What's her murder count up to these days? Still stackin' bodies?
What's her murder count up to these days? Still stackin' bodies?
This is all whacked out bro how many times do you need to hear it. Look at you man, are you having fun with all this bullshit?
It's like you're trying to update the appliances in a home that already burned to the fucking ground
gonna hop on that 6 hour train ride to punch you in the face for being so dumb
Mang this is just sad.
Give it a rest.
I lost my intern last year to this shit. He showed up with oneitis for this absolute ho. Oh my gawd. It fucking drove me batshit crazy! It's crazy to see a kid fall for the wrong girl. lol
This guy was even a bit nuttier tho 'cuz he kept always trying to run Julien drama tactics on her and it would backfire hard on him. Lol
My man, I know you're a bigger player than me or whatever but hear me out.
You need to sever ties. ASAP. Like now.
I've been in this kind of shit before, good pussy on a crazy bitch holding me and all that, telling myself that I'm not reacting emotionally (when I clearly was) telling myself that I'm trying to work things a certain way,
when all I wanted was to have my cake and eat it too the whole time.
So a word of advice, let it go, with no closure, no reply, nothing. No goodbyes. Fuck 10 other girls, hit the field as much as time allows and forget her. IF she crawls back, do not accept her, because you
clearly aren't ready to whip this horse into shape the way it has to be whipped into shape.
I had many crazy girls run some shit on me, the biggest, BIGGEST enemy in all of this isn't even the girl, it's our own tendencies to cling onto her pussy and charms. All she's doing is running game.
This is why abundance is key and why I personally do not believe in exclusive relationships as a player. If you're a player you're either cheating or in open relationships. You always got some
side action. Getting exclusive with girls and leaving the game is very expensive, make sure she's worth it and usually the answer issssss NOT.
There is no Karma dude, the game is rough and it's still beautiful. It is what it is.
If nothing else, every woman you deal with must know that while yeah her charms and her sex may be pleasing to you, it's not going to command you. Women want to KEEP pleasing you, because that
pleases them too. If you allow the pleasure to take command of you, she will not find you appealing anymore. They want to keep on giving to you and the only way to motivate this is to not allow the
fact that they give you pleasure or anything else SEDATE you to the point where she's got you under a spell. No good.
Especially with troublesome, trifling and destructive types of crazy bitches, they're weakness lies in that they NEED YOU TO BE UNDER THE SPELL. They get validation from it and a sick sense of triumph
and superiority. You cannot fall under the spell. For this to be so, you can't have any, ANY inkling of secretly wanting and yearning to be under this spell and you also can't have any empty spaces in your
life that you're trying to fill with women's validation. The love of the game/women should be enough for you to participate. Or, if you're like me, it's not only a love of the game, but to me proactively playing
is the most sensible way to go about dealing with women.
Think Pimp/hoe dynamics. Pimps are masters of the game. There is pyramid with players on the bottom, macks in the middle and pimps at the very top. They deal with the most troublesome and trifling
women out there. I'm not talking movie pimps beating on hoes to keep them in line etc. I'm talking real elite pimps who use their brains over brawn. One of the main secrets they don't tell you is that
the way they control the hoes is through the hoes desire to control HIM. It's in a hoes nature to try to prove something to her ego by dethroning a Pimp or decapitating a king, poisioning the wine, or
cutting Samsons hair to let the phillstines in to kill him. The pimp realizes that she DOESN'T LOVE HIM. He knows that her investment in him, her apparent worship and concern is all based on her
self-interest, whether egoic or otherwise.
Now obviously ,we play a different game but the dynamic has some similarities and the more troubleomse she is the more it falls into line with what pimps have to deal with as far as this small
dimension of what they do.
Told him that stuff time and time again Superb lol
it's just straight retarded because Jihad can do whatever the fuck he wants and he chooses dumb shit like this.
Theres something going on inside, perhaps he's secretly codependent or a masochist? A rescuer?
I dont know but looking for love in all the wrong places is such a bane on manhood, it's like guys forget that you're not actually supposed to fall, but they WANT to fall.
I'm not totally against falling for a slut or two, TOPS. Just to learn whats going on and how to actually navigate those little situations there, plus enforce your boundaries
and shit, but after THAT, you have no excuse, you know the lay, you know the deal, you know that you have to have boundaries (strictly enforced) and you know to play
your ass off not take them seriously.
Its a choice at the end of the day, do you want your little dopamine/oxytocin spikes from the push pull and abuse you get, or do you want to fuck bitches, respect yourself
and be the man who calls the shots? One makes you a girl, the other doesnt. If being a man and all that isnt as FUN for you as being the girl on the recieving end of the
punishment, you have to find out whats holding you back!
What held me back a few times was straight laziness, I didnt want to play anymore and thats always a result of letting the woman or your current level of success sedate you.
It's like hey if a shark stops swiming it dies. There is no resting on your laurels and just chilling lol. A man, especially a player always has to be scheming, hustling, thinking,
doing. His reality is his own best company and NO woman can ever be a better substitute for company or good emotions than a players own inner desire to play and conquer.
When you come at a woman from an inner emotional deficit/lack of desire to play, your destination is to BE PLAYED. You are weakened.
Im not saying this is what happened here but once a woman becomes more important than the desire to play, or once you stop playing and come at a woman from a place
of wanting to be completed...done.
Superb tell me more about this pimp shit. How deep does it go
Well Manwhore, I'm not gonna front like I have an "outstanding understanding" of pimp shit or any of that, as I have limited first hand experience with actually pimping. And let
me tell you that it's extremely difficult. I have been "chosen" by girls to pimp on them since the 8th grade and I've tried my hand at it at least 5 times and it's extremely fucking
hard for someone like me to do it. I let that shit go a while back because it's a full time, 24/7 hustle with no breaks or room for error and I'm not emotionally stable enough nor
responsible enough to do it. No, I've never been a pimp, or even wanted to be a pimp, it was just little hoes who fell into my lap who liked me and wanted me to do that for them.
I would say though, that a pimps MAIN and fundamental skillset is the ability to get what he wants and how he wants it while STILL staying true to his principles as a man and as
a pimp. The pimp game has rules and those are part of the principles a real pimp will NEVER break. Pimps, as opposed to what people think, are supreme Alpha Males, and they
do not compromise their principles AT ALL, but still have enough game to get what they want. In fact, the fact that they have principles they will not stray from contributes to their
ability to get what they want, ironicially. Also, they have extremely high self esteem and as such, don't get oneitis or care what anyone says or thinks about them, good or bad. They
don't feed off of the validation of women contrary to what people think. They are totally self validated. They draw state from their ACTIONS (pimping, actually playing the game) not
being worshipped or adored or chosen, as they KNOW that all that comes and goes. Guys who draw validation from women are considered SUCKAS to pimps and get no respect.
Real pimps don't get jealous, and within that world they all knock eachothers hoes (steal eachothers girls) all the time and real pimps actually believe in being friendly to one another
and never fighting over a hoe, because thats not what they call pimpish. Pimps usually have little circles where they roast eachother to sharpen up their mental and verbal skills, as
a pimp cant afford to be verbally weak in any respect, at any time. While many pimps may form a circle of friends, there is still game being played of course. Violence of any sort
against another pimp during a verbal roasting is seen as weak and will get you ostracized as not being a real pimp. Gangmembers who want to be pimps, and gangsters and shit
like that are not considered real pimps because they are using violence and intimidation not only against women but against real pimps. They are fucking up the game. The Game has
rules and structure in place to ensure a flow of money and a balance of power is kept (of course, going to the pimps). The pimps get to make money and live lavish, while a woman
is taught life skills, self confidence, street smarts by the pimp AND gets to also play the exciting game of prostitution, taking money from the rich and powerful and turning them into
suckas and tricks, while under a pimps guidance, while at the same time feeling protected and feeling like their life has meaning pleasing this execeptional and intelligent, Godlike
figure, and secretly working to seduce him and bring her under her spell of course ;) In a sick and also very real way, a Pimp and hoe relationship meets a womans emotional needs
much more thoroughly than a regular relationship! This is part of the reason why pimps feel so secure in what they do and offer, they KNOW there is
nothing else like it for a woman. He doesn't get a woman sprung on him, he gets her to fall in love with the game itself. He couldn't care less if she
loves him or not.
Pimps are masters of still getting what they want and how they want it without breaking their principles:
An example: A pimp might be hard up for money and have no hoe, and his usual choosing fee (the amount a woman has to pay to be with him) is $30,000. He comes across a hoe and
she say she only has $15,000. He really needs the money badly and can't wait for her to get up the other $15,000, so he takes her aboard. Did he break his principles? No. Because
the FEE for his full attention and instruction is $30,000, and as such, he is NOT going to give her ALL of him (he never does anyway but this little fib is a part of the game he's playing),
so what did he gain? He gained $15,000 to help him get his shit in order, he has a hoe now who can't really just leave or ask for the money back, she already invested in him
and now she has to go and get the other $15,000 to get the full package deal the pimp has to offer. She already invested in him, is around him to be further influenced by him, he
never ever lost out at all, his reputation doesn't suffer because he really isn't giving her ALL of his pimpin (all of his game/guidance/instruction) so it's not like the hoe ripped him off,
he has an explanation for his behavior and nobody can fault him for it, because he already told her "Hey, thanks for the $15,000 baby but to get all of my pimpin you need to
come up with the other half, unless you're happy with only half of my pimpin". He will inevitably get other hoes with the help of the $15,000 and the rest of the income the new
hoe is providing (he can buy new clothes to attract more attention/peacock himself) and the hoe will see how much more attention and freedom the girls who paid him the full
$30,000 get, so she will now be excited and motivated to keep up with them and be included with them and be closer to the pimp.
This is an example of a pimp not breaking his principles but still getting what he wants and how he wants it.
A pimp doesn't compromise, and I don't think a real elite player does either. A pimp screens because he wants his focus and attention to actually be on people who pay off and
also won't snitch on him or have him killed. An elite player screens because he wants a certain kind of girl and certain kind of relationship. Both of them also screen because
they aren't dumbasses who want to just have every girl they see and will compromise just to get a taste. They don't give a shit if a particular girl doesn't want them. BUT they
BOTH OPTIMIZE thier presentation, marketing, verbal skills and everything else to cast a WIDER NET so that they can have a wider selection of girls who they can get their
foot in the door in, and then screen for the ones who they "click with" best. They both understand what attracts women in general, except the pimp understands it at a much
richer and deep level and is also willing to play for higher stakes.
Pimps will interview and screen every girl they get thoroughly and also require money for further interaction/instruction. It's funny, because a pimp isn't above cold approaching
a hoe and getting at her and chasing a little bit, but yet has enough game to make her think that she NEEDS HIM regardless. They assume that the hoe even being around them at all is
an "IOI" and they're more than happy to try their hand.
It goes extremely deep. I'm not going to pretend I can really talk about it with more authority than I already have, as this is the limit of my knowlege on the matter, but the main points
I think are pimps are masters at getting what they want and how they want it without compromising, they operate from a masculine polarity and make the women feel safe and secure
because he knows who he is and what he's doing to the fullest. It's not all about beating girls up or being a hardass, it's about being a man of abundance, principles and being clever.
I've heard pimps say things like "Men are closer to God than women are". That should tell you all you need to know about their self-esteem lol.
Took some time to really think about this stuff and whats happened between her and I.
Ya i’m fucking up hard everywhere lol. She played me hardcore.
No i'm not a fucking rescuer lol da faq. I honestly thought and still partially think because I created such powerful sexual experiences with her that this shit could be overlooked or maybe it had credibility to be looked in a different context and not that she's emotional tamponing me lol. Guess not.
Like I'm crushing the sex game yo but I'm past denial and now into shock and awe lol.
Glad you see that you got played.
The second you take these girls seriously it's pretty much done. That's like the #1 root issue in game in general. If you could eliminate all the fucks given and seriousness given to these chicks in the world, everyone in the world would have sick game.
Its called game for a reason. Even within a relationship, you have to stay a little detached.
Taking a girl seriously is like an enhancer to the drug like feeling you get when you're with her.
As a player, your drug is playing. Not the girl.
Even in a relationship, ABP. Always be playing. Dont fall into social conditioned narratives of taking relationships seriously.
Superb shut the fuck up with the pimp/player talk.
Staying detached in a relationship makes no sense. Its about having self-control so you don’t fall for dumb shit. Pimp/player whatever man. Its about being a man with clear direction
Whatever I'll keep that stuff in my own head then, kinda killing it ATM so I'm trying to spread the value. That model is working well for where im at but since this is manwhores forum I'll stop talking about it.