How to Be Consistent Wherever You are at in Game

I had a talk recently with a guy who was having serious difficulty being consistent. 

He told me, "Hey man, I just feel like some nights I go out and I feel like I'm in the zone and I want to be there and on these nights I do really well and then other nights, I am just apathetic, bored and don't really want to be out and on these nights I do shitty... I just have no consistency in my game"

That's paraphrased but it's the essence of what he expressed to me. 

I thought about how I have learned to be consistent with my game and a couple things came to mind:

1. You can not consistently have better results than wherever you are currently at in the game. 

1a. Now this may seem really fucking obvious but it's also not that obvious. What I mean by this is that if you aren't at a point where you as an individual have the skillset to have sex every night, then you cannot expect to consistently go out and fuck a girl every night. But, if you are able to consistently build attraction, get some makeouts and get a shitton of #'s- then you can absolutely learn to be consistent at that level. What you can do is constantly push the boundaries of where your skillset is but the results of "pushing" won't be consistent. The key is to understand what you are doing to be at the level you are currently at and to do that consistently, while simaltaneously pushing your boundaries. This way, you will be able to be consistent at whatever level you are currently at, while also pushing that limit so that in 6 months to a year, you will be able to consistently achieve better results than before. 

2. You have to understand what it is that you are doing. 

2a. You cannot go out, get good results and not understand what it is that you are doing. If you do this, you will remain in a space of inconsistent results. If you do not know what it is that you are doing to create attraction, then you will be nervous when you go out becuase you will believe that it is just "chance" that you are able to do what you do on certain nights but not on other nights. But when you go out and understand exactly what it is that you are doing, you can then simply go out and fucking do it. If you know you have to talk, then simply go up to a girl and start blurting shit out- START TALKING. If you know you have to get physical and you know how to get physical- just go up to a girl and start touching her- GET PHYSICAL. etc. 

3. On this note- you are currently at, in game, wherever the point is that you consciously know what you are doing- everything else is random luck and chance. 

3a. This doesn't mean you have to be doing everything down to a science- it simply is related to the first point and is mainly the fact that you cannot consistently get results if you don't know what you are doing, so, your "level" in game and consequently what you can expect to be consistent at is what you consciously know how to do. Beyond that- push your boundaries and, find out what works and then improve where you're at. 

4. Just do it. 

4a. By this I mean that at a certain point it just comes down to be willing to do the things you need to do. If you know how to build attraction, then do it consciously. When you are conscious about what you're doing, you can be in a "bad mood" and still be like, "okay, well I know that I need to talk and express myself" so you go out, you're pissed off and you just start talking and soon enough BAM you're out of that "bad mood"- but the key here is that you simply take what you know how to do and then go out and fucking DO IT. Consciously.