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YO guys

What's your take on dancefloor game?

I used to kill it in hop hop clubs with my sick dance moves, or even in latin clubs or r&b clubs when the vibe is already sexual ;) but in my current city they only have house clubs (not my favourite) and i'm unjured so can't really pull off the same shit. I'm usually chatting up girls outside of the dancefloor. I've mostly been taking an friendly approach and then inviting them to afterparties, which has worked a couple of times. In other words i'm gaming the group as a whole first, and then game one of the girls later. 

I'm thinking that just pulling a girl in, introducing myself and then leading her somewhere would be a good idea. 

Thoughts? 

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Ok so basically you're

Ok so basically you're transitioning from the dance floor to actual real game? LOL!

Yes there's definitely going to be a transitory period. Ha! What's your injury? And yes what you mentioned is a very viable strategy I use it quite often. I also had to transition off dance floor game. About fifteen years ago. Loool 

Welcome to the modern day homey! 

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Hanging out on the periphery

Hanging out on the periphery of the dance floor and opening low energy girls with verbals to move them off the dance floor is regular game, done in a dance venue / near a dance floor.

Dancing well for a bit (don't overdo it, don't want to be a "dancing monkey", literally), inciting approach invitations from girls, then acting on those AOI's to either quickly escalate on the dance floor and move her off or dance with her a bit and move her off is "dance floor game" because it starts on the dance floor (and basically you run through the attraction phase dancing). You may or may not seduce on the dance floor i.e. get her so turned on that you two just bounce to another location or just the bathroom to fuck.

Dance floor game / Online game / Social circle game / Daygame / Nightgame etc. just refers to how you first meet them (dance floor being a subset of nightgame, generally). Also I wouldn't consider a normal nightgame set where you move to the dance floor to escalate dance floor game even thought it involves dancing, the same way I wouldn't consider a number close from night game and subsequent texting "online game" even though it involves the same mechanism. Texting a number you got via night game is done differently than one you go from Tinder, for one thing with Tinder you're trying to get unique photos / face time / or push for a meetup to find out if she's really 300 lbs before you invest so much of your time lol.

And plenty of guys who can't dance well do what you are refering to, pull girls off the dance floor or wait for the girls who are "coming down" a bit to then take to a lounge area or to the bar etc.

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I'm always dating myself on

I'm always dating myself on here. #timelessvampire

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Manwhore wrote:Ok so

Manwhore wrote:
Ok so basically you're transitioning from the dance floor to actual real game? LOL!

Yes there's definitely going to be a transitory period. Ha! What's your injury? And yes what you mentioned is a very viable strategy I use it quite often. I also had to transition off dance floor game. About fifteen years ago. Loool 

Welcome to the modern day homey! 

Hm not really. I started out with mostly dance floor game because my verbals weren't that good. Now i've been doing the opposit for a while, rarely gaming on the dancefloor, almost exclusively approaching chicks outside of the dancefloor and talking to them. Actually it's a very specific club that i have trouble with mostly, since they all get so drunk and hyped in groups of friends on the dance floor and not many girls that i can game "verbally", unless i pull them out of their groups.

I have a calf/hamstring injury. Sometimes i get excited and pull of my moves that girls love, but it doesn't feel good the next day. I just miss being able to pull of that shit and making out with a bunch of chicks on the dancefloor lol, but there must be a way to do it without sick moves since other guys are pulling it off. 

Actually, i should just stop making excuses and step my game up, lol.

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@MervThePerv i'm not trying

@MervThePerv i'm not trying to put a label on everything, just trying to understand how to hook up with girls on the dancefloor better lol

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Of course dude. 97% of game

Of course dude. 97% of game is off the dance floor

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Papaya wrote: @MervThePerv

Papaya wrote:
@MervThePerv i'm not trying to put a label on everything,

I tried to help you understand by giving you labels; concepts to apply to make sense of things.

Papaya wrote:
just trying to understand how to hook up with girls on the dancefloor better lol

See that?  "Hook up with girls on the dancefloor"? You mean make out with a girl you are dancing with? Did you meet her there or move to the dance floor from another part of the bar?

What you really seem to be trying to figure out is high energy vs. low energy approaching, indirect vs. direct, and for closing social circle (afterparty) vs. isolation. (More labels, I know, comes with the territory lol)

But I don't like giving advice when people push back, so even though I was trying to help you I'm bowing out. Good luck!

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MervThePerv wrote: Papaya

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Papaya wrote:
@MervThePerv i'm not trying to put a label on everything,

I tried to help you understand by giving you labels; concepts to apply to make sense of things.

Papaya wrote:
just trying to understand how to hook up with girls on the dancefloor better lol

See that?  "Hook up with girls on the dancefloor"? You mean make out with a girl you are dancing with? Did you meet her there or move to the dance floor from another part of the bar?

What you really seem to be trying to figure out is high energy vs. low energy approaching, indirect vs. direct, and for closing social circle (afterparty) vs. isolation. (More labels, I know, comes with the territory lol)

But I don't like giving advice when people push back, so even though I was trying to help you I'm bowing out. Good luck!

Sorry if i came acoss as a douche man, wasn't my intention, i just don't care so much about all these labels. I was trying to ask about your strategy that works for you :) 

My hamstring was feeling good enough so i was able to pull off some sick moves at one point. It's always crazy because all the girls get amazed and you can escalate physically fast on them. I had like a circle of 5 or 6 girls trying to take turns to dance with me lol. 

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I was about to post about

I was about to post about this! Fellas I got a little scenario for you guys I hope someone can point me in the right direction because I have little experience in club/frat party game.

So I met with this tinder girl for the second date at a big university. I had a friend there, and she was visiting too so we all met up and pregamed. I put on a fucking show in front of her friends because I didn't want to deal with any cock blocks. Without going into detail, I was all over the place making these bitches crack up without getting too personal with any of them. Perfect, within 5 minutes I was making out with my date right in front of them. I tried to pull her to the bathroom at the pregame, and I was SO close. She invited herself in, then left, etc. etc. She wasn't ready yet, which was understandable because I was rushing things! lol

We get to a frat party and i'm being SUPER sexual with this girl. I'm not normally that guy at a party but she we were grinding hard and making out while she was grabbing my cock in front of her friends, so much for being a church girl. I was whispering dirty stuff in her ear all that fun stuff. I pulled some ninja shit and got to the second floor of the frat house (which was for brothers only), then we went to the third, and fourth and I couldn't find an open room :( Everything was flawless up until this point.

I then headed downstairs and we danced some more. We went full PDA mode and probably were the two most sexual people on the dance floor. We reached this climax point where she had a hard time speaking to me, it was a very surreal experience. I think it was because all of this was happening right in front of her friends and she is quite reserved normally. Anyways, I told her we needed to go to her car to drop off my jacket. A friend tried to tag along and I shut that shit down. On the way to the car though she pretty much called me on my shit and said we aren't hooking up in the car. I went into some rant about campus construction and she got more giggly and girly and I did the whole prizing thing ie. you're the one dragging me to frat parties trying to fuck me. She just wasn't having any of it.

We went to the party and chilled. I went around and talked to some other people and found some old friends and put the pressure off her. Then, I told her she needed to drive me back to my friends dorm. Yet again, friend tries and join and I say hell fuckin no you're not. I try to escalate in the car but it's more of the same shit she's just entirely too logical saying we don't know each other well enough (she's fresh out of a 5 year relationship or something so I get her mindset sorta). I call her a fag and we get into this mini fight where she storms off and I call her and make her come back for damage control.

Long story short, I think I went too hard on the dance floor. Is this a big club game mistake? I haven't really done that type of game before. We reached our sexual climax on the dance floor, when it should have been in the car.

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Yeah I just read the details.

Yeah I just read the details. I went too hard on the dance floor HAHAHAHA. I gave her too much of my cock too soon.

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I like to make it sexual for

I like to make it sexual for fun but i find it's better to build tension if you want to pull. 

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Haha!! Yeah I dealt with this

Haha!! Yeah I dealt with this problem nonstop years ago. Yeah pace escalation to fit logistics. Also, if she's a "church girl" or "conservative" then yes you can't go too ham in front of her friends, it'll block her from fucking you because she's got no plausible deniability. 

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@Meow Read up on "buying

@Meow

Read up on "buying temperature", what you did was "overcook" her at a time when you couldn't escalate to sex, so when she came down she assumed (correctly) that if she allowed herself to become intimate again with you it would to sex, which of course once her rational mind takes over, should never, ever occur until you've spent years wooing her, buying her dinner/expensive presents/diamonds/taking her on vacations, meeting her extended family including grandma who you charm relentlessly and volunteer to drive from the old folks home 4 hours away every other sunday, all for the tiny little morsel of pussy this girl will throw your way once you've "earned it" lol.

Basically turning a girl on too much when she can't be fucked (MW: escalation doesn't match logistics) leads to anti-slut-defense when she calms down.

Re: her friends. There is a cocept I learned at Todd's hotseat where he goes full on chode around the friends, playing up the "innocous beta who is interviewing for the position of boyfriend", while as soon as the friends are even a few steps away  / out of earshot he's full on lover to the girl, secretly. Think that when she is in front of her friends you need to preserve her image. Also, the concept of mini-isoations where you turn the girl away from her friends so you can see them but she can't, makes her open up more for one reason (there are several) she isn't consciously thinking about how she is appearing to them / being judged.

@Papaya

What do I do? Clock the girls and generally wait till they either leave the dance floor or are ready to and then run normal game. I also occasionally go over and dance and get into the group that way, but that's 90% to pump my own state and 10% because I'm effective at dance floor game. I don't do it in that form in any way that I could give advice. However, I do a variation of the "wait in the wings style" while also dancing to simply have fun and be social (I generally only go to a primarily dance venue one every few weeks, and I know a lot of people there anyway).

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Buying

Buying temperature..hmmmm..yeah that's spot on.

I knocked it out of the park with the friends and fratty-faggots. All the problems were self created.