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later that night i text her:

me: Hey partygirl, cool meeting u. Bet well have more fun next time we hang tho ;b - Alex

next day her: hey it was good meeting you too- we will have to take a field trip over to the camp
me: sounds like fun- that is if you're allowed out past 9pm little one ;)
her: no brewers game then? we're going to be at xxbeach again I think
me: *picture of brewers game but didnt send
me: Whats going on at xxbeach
her: another band is playing.. at least thats what I heard

at this point my phone dies and Im still in milwaukee. we drive home it takes about an hour

call her at about midnight. Wish I would have recorded the convo but she was giggling at literally EVERYTHING i said and i wasnt even being funny. I was just using a good range of tonality. The conversation pretty much was like me telling her my phone died at the game, and she was like ohh you went there thats fun!!! then me asking how much longer she was gona be at the beach which wasnt long but she said i could come over for a while, then i told her i dont have my car here. She didnt either. but apparently she usually does and will next weekend. I tell her if shes here thursday were going bowling cuz its my only night off. SHe basically sounds really excited about everything im saying so eventually im just like ok thats cool ill text u tomorrow, have a goodnight.

she also said she would be on the lake tomorrow and is going to be in some parade.

right after the phone convo she texts

her: going to Colorado on thursday:( but maybe we will see you tomorrow on the lake?
me: Maybs beb, depends on my schedule.
me: How long you in Colorado?
her: not too long.. like 4 days I think
me: Cool. If you're in this parade I'm going to have to have a look at you in your costume lol
1 am- her: hah alright we will keep an eye out for you

this morning i call her and leave her voicemail, which i DID record, but are .mp3s not allowed to be attached?
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Re: Friday night Cart girl followup
@Alex123:

she just texted me 2 hours later

her: hey we're heading home soon sorry!
me: All good. Just seeing if that parade was going on or wtvr
her: yea we just finished.. we're leaving soon to go back to Milwaukee for summerfest

I probably shouldnt have sent that last text and waited for some advice. But how do you guys think I should play this? looks like i wont be able to see her til next weekend so Im going to need to be texting her fun banter until then to keep this thing alive.

What kinds of texts are good for this? one obvious one would be a text of me doing something random/awesome but im just curious waht you guys use for situations like this.

Also, I was going to ask her to send me a picture of her in her parade costume but i cant think of a way to do this right now without coming off as try-hard.
What do ya'll think?
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Re: Friday night Cart girl followup
@Alex123:


4 days later i send her a text i saw in one of Andre's threads

me: Sipping mango juice while listening to frank ocean = perfect.. how's it going xxxx

she doesnt respond

2 days later Im on my way back into town and I leave her a nice relaxed voicemail- it cuts off in the middle but she got the jist. I told her to hit me up if she was intown to hang with us downtown

last night she sends me at 8pm:

her: I was at xxx(town) today I'm sad I didnt see you!

What should I hit her back with to seed this meetup. Some rich family that's visiting the camp is taking us out for bowling/pizza thursday so I could invite her to that.
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Re: Friday night Cart girl followup
@Alex123:

3 days later I texted her

me: Man it was beautiful on the lake today. The breeze was so relaxing
Her: jealous. not going to be able to go up for a long time
me: Oh thats too bad

and a couple days later (today) I left her a pretty legit voicemail: I was emotionally invested in talking about my day- from scrubbing bathrooms to being on the lake getting my tan on, and asked her when she was coming back-

she didnt reply. I'm guessing she is legitimately not coming back here for a while, i feel like otherwise she would respond maybe she will later