My flakey sense is tingling...
Sooo been texting a 19 year old off tinder, only for two days but she'seady asking me to come visit her a distance away when she goes back to school in the fall. Last night we are sexting for a while and it's getting late -
Her: when do we get to play
Her: take me home with you
Her: tomorrow, next week
Me: I'll make you mine tomorrow
Her: where will you take me
Me: my bed, a park
Me: my car
Me: ; )
Me: even better
Me: what are you doing tmrw
This is all pretty rapid fire, that's why it's so minimal. She says she is working till 5. I ask her the who what where and then tell her I'll pick her up after work. She says she has to be home not too late but will give most of her night to me. She asks me where I live and that she can meet me straight from work... I tell her I'll bring to my place and splay her out on my desk
She passes out And next morning sends
Her: sorry I fell asleep *monkey*
Me: my lil munchkin
Her: I was so tired lol
Me: laying there sleepy eyed, playing with your wetness, texting me all the naughty things you want
Her: the excitement drained me hahaha
Me: damn your cute
Me: just a quivering mess
Her: mess is right
Me: just wait until after I'm done with you later
Hour later me: how is your day treating you
This was spaced out this morning and it's now late afternoon, we only had half assed plans to pick her up after work today made last minute late night when we were both super horny...
We got no rythm right now and maybe I was a bit turbo this morning when she's back on the ground. Anything I can send to re-engage her or firm up a plan for tonight?
What do you guys think.. "Baby are you still down to see me tnight... We can chill first I'm not in any rush to fuck you now" at least that's what I want to get across, idk
This doesn't include enough logistical info, monkey
For you or her? Lol I know I was trying to firm up the plans this morning but...
Her: I got stuck in a bunch of meetings and didn't have my phone and since you don't have iMessage i couldn't message you
Her: I have to go home and change for a business meeting i have to cover later so i have second to check my phone
Damn was hoping this was going to go down tnight, aw well
You've included zero logistical details here how are you/we supposed to formulate a plan here. The emotions have to follow a logic, dude. This is the same kind of spaciness and lack of attention to detail we dealt with when you were actually training :\
I've had this happen to me very recently. I had an 8 basically going out of her way to go out with me. She met me through my sister and asked for my number after seeing my instagram. This girl ended up flaking on me, not once, but 3 times. I won't get into the long winded story of how that went down, or why I even wased my time after so many tries. She was always very apologetic until the third time she flaked. Now, I'll say there were other variables at play, but I know that I made some seriously stupid mistakes. I've only started going out again for the purpose of meeting a woman and was very rust,but looking back, I was super excited/needy about it. For some reason, I can tell that girls have a superpower when it comes to reading this stuff. It's definitely a god given sixth sense or something. One text written the wrong way can yell to the girl you are being needy or aren't congruent with being manly.
In any case, I noticed that the second time we were supposed to go on a date, we decided that she would come to me after she flaked the first time. So that was all planned out, but the day of, I hit her up to confirm with her and the questions arose: "wait are you coming by me?" and then followed up with me saying "No" but not really answering in the best way. I know that the biggest mistake here is that I never actually said where we were meeting and what time. I think whenever you get that sexual or get the girl ready to come out, you should probably set a date time as well as place.
I was given a reinforcement of this by a new girl I took out weeks later who I met online. When we both accepted that we'de like to meet up for drinks, I texted her pretty quickly "lets meet here at this time, and some other cool things about the place like it had a nice outside spot or something" I think you can probably use that same format all the time. When we were on the date the girl went out of her way to say "I really like that you told me a time and place to go to". Then I responded to her "yea I mean I like knowing when and where". She was like "yea its like what a man should do".
So anyway I'll always be doing that from now on.
Yeah homey should know better by now if he wants me to help him craft texts :\
Ey yo, my bad. I wanted to toss at least something up from this girl in case I did need help later on. Would have been down to the wire. Young girls can be so damn fickle.