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Joined: 09/23/2013

Met her in a food store she was working at. Interaction was average nothing special I was definitely confident but not alot of game was run.
 
Im wondering how you would proceed with this girl and if I went wrong somewhere. I'm getting sick of having to re engage her constantly It feels desperate.
 
Heres the convo
 
12:43am sunday
Me: Mark
 
3:57am sunday
Her: Hey Mark
 
12:40pm monday
Me: Hey how's your day going?
 
1:13pm tuesday
Him: (I send funny harry potter meme)
 
2:02pm saturday
Me: Just watched some little guy devour 15 pancakes at wafflehouse. Thought he was going to explode crying
 
2:13pm saturday
 
Her:  Hey how are you?
Her: Really??? It's not possible I cant believe you crying
 
2:22pm 
Me: Im good just finished work now laying back in the spa. Cant complain ha
Me: Well I couldnt believe it either and i was sitting there watching it lol
 
4:10pm Monday
Me: Ahh my monday afternoon dilemma...
Surf or gym, surf or gym...
 
6:12pm Monday
Her: Lazy monday, I was like go to school or sleep, go to school or sleep...
Her: And I just woke up cryingcrying
Her: What did you do today?
 
7:25pm Monday
Me: Haha late night last night or just love to sleep?
Me: I worked and then ended up doing a boxing workout in the park this arvo.
Heading to comedy night now.

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Joined: 01/18/2012
You're not doing anything

You're not doing anything here worth responding to. You're not being compelling in any way and you certainly aren't edging towards a meetup. I don't know what some of you guys are waiting for but girls aren't supposed to be your mommy and chase you around. 

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Joined: 09/23/2013
Ok so my responses weren't

Ok so my responses weren't flirty enough? I was going to start planning the meetup soon but in my head I felt like Id be better off building a bit more comfort. I was pretty suprised she didnt respond considering how hard she was biting on my re engagement texts.

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Joined: 01/18/2012
Going for the meetup

Going for the meetup is natural. What's really happening is a fear of rejection, but once you get over that you realize the natural consequence is to go for a meetup or plan something immediately

The other main problem is your texts weren't good enough to compel a response. Got to drag her into the conversation. 

To be honest this doesn't read like a text convo from a guy that's spent as much time on the forum as you. It looks like a completely standard convo from a newb who doesn't know any better. 

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Ya I watched a few videos

Ya I watched a few videos from todd the other day so I was experimenting with his style. It was probably a poor implementation of his style anyway and I read the situation wrong. I assumed I had more value than I actually did and could get away with comfort type texting.

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Joined: 01/18/2012
That doesn't even make sense.

That doesn't even make sense. No you didn't think you could get away with comfort texting because of high value because that stupidity doesn't even exist. Stop making excuses for shitty game and do the right thing

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Joined: 06/04/2012
"Comfort type texting"  thats

"Comfort type texting" 

thats a new one lol 

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Joined: 01/18/2012
Lol. I'd like some scrambled

Lol. I'd like some scrambled eggs, bacon, pancakes and some comfort type texting please. 

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