxxxx
Her: Lol wtf what
me: What do u not have a facebook
her: Bye
me: Ok miss bipolar. Have fun with that negative attitude
her: LMFAO.
me: Forget the snack wrap. Going to have to put you on time out and NO playpen either young lady
her: Who is this!! Hah
me: Dude you seriously don't remember. We were standing around the gate at summerfest
her: LMFAO! Oh yeah hahaha
me: Ya Beb so I want a mcflurry BAD. Be ready to drive tho, we might be stealing extra Rolos on the way to our destination
her: LMAO! what?!?
her: Ur crazy ;p
me: You like it I can tell ;b
me: Those lmao's.... So sexy
her: Whats so sexy?! Lol what?


Hahah so this girl lives an hour away from me, and like I said I have no car.... ://

But she's texts me back pretty instantly after every text. It's good practice and I feel like MAYBE if I can get some good convo going on the phone or something there MIGHt be a POSSIBILITY of seeing her. hahaha I know super small chance especially since I'm still learning here but I gota go for it!

Any advice here would be much appreciated. Im thinking of just not texting her back tonight and letting her wonder... then calling her tomorrow.

Thoughts?
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Re: Summerfest girl
@Alex123:

So I called her and left her a VM. It was basically callback humor again w mcdonalds and telling her to get ready for our date and she should buy some perfume. I like light blue etc.

She texts me after

Her: Haha I just got ur voicemail!
Me: ;)
Me: Almost hung up-
Her: Lol ur so funny
Me: Thanks babe :).
I was gona say- I almost hung up but I thought- "she seems cool, so far
Her: Lol I am cool! U never told me how old u are btw?
Me (almost 3 hrs later): We'll see..;)
Me: I'm 21


Advice on how I could make her invest to come up here and visit me??... She lives an hour away.
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Re: Summerfest girl
@Alex123:

So I tested her today:

Me: How's your day pumpkin

-no response

So I test her tonight this hilarious picture of me in an indian costume

-again no response.

I know she saw/read them because we're on Ichat. So.... little confused here.

Like was there something wrong with my texting I didn't see? Did she just randomly decide not to talk to me anymore?

Or did she really just stop texting me after I told her I was 21.. I mean this girl is a junior in high school so she's 16 or 17. I've had 16/17 year old girls that were blowing me up last summer wanting to hang out and I figure girls like older guys anyway. Besides this girl SAW me sipping a beer when she gave me her # at summerfest so yeah. I'm confused.

It's like I was being awesome and she was commenting on my awesomeness and all of a sudden it's just gone.
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Re: Summerfest girl
@Alex123:

ok so after that last text i sent her a clowning picture, then 3 days later i sent:

me: Hey, did I offend you somehow?
me: Just confused 'cuz we were having fun & I know you thought so ;b.

all with no response.

So TODAY, I just sent:

me: I guess you can't handle a 21 yr old boy. U saw me sipping that beer and peed yourself
her: Lmao what?
me: It's ok babe. I understand if yer not ready to wear your big girl pants
her: Hmmm...I have no clue what you're talking about.

So I'm thinking of just completely glossing over it and moving on, going back to the meetup. but that last text was kind of rapport breaking on her part.

I could do something like, "You remembered I was 21 and ran off like a little bunnyrabbit. It's ok tho I forgive you."

or ignore it: "I'm talking about us going to McDonald's & throwing you in the ballpit. Don't worry I'll supervise you make sure you don't get bullied by the other children"

What do you guys think?
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Re: Summerfest girl
@Alex123:
second one sounds better. But then again, I dont think it will be good to frame her as a child seeing she is ONE, lol shes a scared bunny for sure.
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All I really have to say is that it's obscene how tight 16/17 year old girls' bodies are, especially if they do sports.

I'm 24 and got a number off a 17 year old at the airport, nothing ever came of it though. Still trying to make that happen. God I'm a lech.
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@kris:

Yeah but then again maybe it IS a good idea to get her to try to prove that she's a big girl.

But for some reason I'm not sure if she will react well to that or not. She might interpret it as me being too condescending, since that would be the 3rd text in a row where I'm basically calling her a little kid and she didn't react well to the last one.

Hmm this is interesting. I'll probably just go with the second one since it sticks to the playful/accusatory frame
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@Alex123:

OR I could go with the classic, "I'm talking about us going to McDonald's & having a good ass time! If you cant make it that's cool I'll just assume you're gay"

What do y'all think?
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So you opened her back up with that line then didn't work with her fun energy when she came with it and went with the big girl pants line.

You def don't want to go condescending. The ballpit one is pretty damn funny tho. I'd probably use that in a different convo.

(ok nvrmind you already sent it)
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@Alex123:
lol maccy d's for first date huh? that text is solid apart from the date...
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@kris:

Fuckyah she responded :)

Me: I'm talking about us going to McDonald's & throwing you in the ballpit. Don't worry I'll supervise you make sure you don't get bullied by the other children
Her: Lol ur so weirdddd!

haha... thinking about-

me: ;)
me: Don't worry I got ur back. Lets go tomorrow I have the weekend off from work

Whatchall think???
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If by weird you mean gangster then yes you're so right ;) What you got going on this weekend pumpkin
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@Manwhore:

me: If by weird you mean gangster then yes you're so right ;) What you got going on this weekend pumpkin
her: Lmao idk yet hbu
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Re: Summerfest girl
Is this girl far away from you?
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@Manwhore:

Yes.. godammit. an hour away
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K you gotta bribe this bish with candy and ice cream then. She's talking about hitting her up with stuff she's not at all aware yer an hr away lol
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