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Had fun day 2, yet non responder the next day.. where should I take this?

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Met on Friday night, hung out for 10 hrs on Saturday with her and some friends of mine (from 12:30 - 10:30). Brought her to my house, met my family and everything. Just sucked my dick and fingered her a bit. Was planning on closing but her mom was texting her and made her go home early. She said she would hang out with me Sunday evening but just had to ask her mom. On Sunday I texted her around 4pm...

Me: Did you manage to avoid a hangover yet again? :P

Girl - 8 mins later: indeed I did!!

Girl: how about you?

Me - 8 mins later: Same, I'm fine. Just went down to Paul's tomb and went swimming with the fam.. They think yer alright ;)

Girl - 11 mins later: just alright?!

Me - 1 hr 36 mins later: Answer yo damn phone fool, i'll tell ya all about it (said this cause i had called her twice by now and she hadn't picked up)

Girl: sorry mang I'm drivin around and shoppin right meow

Me - 42 mins later: Its cool

Me: Did you ask mommy if you can come out and play tonight? =D

Any idea what went wrong here? She's 18. How should I continue the convo?

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Have a feeling ur gonna say I

Have a feeling ur gonna say I should've fucked her.. but is that really necessary to make sure a set sticks? I don't feel as if that's so...

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Stop bringing up your family

Stop bringing up your family in the text convo that's SO DUMB. Opposite of sexy. Bringing up her mom the way you did would have been funny in a vacuum, but coupled with your earlier text it made the whole thing sorta "funny" lol. Funny not "haha". You should be ok just reengage and go for a simple meetup

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Manwhore wrote:Stop bringing

Manwhore wrote:
Stop bringing up your family in the text convo that's SO DUMB. Opposite of sexy. Bringing up her mom the way you did would have been funny in a vacuum, but coupled with your earlier text it made the whole thing sorta "funny" lol. Funny not "haha". You should be ok just reengage and go for a simple meetup

Ok thanks a ton man. Yeah I can see how that makes sense.. will not mention my family like that in the future hahaha.

Can I go with a message that acknowledges her non-response (Eg. I just met you...text me the fuck back) or should I go with one that does not acknowledge it and acts like it didn't happen?

Pre-ordering your book btw.. luv ya

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I hope you bought me

I hope you bought me something good did you have a problem guessing my pant size? ;)

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Manwhore wrote:I hope you

Manwhore wrote:
I hope you bought me something good did you have a problem guessing my pant size? ;)

Good stuff. She responded "hah. you're funny"

Originally i texted her the day before "wear something cute so we match" and she wore a salmon coloured shirt. I teased her all day for it.

Could I say something like "i hope its a salmon coloured v-neck then we can finally match"

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Don't send this, this is more

Don't send this, this is more for manwhore feedback if my texting is along the right attitude. Something like "No I'm serious, I have to get my pants special ordered from a Siberian sweatshop"

I'm trying to learn text game too bro, there's tons of convos on the site here that will give you ideas and such. I'm now trying to work on my own responses and craft my game. So don't send this lol.

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Jeff wrote: Don't send this,

Jeff wrote:
Don't send this, this is more for manwhore feedback if my texting is along the right attitude. Something like "No I'm serious, I have to get my pants special ordered from a Siberian sweatshop"

I'm trying to learn text game too bro, there's tons of convos on the site here that will give you ideas and such. I'm now trying to work on my own responses and craft my game. So don't send this lol.

We need a thread with a collection of links to good text game. I like to go read patrick batemans threads for inspiration lol

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Cholo wrote: Jeff

Cholo wrote:
Jeff wrote:
Don't send this, this is more for manwhore feedback if my texting is along the right attitude. Something like "No I'm serious, I have to get my pants special ordered from a Siberian sweatshop"

I'm trying to learn text game too bro, there's tons of convos on the site here that will give you ideas and such. I'm now trying to work on my own responses and craft my game. So don't send this lol.

We need a thread with a collection of links to good text game. I like to go read patrick batemans threads for inspiration lol

I have a folder of bookmarks specifically for MW/PB/buddha threads that i reference for ideas

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PokemonMaster wrote: Cholo

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Cholo wrote:
Jeff wrote:
Don't send this, this is more for manwhore feedback if my texting is along the right attitude. Something like "No I'm serious, I have to get my pants special ordered from a Siberian sweatshop"

I'm trying to learn text game too bro, there's tons of convos on the site here that will give you ideas and such. I'm now trying to work on my own responses and craft my game. So don't send this lol.

We need a thread with a collection of links to good text game. I like to go read patrick batemans threads for inspiration lol

I have a folder of bookmarks specifically for MW/PB/buddha threads that i reference for ideas

Cool. Could you post or PM me some of these?

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Me: I hope you bought me

Me: I hope you bought me something good did you have a problem guessing my pant size? ;)
Girl - 1 hr 7 mins later: hah. you're funny
Me - 4 hrs 23 mins later: Crossing my fingers for a salmon coloured v-neck, then we can finally match
Girl - 11 mins later: oh wouldn't that be great!

Fuck I really suck ass at this when I get nothing in return

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No worries, you can always

No worries, you can always reengage again. That's why texting is so great, you can always reengage even months later. So don't sweat it. As for her text, here's an idea 'Now we can be badasses and fight crime together. But first things first: how are your sandwich making skills" lol don't send this, let MW chime in, I'm just throwing out ideas so I can get better.

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Me: I hope you bought me

Me: I hope you bought me something good did you have a problem guessing my pant size? ;)
Girl - 1 hr 7 mins later: hah. you're funny
Me - 4 hrs 23 mins later: Crossing my fingers for a salmon coloured v-neck, then we can finally match
Girl - 11 mins later: oh wouldn't that be great!
Me - 1 hr 53 mins later: There's a girl that looks just like you chasing pigeons in the mall parking lot... ok now she's running from the police
Girl: :O
Girl: ya about that..
Girl: do ya think you could bail me out?

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Ok everything here was fine

Ok everything here was fine now you just need to bring it back down to earth and start arranging logistics. Be like "yeah boo I got you the cops owe me a few favors anyway. I'll just grab some donuts and make them play fetch"

Ok so obviously that was still playtime but now you use that as a setup for logistical compliance. Your second text, right after the first without waiting for a response, can be "seriously tho let's grab some ice cream I need some in my life. free tomorrow?"

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I think the biggest gap



I think the biggest gap between novice texters and intermediate/advanced (actually getting regular meetups) is arranging logistics.

It's actually quite ridiculous and I see it every day on the forum. Manwhore harps on it all the time.

I don't wanna read a wall of texts and not see a guy NEVER go for a meetup lol. The goal is to get her out with you, not be witty and make her think you're cool. That alone won't get you laid.


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I always wprry about coming

I always wprry about coming across as gamey so i try to reengage with some witty shit and and then be straight forward. Is that good for a novice?

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Cholo wrote: I always wprry

Cholo wrote:
I always wprry about coming across as gamey so i try to reengage with some witty shit and and then be straight forward. Is that good for a novice?

Yeah, I do this all the time. To reduce coming across gamey you wanna start developing good callback humor texts. If you can make the girl remember something funny/cool that happened when you met her or last time you were out, she's practically guaranteed to repsond.